Reka dutangire, ahari, kuva mubintu byingenzi - kubibazo byose byabana badafite agaciro bigomba gusubizwa. No kubikora bivuye ku mutima kandi, niba bishoboka, mvugishije ukuri. Ibi nibisanzwe rwose - mugihe umwana ashishikajwe n'ikintu akabaza ikintu, kuko muri ubu buryo azi isi. Kubwamahirwe, ntabwo ababyeyi bose biteguye gusubiza bitagira iherezo "kuki" bwumwana wabo. Benshi bazasaba kudasaba ibibazo kandi ntibavanga. Biragaragara ko gahunda yo kumenya uko iyi si itunganijwe, ihanishwa. Azahabwa igisubizo cyikibazo cye cyangwa muburyo bubi - "Ntukabaze ibibazo, ntukababaze," cyangwa muri kaburimbo. "ES", nibindi byose biganisha ku kugaragara yo kwibonera aho bireba ubumenyi n'amakuru mashya. Umuntu ufite imitekerereze myiza ahora ashishikajwe nikintu no gukura, ahora yiteguye iterambere. Uwundi wundi yari youth yari Zombie adasaba ibibazo byinyongera, mu iterambere ryayo Zuda. Abantu nkabo babaho barambiranye, imvi nisazi.
Kuki (ngomba) gukurwa kumeza, niba urya byose?
Mu muryango, buriwese afite abantu bakuru kandi abana bafite inshingano zabo, abagize umuryango bose bafashanya bajyana hagati yabo. Kandi vuba aha asobanurira umwana wawe uku kuri kudahinduka, biroroshye kumvikana na we iyo ahindutse ingimbi. Urashobora gusaba gusa ubufasha kugirango usubize ikibazo: "Kuki nagomba (nkwiye (kuba) zava ku meza, niba urye byose?" Ufite imanza nyinshi (Hano na none urutonde) kandi udafite umufasha. Cyangwa umufasha ntashobora guhangana muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose, birakenewe koza amasahani.
Ibi nibisanzwe rwose - iyo umwana ashimishijwe nikintu
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Kuki imyenda yanjye ihendutse kuruta imyenda yigana?
Ikibazo cyagenwe, birumvikana ko gishobora gusubizwa ko ugerageza kandi ugakora ibishoboka byose kumuryango wawe kandi byumwihariko umwana wawe akeneye. Ibibazo nkibi bisabwa mugihe cyubuzima mugihe umwana atangiye kumva itandukaniro mumwanya wimibereho nubwinshi, nkuko bizwi, biterwa nibintu byinshi, bishobora kuvugana muri make umwana wabo. Rimwe na rimwe, abana biragoye kumva imbaraga zose wohereje ku ruhande kugera ku kugera ku mibereho myiza y'ubukungu, ariko ntibikwiye kandi isoni zo kutumvikana. Ikibazo gishobora gukemurwa nikiganiro kimurika kandi niba umwana afite inzozi zihenze, uzemera ko ishobora gukorwa: Reka bitaba byoroshye, ariko buhoro buhoro. Ariko umwana ashima neza imbaraga zawe.
Uryamana na papa?
Nemeranya ko ikibazo nkiki kigenwe kidategura gishobora guhungabana no guhatira gucecekesha umubyeyi uwo ari we wese. Urashobora gusubiza ko abantu bakuru bose hamwe nabantu bakuze bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina bakundana kandi bagizwe nubusabane bwa hafi. Muri rusange, birakwiye kwitondera ibyo abantu bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina kugirango barebe urwego ruke hamwe nibyifuzo byumubiri byumuntu ugana mubyumwuka. Mubisanzwe mubikorwa byihutirwa, ntabwo ari igitsina cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Abagize umuryango bose bafashanya kandi bajyana
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Twese turapfa?
Nigute ushobora gusobanukirwa, yego. Birumvikana ko umwana atagomba gusobanura amakuru arambuye anatomique. Umwana arashobora kubwirwa kubamarayika bicaye ku bicu baratureba, kandi ko twese, tugira amahirwe yo kuba abamarayika nkabo. Abana bakuru barashobora kubwirwa no kuvugisha ukuri kumurimo ukomeye. Bibaho ko iki kibazo kiba gifite akamaro mugihe umuntu arwaye cyangwa asigaye mumuryango, mubihe nkibi agomba rwose gutegura mbere, ariko nta gutsemba amarangamutima. Byoroshye kandi ituze, tubyitwaramo kandi tuvuga ingingo zitoroshye, niko abana bihagije barabyumva.
Kuki mfite izuru rinini / umusatsi utukura (icyo nikintu kijyanye no kugaragara)?
Kuberako abana bameze nk'ababyeyi babo, ndetse rimwe na rimwe ndetse no kuri basogokuru. Isi rero iratunganijwe. Kuragira ni ikintu cy'ibanze. Kandi iri jeru nini cyangwa umusatsi utukura, ibisasu nibindi nkaba wakuye kuri papa cyangwa mama. Baraguha ibimenyetso bya firime. Buri gihe ushimangire ibyiza byumwana, shima kandi ukamubwire ishimwe. Irimo kwigirira icyizere, itanga ibyiyumvo byumutekano, kumva urukundo rwawe, umwana wige kwikunda. Kandi ibi ni ingirakamaro mubuzima bukuze.
Kuki Petit / Vasi (cyangwa Mask / Kati) hagati yamaguru ukundi (uburyo bwo kuganira numwana kubyerekeye itandukaniro ryimibonano mpuzabitsina)?
Byemezwa ko bwa mbere kubyerekeye itandukaniro ryinyamaguru, umwana atangira gutekereza kumyaka 2-3. Kubwibyo, gutangazwa nuko umwana ashishikajwe nuburyo abantu batondeka n'impamvu zitandukanye, nibisanzwe rwose. Muri icyo gihe, abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bavuga ko mu kiganiro, impamvu abahungu n'abakobwa batunganijwe muburyo butandukanye, hibandwaho gato kuruhande, nibibihuza abo nabandi. N'ubundi kandi, wemera, kamere yaturemye ntandukanye, ariko yuzuzanya hagati yabo kugirango dushobore gukunda no gutanga abashakanye, kugirango dutangire umuryango nabana.
Navutse nte?
Ikibazo cyambere gihabwa buri mubyeyi. Kandi kubera ko tubayeho mugihe cyiterambere rya tekiniki, nibyiza kutavuga kuri cabge na serusi, kubera ko umuntu asanzwe azi ikibuga cyangwa mu kigo cy'incuke. Umuntu wo mu bana anyuzwe n'igisubizo: uhereye kuri Tummy ya Mama. Bamwe bashimishijwe: Ibyo nakozeyo. By the way, urashobora kuvuga uburyo abana bahindukira, barwanya amaguru bakanywa rimwe na rimwe. Urugero: "Nahise mbona ko ukunda umupira, bityo rero wari gutera urwenya." Birumvikana ko hari icyiciro cy'abana "Ndashaka kumenya byose", bizabaza rwose: "Nigute nanjiye muri Tummy yawe?" Kandi hano ukeneye kujya muri biologiya gato: ni bangahe, wihitira wenyine. Byose biterwa n'imyaka ishimishije. Ntushobora guhamagara ibintu n'amazina yawe. Ariko byinshi mu kuri k'ubuzima ntabwo ari byiza, ndabizeza, bizaganirwaho hamwe nabantu bahuje ibitekerezo.