Birashoboka, buri mubyeyi wa kabiri uhuye nikibazo mugihe umwana we akubite ikigega cyinshuti nshya mukibuga cyangwa no kugerageza gutera ababyeyi ubwabo. Impamvu zirashobora kuba byinshi: Kuva kurengana no gukusanya indwara zo mumutwe ushobora guhangana nukwitabira inzobere. Twahisemo kumenya uko twitwara niba umwana atuye mubihe bibi kandi agenerwa abandi inshuti.
Icya mbere, birakenewe kumva ko uburakari ari ibyiyumvo bisanzwe, kimwe n'ibyishimo, ubwoba, ubwoba no guhumekwa no guhumekwa, bityo rero ntabwo ari ngombwa kurwana n'amarangamutima mabi, ni bangahe twiga kumuvuza.
Kunda umwana wawe utitaye kumiterere ye
Birumvikana ko bidakenewe gushishikariza imyitwarire isenya, uburezi muri uru rubanza ntabwo ari ugusuzuma umwirondoro w'umwana, ahubwo ni mu myitwarire ye: witonze, reka reka umwana asobanukirwe n'iki gikorwa cye ari kibi, Umwana ntashobora kunyura mu marangamutima ye, bityo rero ugomba kohereza imbaraga mu muyoboro mwiza, udatanga igitero cyo gutandukana.
Igisha umwana kumenya amarangamutima
Umwana akimara kumva aho amarangamutima adashimishije aturuka, kandi icyo yakoraho, azoroha cyane kwihanganira ibibi. Igihe kirenze, aziga uburyo bwo kuyobora no kwibasirwa. Nigute wakwigisha ibi? Iyo umwana atangiye gutanga, gerageza hamwe numwana kugirango amenye impamvu: "Urarakaye, kuko ..." Reka dutekereze kumpamvu ubabaye ... "
Inkunga
Ntutinye kuvuga ku byiyumvo no gufungura umwana. Nta rubanza rutigeze rutuka umuhungu wawe kwigaragaza, mbwira neza: "Ndumva ko wababajwe ...", "Birashoboka cyane ko ..." Ubundi, teza imbere iyo ngingo, Kugira umwana winjiye mu mwanya we, kandi arashobora kukwizera byimazeyo niba akeneye ubufasha.
Ube urugero ku mwana
Ntabwo ibanga kubona abana muri bose bafata urugero kubantu bakuru, niba rero uri umuntu ushyushye, ntugomba gutangazwa nuko umwana wawe asaba kumvira abandi. Reba imyitwarire yawe, gerageza kugenzura ibitagenda neza kandi, birumvikana ko utamenya umubano mumaso yawe. Ba verisiyo nziza yawe kugirango umwana wawe adafata imyitwarire ikaze.