Nubwo benshi bizeye bizeye ko Ikigo cyubukwe cyarushijeho kwikomeretsa, umubano ukomeye mumuryango ndetse no hanze yacyo, ndetse bikaba bikabe ishyingiranwa ryabaturage cyangwa guhora bikaba bifite agaciro kandi bifite agaciro kuri benshi Abantu, kubera ko akamaro ko gutumanaho kwabantu, byatewe nurukundo, kwizerana nubushyuhe, biragoye kurenga.
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Icyanje cyanjye, ntitwigishijwe kugirango dukore umubano ukomeye. Abantu bizeye ko bidakenewe kwiga ibi, abantu bose bazi byose kandi barashobora kumenya uko. Ariko ubutane bwo gutandukana bukomeza kutubwira ibinyuranye. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ndashaka ko umuryango ukomeza kwizerwa, muke, kandi ususurutse, aho ushobora kwihisha mu isi yo hanze no kwishimira cyane umutima umwe n'umwuka. Abantu.
Bikunze kubaho ko umugore numuntu umuntu aba abantu benshi kubandi, inyungu zabo ziratinda, ariko rwose zirazima. Icyo ukeneye kugirango uhangane nikintu kibabaje cyane, uburyo bwo kongera urwa uwo mwashakanye kandi ntutakaze urukundo nubushyuhe?
Wibuke umunsi mwiza mugihe umubano wawe watangiye kuba umugore ubwoko bwumugore. Noneho ndashaka ko utekereza kwigaragaza hanze ya kamere yawe maremare, ariko kubyerekeye imbere imbere. Nk'itegeko, iyo abantu bahuye kandi umubano wabo ukunguka umudendezo gusa, buriwese afite umudendezo w'imbere na buri wese mu bitabiriye iyo ngingo atatakaza umurongo w'ubuzima, bisobanura kuzura imbere no kwigira- guhaza. Mugihe umubano ukura muri couple, umwe mubafatanyabikorwa cyangwa bombi gutakaza iyo mico, cyangwa ahubwo, bareka kubatera inkunga, bakishingikirizaho. Mubikorwa, birasa numubare utangaje wibiteganijwe kumufatanyabikorwa, umuntu ku giti cye yashyize ku bashakanye, yishimira cyane ko azabashima. Abantu rero banze ko ihumure ryimbere, kubwibyo, umubare wibitekerezo kuri mugenzi wawe ukura vuba, kutanyurwa na we nubusabane bigenda bikaba byinshi kumunsi, kandi iyo umuntu wuje urukundo akubura inyungu. Kugirango usubize inyungu kuri, birakenewe kugarura imico yatakaye mubyukuri ubuhanga bwo kuzuza umwanya wa miterere yimbere hamwe nikintu cyiza, gishimishije, kandi cyiza, - niki kigushimisha kandi kigushimisha uhereye imbere. Ndashaka gushimangira ko ari ubuhanga, ni ukuvuga, ibikorwa usubiramo buri gihe buri gihe bahindutse byikora.
Nigute ushobora kwiga? Hariho uburyo bubiri hano: cyangwa kwiga wowe ubwawe kandi wige gusobanukirwa ibigushimisha, kandi utabishaka, cyangwa wibuke ko ukunda, ushimishijwe nigihe runaka. Shyira gusa, uhagaze neza cyane - wige kwiyitaho. N'ubundi kandi, abagore benshi, iyo basobanuye ishusho yumuntu mwiza, bakunze kwerekana ko bigomba kwitwara, bivuze ko umuntu wese atazatongana, keretse niba tutavuga cyane Kwitaho kwadiye kandi ntibitanga umudendezo wimbere. Kandi kubijyanye nuko bo ubwabo biyitaho, bahita boza intoki bakanga gukora ibyo bikorwa nkibi.
Ndashaka gushimangira ko inshingano zawe ari ukwiga kwiyitaho kugirango byagushinje rwose, niba mugihe wita ku mubiri wawe no kugaragarira muri rusange, ariko ntukumve, bivuze ko ukeneye Guhitamo icyerekezo gitandukanye cyiterambere rya kamere yawe. Nibyo, kwitonda bifatika no kwiteza imbere harimo, kuko ibice bitandukanye bya kamere yawe bigomba kugira ingaruka.
Niba duvuze muri make ibyavuzwe haruguru, noneho ugomba guhumeka ubuzima nibyishimo kandi wibuke ko uri umuntu wigenga kandi ushimishije. Akenshi mubibazo byo murugo kubigiramo kwibagirana, kandi biracyakibagirwa ko, usibye kuba mama, umugore wo murugo hamwe numuyobozi ushinzwe murugo, ndetse numugore, uhagarariye igitsina hamwe ningaruka zose havuka.
Kwimenyekanisha ukurikije inshingano zavuzwe haruguru, uba utagaragara kubo mwashakanye uhenze. Ni muri urwo rwego, ni ngombwa kwibuka uburyo ari umugore iruhande rwa mugenzi we, nta mpamvu yo kubikora byumwihariko, kora wenyine.
Wibuke "serivisi z'Abaroma", aho heroine nyamukuru ya Ludmila Prokofievna yahujwe cyane n'uruhare rw'umuyobozi, wibagiwe ko usibye umwanya we, yari akiri muri kamere umugore. Nibyo, yari afite impamvu zabo bwite kuri ibi, aribyo ibitutsi kuri man, kuko yibujije imbere kwigaragaza akurikije igitsina cye.
Ibikurikira, ikimureba icyaha. Nibo bakuraho abo bashakanye kurindi, kandi kubwibyo ntabwo ari ibintu byamakimbirane ubwabyo ntabwo ari ubuzima buzwi, ahubwo budashobora gukomeza kubaha hagati mubuzima bugoye. Iki kibazo nacyo nicyo wiyubaha, uko unyuzwe n'ubuzima bwawe. Muri rusange, hamwe nibi twose twatangiye gusesengura iki kibazo, kubera ko byuzuye imbere hose biteganijwe ko umufatanyabikorwa kandi bikangura umubano wawe. Ndashaka kubona ko inzika zigoye kubabarira, kubera ko, ukubaza intego nkiyi, utekereza ko miss ya mugenzi wawe ushobora kuba yarangije amarangamutima menshi mubitekerezo byawe mubitekerezo byawe. Kandi byongeye kandi, niba uhatiwe kumubabarira, ahita ahinduka itavugwaho rumwe, kandi uri igitambo, kandi imbabazi ziba bidashoboka. Ariko guhindura imyumvire mubihe bidashimishije, fata zimwe mu nshingano zabo, zidasobanura icyaha, ariko bisobanura guhindura icyerekezo cy'ibyabaye n'imyitwarire yawe muri ibyo bihe kandi birumvikana ko, kurema ibishushanyo bishya bya imyitwarire buri gihe izana ibisubizo byiza.
Mu gusoza, ndashaka kongeramo inyungu zabafatanyabikorwa muri we no kuri we ubwayo no kuri we, nkuko ubu buryo bugabanya ibisabwa kandi bigufasha kongera gutera imbere no kuba indabyo ushaka gukunda kandi urinde.