"Mfite abahungu babiri, kandi baratandukanye rwose. Ni uwuhe mwana wigenga, nasanze gusa ku wa kabiri, iyo numvise kandi ukosora amakosa mu burere.
Igihe umwana wa mbere yavukaga, nagerageje gukora byose: kugaburira, kugenda, gusukura inyuma ye. Byari byihuse rero, byoroshye, umutekano. Noneho afite imyaka 9, kandi numva ko ibintu umwana ashobora gukora wenyine, agomba kwikorera. Bitabaye ibyo, umwana amenyera ibyo abandi bazamukorera. Bararisha, bashyushye kurya, bakorera ameza, ubufasha bambaye, bakusanya ibintu bye. Umwana azareka gufata iyambere. Igenzura ryinshi ryibikorwa byumwana mugihe ashaka gufasha, kurugero, guca imigati, atinya umutekano we, bigira ingaruka mbi kurushaho kugerageza gufasha abantu bakuru. Nibyiza kumara umwanya wo kwiga no gutera imbaraga kuruta ejo hazaza kugirango umara umwanya wawe wose kugirango dukosore ingaruka zuburere nk'ubwo.
Igihe umwana wa kabiri yavukaga, twari dufite ababyeyi b'inararibonye, bagerageza gushaka amakosa yashize.
Uyu ni umwana utandukanye rwose, mumyaka 4 ashobora kurya, kwambara, gukuraho ibintu cyangwa kubyuka no kubyuka no kwigenga gushyiramo karato, utabyutse. Ntugomba no kumwibutsa isuku amenyo - We ubwe arabibuka kandi arabikora. Yigenga asukura Apple ye n'icyuma, ntimwumve interuro yanjye: "Ntushobora kubikora, uzabigira hejuru." Ndagerageza kumwibutsa ko yitonda, kandi amufashe gufata iyambere. Ni nako bigenda mu mafaranga yo mu gitondo mu ishuri ry'incuke. Biracyangora kubaka ukubake no kutayambara, kuko byoroshye cyane kwambara vuba, kandi ntutegereze igihe abikora ubwe.
Irina Hakobyan
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Ababyeyi bose ndagufasha kuvugana numwana, basobanura byose bakakubwira, tanga umwanya winyongera mugitondo, umuhe amahirwe yo kwambara ishuri ryincuke. Iyo mvuye mu kigo cy'incuke, noneho ibintu byose ni bibi rwose - byarambikaho, bihinduka neza, harimo no gutontoma neza inkuba.
Urugero ruva mu bwana bwanjye: Nakundaga cyane, nyogokuru yari afite inzu nini ifite icyumba kinini, mbona umukungugu, arababaza - nshobora guhanagura umukungugu inshuro nyinshi ku munsi. Ariko namaze kuvuga ijambo ku buryo nahagaritse guhanagura umukungugu cyane kandi ndasohoka, kuko byari bibi. Kuva icyo gihe, naretse gufata iya mbere, kandi natakaje icyifuzo cyo guhanagura. Ibyo, birasa, amagambo atagira ingaruka arashobora gusiga ikimenyetso cyubuzima. Kubwibyo, mbere yo kubuza ikintu umwana, birakwiye gutekereza uburyo bishobora kuyigiraho ingaruka.
Niba dushaka ko umwana yigenga, ntugomba gutinya kwiga, kwerekana urugero, kumufasha mubihe byambere no guharanira kutamukorera. Bitabaye ibyo, hamwe numwana, tuzatsinda ibizamini, tukagera kukazi. Noneho hari ijambo ryiza ryicyitegererezo cyo kurenge - "umubyeyi uteye ubwoba". Kubwamahirwe, abana barezwe n "" guhungabanya ababyeyi "biroroshye kubimenya ukuze. Birabohowe, mubyukuri, ubunebwe. Abana rero mugihe kizaza biragoye cyane mubuzima. Ugomba kugerageza kwizera umwana wawe ibishoboka byose, sobanura, wige kandi umuhe amahirwe yo gufata iyambere, ikosa, kora imyitozo nibikorwa byigenga. "