Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, abagera kuri 15% byabanyeshuri bato bahuye nibibazo bya psychologiya ko badashoboye gukemura badafashijwe nababyeyi. Niba ibihugu bimwe biteye ubwoba bitambutsa ubwabo mugihe umwana abaye, hanyuma ibimenyetso bikurikira, niba bibaye burigihe, ababyeyi bategekwa kwitondera.
Guhindura Byinshi
Birumvikana ko nta mwana utari kuzunguza ababyeyi umwe umwe cyangwa undi, ariko ugomba kumva ko ibi bitagomba guhinduka. Niba umwana ahora muburyo bwo guhangayika, ubwoba kandi birashobora no kuba igitero, hariho impamvu yo gusaba ubufasha buturuka kumurwi wishuri no kugira uruhare rugaragara mugukemura ikibazo.
Ntureke ngo umwana ajye wenyine
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Umwana agaragara ibibazo asinziriye
Ku bana ba rubyiruko ruto rw'ishuri, birakenewe kwizihiza umunsi w'umunsi kugira ngo ejo hazaza umwana wawe adafite ikibazo cyo kwicyaha kandi, cyane cyane, ufite ubuzima. Kunanirwa Biorhythm bitera ingaruka zikomeye mumitekerereze yihuta, bityo ababyeyi ni ngombwa kugirango bakurikirane neza uburyo bwo kuryamaho: Niba ishuri ryanyu rigoye gusinzira mumasaha ya mbere cyangwa inzozi "muri rusange, iyi" hamagara " Ntushobora kwirengagizwa muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose, kubera ko ubudodo budakira bigoye kurwana nabakuze, icyo bwo kuganira kubana.
Umwana wawe ntashobora kwibanda
Nk'ubutegetsi, mu mezi atandatu yambere, umwana ahuza injyana kandi arashobora gukora amasomo igice cyisaha ntatandukana. Ababyeyi ni ngombwa kutabura umwanya mugihe utazibagirana birashobora kwitiranwa nubuhorere bwa psyche bitabaha umwana kurangiza. Muri uru rubanza, inama ya psychologue irakenewe.
Ibibazo byo kwibanda birashobora kuvuga kubyerekeye ihohoterwa rya psychologiya
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Umwana atakaza cyangwa yongera ibiro
Gutakaza ibiro cyangwa urutonde rutunguranye rwinshi rushobora kandi kuvuga kubyerekeye ihohoterwa mumubiri, kandi akenshi ikibazo cyibiro gifite imiterere yimitekerereze. Byose bitangirana nibihinduka bito mumirire, bishobora kuba akamenyero gakomeye cyane, kurugero, ingeso yo "kurya" kubibazo bya calorie.