Birashoboka ko kimwe mu bihe bigoye mubuzima bwa buri mubyeyi ni imyaka yingimbi yumwana we. Umubyeyi udasanzwe yiteguye kwemera ko Umwana we cyangwa umukobwa we atakiri umwana, bivuze ko umubano ugomba guhinduka byanze bikunze. Dukurikije imitekerereze ya psychologue, ni muri iki gihe amakimbirane hagati y'ibisekuru byombi. Twahisemo gusenya amakosa nyamukuru yababyeyi kugirango uba byoroshye kwirinda ibibazo nkibi ningangavu yawe.
Urasaba mubutaka bwingimbi
Ababyeyi bagomba kwitabira imigezi yose yubuzima bwumwana mumyaka icumi yambere yubuzima kubwimpamvu zumutekano niterambere ryubukirange, ariko hamwe nibyangarangiro, umwana atangira kwimuka no guhisha ibintu bimwe na bimwe Ubuzima bwababyeyi, nibisanzwe rwose. Amakimbirane atangirira muri iki gihe ababyeyi banze kwemera ko guhera ubu hazashaka ubuzima bwiza kandi bwiherewe, ngerageza kumva uwo ari we. Ntukagerageze gusaba ubunyangamugayo rwose, ntabwo bizaganisha kubintu byose, usibye gutera umwana no kunanirwa kwiyongera nawe.
Ntugatsimbarare ku kuri
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Umena umwanya wawe
Emera, rimwe na rimwe hari icyifuzo gikabije cyo kugenzura terefone yingimbi yawe cyangwa gukora gusubiramo igikapu, ariko neza, niba zikomeje kwifuza. Kubanga mu ingimbi nta gusuzugura birenze kutizerana kuruhande rwawe. Nkuko twabivuze, umwangavu arimo kwishakira, yubaka imipaka yambere, igitero cyawe gituma umwana wawe "akitegereza".
Ntabwo ubarwa hamwe nubusabane
Reka umwangavu atakiri umuntu ukuze, ariko igitekerezo cye ntigikwiye kwinezeza, kandi ntabwo ari ngombwa kwibutsa ingimbi ko ubyumva neza. Umwana abona ko imyitwarire yawe isebanya nko gusuzugura ibitekerezo byawe nibitekerezo byawe, utazirikana igitekerezo cyumwangavu kubibazo byinshi, urimo gutandukanywa gusa.
Mu myaka yambere yubuzima, Igenzura ryababyeyi rirakenewe, hanyuma aramanuka
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Ntushobora guhitamo icyo ushaka kuva mumwana
Wibuke, birashoboka ko byibuze wigeze gusaba umwana ngo ugere ku kwiga, ubajije ikibazo: "Uzabona ryari?" Kubanga, interuro nk'iyi zifite imico itagaragara: ntabwo ushyira umurimo runaka. Niba uhangayikishijwe no kunanirwa kw'umwana, bibanda ku bibazo byihariye, nka algebra ebyiri, cyangwa muganire n'umwana, impamvu ubona ibibazo bikurikira kubarimu, baza uko abona inzira yo mu bihe. Inzira yonyine.