Wizera ibimenyetso? Nibyiza, nk'urugero: "Umunyu wasenyutse - Kubwamahirwe," "Injangwe yirabura yimuye umuhanda - kubwamahirwe," "yahuye n'umuntu w'indobo irimo ubusa - kubwamahirwe."
Byagaragaye? Twese turi kure. Ninde wahimbye? Kandi cyane cyane - kubwiki?
Mubyukuri, buri kimenyetso ni imvugo gusa twahumekeye mubwana kubera gusubiramo kenshi, ni .... Kugabanya imyizerere. Ntakiriho. Kandi tumaze igihe kinini tuzwi ku myizerere ihagije, ibitabo bike cyane byanditswe kuri ibi, kandi muri marato yose yo gusohoza ibyifuzo no gukura kwa muntu kwishingikiriza kuri iri hame: gukurura ibirenge "kuri wewe Kandi uhindure kubikorwa byiza, bitera kugera ku ntego.
Kubwibyo, wakuye he ibyo bikorwa byose ni ibyo byitwa ibimenyetso - mubyukuri mubyukuri? Kandi reka dushishikarize, bigenda bite?
"Umunyu wasenyutse - ku mafaranga," "Injangwe y'umukara yimuye umuhanda - ku bw'amahirwe," "yahuye n'umugabo ufite indobo yuzuye - ku mpano."
Ni nde uzakubuza ibi? Kuki? Birabujijwe? Ninde? Reba?
Ariko niba rwose duhinduye ibimenyetso byose (bigabanya imyizerere) mu cyerekezo ukeneye, bazadukorera kandi bizakomeza gushima. Kandi ndatekereza ko uzi uburyo ibikwe bikora. Hifashishijwe ibi byemezo (nzabata "nziza ku giti cye, ibimenyetso byacu") rwose duhindura kandi bihuza ubuzima bwacu. Kandi, urabizi, uhumeka kabone niyorohere.
Kubwibyo, ndabikuye ku mutima gukora kuri iki kibazo, nibyiza kwandika "ibimenyetso" byawe hanyuma ubisubireke uko ubikeneye. Urabona byoroheje itandukaniro mu isi yawe, isi yose, kuko isanzure rizahindukira mu maso kandi uzakora nkuko ubisabye. Yabajije "kumafaranga": bisobanura - komeza amafaranga. Yabajije "ku mpano" - Fata.
Uratekereza gusa uko byoroshye, neza kandi mubyukuri.
Noneho wicare nonaha utekereze kubigabanya imyizerere (turabita ibimenyetso) ufite? Wibuke aho ufite iyi myizerere? Ongera wandike uko ushaka neza icyo ukeneye, ntabwo ari undi. Hamagara kubwububiko bwawe ko ubu ubayeho muburyo butandukanye kandi, ntukizere, bizahindukira mumaso yawe kandi bizakora ibyiza.