Buri mubyeyi utinda cyangwa nyuma yaje guhura na hysteria yabana, reka umwana we numutube cyane kwisi. Icyo gukora mugihe umwana asutswe amarira, kandi ahantu rusange, bazi bike, ingorane zidasanzwe zihura na mama na papa. Kenshi cyane mukugerageza guhumuriza umwana, ababyeyi bakora nabi, tuzavuga amateka yabujijwe kubabyeyi bose.
"Reka gutaka, bitabaye ibyo uzabona!"
Nibyo, iyi nteruro ije kumutwe wababyeyi benshi mugihe ukurura umwana uruhuka kandi usakuza mumazu yiminota 15. Ariko, ibi ntibisobanura ko igomba gusezerana. Ntabwo bizoroha kubantu bose cyangwa umwana wawe. Gerageza kubona ahantu hatuje hatari abantu benshi, kandi bagerageza kumenya impamvu yabyo byimyitwarire yumwana, nyuma yibyo, nkuko bisanzwe, biroroshye cyane kumvikana numwana wawe.
"Nigute ushobora kunanirwa!"
Gusa shyira mu mwanya w'umwana: urababaye, shakisha inkunga ku mukunzi, kandi yarayobewe. Emera, ushimisha bike, cyane cyane niba uri umuntu muto cyane ufite psyche yazimye. Ku mwana, nta kintu kibi nko kumva ko umubyeyi we yiteguye kumwanga.
"Azataka, nzaguha kuri nyirarume"
Kandi na none uragerageza "kwanga" umwana wawe, wirengagize ibibazo bye. Umugabo muto ntabwo byoroshye kwerekana ibyiyumvo byose birengerwa n'imyaka ye. Wowe, nkumuntu mukuru, ugomba kubyumva, kandi ntucike intege gukemura ibibazo byumwana wawe. Ninde wundi uzamufasha?
"Uri umuhungu / umukobwa!"
Ni ubuhe buryo bwo kwerekana ibyiyumvo agomba guhitamo umwana? Nibyo, ababyeyi benshi barabaswe n'ibitekerezo byabandi, kuko benshi murimyo bayoboye urugamba rudasanzwe kumutwe wa "Mama mwiza wikibuga cyaho". Ariko, ibyo ugomba gutekereza byose ni imitekerereze yumwana wawe, ntabwo aribyo abakunzi bawe bazabwira nabandi bana. Reka umwana agaragaze amarangamutima niba adashobora kugumisha muri we. Kubuza kwerekana ibyiyumvo biganisha ku byiyumvo biganisha ku marangamutima, nk'ubutegetsi, ku mico ikomeye.