Byose byatangiranye ikiganiro gito kuri lisansi hamwe ninshuti. Yambajije uko byari bimeze, kandi nashubije mfite akamenyero ko meze neza nk'uko bisanzwe. "Bibaho gusa mu bantu binjiji cyane," yari muri rusange, kandi ko ari imbaraga zo gutekereza.
Niba wemera mubyukuri, imyumvire mibi, gushidikanya ejo hamwe nubutaka bworoshye nicyo duhura na buri munsi. Ariko, ntamuntu ushaka kwatura, ndetse nibindi byinshi kuburyo hari ikintu mubuzima atari kinini cyane. Nibyiza, kunyereka umuntu wishimye kandi asobanura neza amakosa yawe nibibazo mugihe bavuga ibyagezweho wenyine? Byabaye bidashoboka, ariko nta kwerekana, "ubuzima bwiza" mu kinyejana cya 21 ntabwo byashoboraga gukora. Kandi kuruhande rumwe, ni byinshi, kuko birashimishije kumenya ko ukikijwe nabantu bishimye, kandi ntukore kubibazo byurungano. Ariko mubyukuri ntibishaka gufata leta yabyo bitanga ibibazo bikomeye cyane.
Wabonye ko hari ingingo nyinshi ziri ku ngingo "Nigute wakwikuramo umubabaro", "n'ibindi byagira ngo ukureho umubabaro",. Muri icyo gihe, ni uko nakura mu mubabaro. " Inzira kandi wihe amahirwe yo kuruhuka kubarwanya. Ibyo ari byo byose, sinhamagaye kwiheba no kubyishimira. Byongeye kandi, kubera ibyiringiro byayo, nanjye ubwanjye ntindamera ibitekerezo bibi, ariko ntibimbaza kwihanganira uburambe bwimbere. Kurekura ubuyobozi bwawe bwite kandi wemere kumva icyo ushaka umubiri wawe, kandi ntabwo aribyo bikaba bikwiye. Kurugero, mubana, ntabwo twasetse mugihe dushaka kurira?
Vladislav Makarchuk yemera ko ukeneye kwiga gufata uko wabikoze - noneho bizamura vuba
Umubiri ni mwiza kandi byoroshye cyane. Niba tuzahagarika ibyiyumvo birebire, noneho ejo hazaza bizatanga rwose ibyiyumvo, kandi nanone atera umuraba wumuntu uturika. Tekereza gusa ko ushaka akantu gato ka cake, ariko indyo ivuga ko ifu ari imwe yumwanzi itana. Dufate ko iminsi ibiri cyangwa ibyumweru bibiri unangiye wirinde kwinangira ibihuha, ariko icyarimwe "ubyuke" ibintu byose muri cake kandi ntusobanukirwe uko bariye. Noneho mbwira icyiza: Guha igice cyoroheje cyangwa gupfa nyuma yo kuyarya burundu? Njyaho kuba niba ushaka kurira, gutaka (ntabwo ari ku bandi, mu buryo bwiboneye, mu buryo budasanzwe, ku rugero), menyesha intebe (nyamuneka), noneho ubikore), noneho ubikene. Ntutinye ibyiyumvo byawe n'amarangamutima yawe, wige kubifata, hanyuma uzumva uburyo bwo guhangana nabo.
Umuntu agomba kwiyemerera ubwe ko afite umwuka mubi cyangwa umunsi utatsindwa. Agomba kwiga gufata neza ko adashobora guhora ari meza. Ndashimira ibi, mugihe kurenza urugero bibaho, biroroshye cyane kurokoka. Ni nyuma yo "kurera" yikibazo, ubwonko bwacu butangira gushaka uburyo bwo kubikemura. Mugihe uzahakana "umwuka mubi", ntibishoboka ko iyi leta izahinduka.
Ntabwo nifuza kwitotomba, guhamagara mu ijoro ku nshuti kandi birambiranye inkuru. Ndagerageza kukwemeza ko ukeneye kwiga kumva umeze nabi. Umuntu yumva byoroshye, yego? Nyizera, nzi uburyo ari bibi gufata ibitekerezo byanjye. Emera kumva icyo nshaka uyu munota - birashimishije, ariko ahantu hamwe no gukurura cyane. Kugabanya kugenzura amarangamutima, uzabona rwose impinduka nto mu moko hanyuma amaherezo umva ko atari "akaga." Nizera ko kwiyitirira ntabwo biganisha ku kintu cyiza kandi ntabwo bidutera ibyiza / gukomera / gusuzugura / gusuzugura imbere yabandi. Byongeye kandi, gushukwa mumarangamutima yabo mubuzima bwabo bwose, ntuzakora uko byagenda kose (ibi ntabwo ari ikibazo!) Noneho, nibyiza gutangira kumva leta yawe yimbere.