Nigute ushobora kuguma kumugabo wawe wifuza kandi wenyine? Iki kibazo ntabwo cyamanuka gifite imitwe ntabwo ari igitabo kimwe. Kandi ifite akamaro buri munsi. Abagore benshi bemerewe kwimura amarozi yabo yose kugirango yigarurire abagabo kandi bamuhinduke ibyo. Ariko, hariho amategeko ane adashidikanywaho ko umugore agomba kubahiriza kumugeri we. Kandi ntabwo ari muburebure bwamaguru nubwiza.
Ikintu nyamukuru nubugingo, abasigaye ntacyo batwaye?
Imyambarire igezweho itanga amayeri menshi: Kora amaguru maremare, ijipo ni ngufi, ijisho ni umukara, iminwa yirabura, iminwa yumukara, iminwa ya lubrica, nibindi biracyahari kandi irungu.
Ikindi gikabije ni abadamu bubatse kandi batagigerageza kwiyitaho, kuko hari icyo yabonye: mu gitondo, n'umurwayi, no kurira. Benshi mu bagore bemera bashidikanya ko ikintu nyamukuru ari ubugingo. Niba kandi umugabo akunda ubugingo, noneho isura idakwiye. Kubwamahirwe, imyizerere nuburyo buhamye, ntabwo aribyo. Alan na Barbara Piz, Abashakashatsi b'Abanyamerika mu rwego rw'umubano, bashoje bavuga ko abagabo bafite ibibazo byabo byose by'ubwenge nibindi bikoresho bidasobanutse bahitamo abagore:
- Gukurura igitsina;
- birashoboka kubyara urubyaro rwiza .
- gushobora gukorera uyu mugabo Umutetsi uryoshye, ukurikize imyenda ye, Murugo, gahunda, nibindi.
- Verny kandi yeguriwe uyu mugabo.
Urutonde rushimishije! Muri icyo gihe, haba kubagabo, naho abagore bafite akamaro kanini. Ku badamu borohewe cyane no kwitonda, birashobora kuba ikimenyetso cyo gutabaza. Umubiri wumugabo utanga inshuro 5 zirenze imisemburo yabagore ishinzwe leta nkiyi nka Adean nishyaka. Niyo mpamvu babinje, batoranya bagahitamo mugenzi wabo. Benshi bakitwara niba abagore bisobanukiwe bituma badashobora gushimisha: baca umusatsi, bambara ikintu nkicyo. Rero, abagore basa nkaho basobanukiwe nuko abagabo batibeshye bahisemo ko atari amahitamo yimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Natambwe
Noneho kubatazi kubaka no kugumana umubano na gloss no mu mibonano mpuzabitsina. Ibi birashoboka gusobanura gusa imiyoboro. Nubwo, nubwo waba ukurikiza ibyiciro byabashakanye, hanyuma ct 2 ibipimo bya software bifitanye isano nubushobozi bwumugore "kuba umufatanyabikorwa" kandi ashora mu mibanire.
Mubitekerezo n'umuco byabaturage bacu, igitekerezo cyo "gushora" gikunze kwitiranya igitekerezo cyo "gutamba". Abagore benshi biteguye kuri buri wese, gusa kuba hafi yumugabo kandi ushireho amatiku - "Ndi mubucuti."
Urugero rwibi rushobora kuba: Kumva inkuru zidashira; Kugerageza gukiza inshuti ya hangover, aho kunyura mu bibazo byabo; Gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina "kuko abishaka"; Kuzenguruka amafaranga yigihe kitazwi; Gutanga impano zihenze, nubwo batabishoboye.
Abagabo bumva ko mugenzi wabo yimukira. Yumva ultra-ndende, na nyuma yo kwibasira na we - n'icyaha. Kubwibyo, akenshi birahunga ndetse nubwiza butangaje. Kumva icyaha n'imyenda byica icyifuzo icyo ari cyo cyose.
Kubwibyo, impirimbanyi ni ngombwa mubijyanye no kubaka umubano, bivuze ko imbere no hanze. Reba imyenda yawe, vugurura isura, bikabemera neza kandi bikabije. Abagabo rero bakugorora bazaba barenze byinshi. Nibyiza, ubushobozi bwo gushora imari mubucuti nubuhanzi bugomba gufata ubuzima bwanjye bwose. Tinyuka!
Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina