Ikibazo gisa cyabajijwe kenshi abagore batekereza muri satelite yubuzima bwabagabo bafite urufatiro rwumutungo nubutunzi. Na none, nzagerageza gusubiza no gutangaza iki kibazo, kubwawe, basomyi nkunda, ukurikije imyitozo yacu hamwe namashusho yimiterere yabagabo banyinjije kubibazo byose.
Noneho abo mugore, kandi ni ibihe bipimo bahitamo abagabo bakire kandi batsinze bagenzi babo?
Biterwa nibintu byinshi byo hanze nibintu byimbere bikikije umuntu nkuwo. Kugira ngo wumve iyi ngingo, ni ngombwa guhangana na psychologiya yuyu mugabo no mu ngamba zashinzwe ubuzima, rihari muriki gihe.
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Guhitamo bagenzi mubagabo bakize kandi batsinze biterwa:
1. Kuva mu shusho ya psctor, ikora imiterere nuburyohe, ibyo ukunda.
2. Guhitamo biterwa nintego mugenzi akenewe.
Ahari muriki gihe ukeneye ishusho nziza iherekeza muri ibyo birori, nkuko Hologramu igomba kwerekana cyangwa gushimangira intsinzi nubuzima. Nkingingo, iyi nicyitegererezo gikiri gito cyimyaburo, igabanutse-isobanura neza kugera ku ngaruka zifuzwa.
Cyangwa umugabo atekereza umugore kurema umuryango. Hano haribindi bikunda hano: ntabwo bigaragara gusa, ahubwo nabyo nicyo umugore ahagarariye. Ntigomba kwerekana gusa societe yo hanze, ahubwo igomba kandi gukora umwuka imbere munzu. Hano kenshi duhura nibyifuzo kugirango umugore aba akunda kwishimisha, akunda cyangwa ubucuruzi. Yifuzwa ko atera imbere, ashyigikira ubuhanga ikiganiro. Hano urashobora kumva ibi bikurikira: "Ntabwo nkeneye igipupe, nkeneye kubaho, nyayo." Mugitekerezo cya "nyacyo" - icyifuzo cyo kubona amarangamutima ya Live, umutungo wumugore, imbaraga nubushyuhe.
3. Guhitamo mugenzi wawe biterwa nikihe cyiciro cyo kugeraho nuyu mugabo
Mubyiciro bimwe byiterambere ryumuntu watsinze, amashusho yabagore hamwe nibyo ukunda birashobora guhinduka.
Niba umugabo yibanze kubikorwa byayo rwose - ibi mubisanzwe ni urwego rwo kuba umugabo. Kubwibyo, hamwe nigishushanyo cyumugore, azahitamo ibidahurira "kutarangaza intego zikomeye," ariko burigihe, nibiba ngombwa. " Gufata uburinganire umugore nkuyu, ibikoresho bimwe byatanzwe - "nkindishyi". Imikorere nyamukuru yumugore muriki cyiciro ntabwo ari ukwivanga, ariko yegere ibyo byitwa, kure yukuntu "ukuboko kure". Ishusho yumugore itandukanye rwose irashobora kuba hafi, mugihe umugabo amaze gukora ikintu kandi ashobora kwibanda ku kindi kintu, nkuburyo bwo guhitamo, umubano nukuri.
Vuga muri make ibyavuzwe haruguru: ibyiciro bitandukanye, intego zitandukanye ni abagore batandukanye. Ntibisanzwe, ariko biracyashoboka guhura nabagore nkabo bari kumwe nabagabo babo mubyiciro bitandukanye byo gushinga intsinzi. Nkibisanzwe, ibi nibisanzwe byoroshye, kwihangana, ubwenge, ibikoresho, bitera imbaraga umugabo wabo. Kumenya kumara umwanya hamwe ninyungu mugihe bategereje intwari yabo)
4. Guhitamo abagore biterwa nurwego rwimbaraga zimbere nicyiciro cyubwisanzure bwimbere.
Iki nigikorwa cyo hejuru cyumuntu watsinze mugihe ashoboye guhitamo umutima we, ntabwo ari ubudahemuka, kuri societe. Hano umugabo usanzwe yumva umudendezo nuburenganzira bwo guhitamo umugore kuri we, tutitaye kubyo bizamuvugaho. Ikomeye imbere kandi irashobora guhora ifite ishingiro yahisemo. Ntabwo ari ubuntu kuri socide kandi yumva isi yimbere. No mu ishusho y'umugore, arimo gushaka "inshuti y'ubugingo."
Rero, mugihe usabana nabagabo batsinze, ugomba gusobanukirwa: Ninde uri imbere yawe, muburyo, kandi ni ikihe cyiciro cyiterambere uyu mugabo. Kandi icy'ingenzi ni ukwibuka ko umubano ukomeye ari umubano udakomoka ku murava n'agaciro muri mugenzi wawe.