Ntabwo wabaye imyaka cumi n'itanu ishize, ariko uracyatsinzwe mugukeka, ni ibihe byiyumvo bigirana numugabo uherutse guhura kandi usanzwe utekereza kumibanire. Ikintu kibi cyane ushobora gukora nukubaza mu buryo butaziguye. Ntukabikore gutya. Tuzakubwira uburyo twakwiga kubyerekeye imyifatire ye kuri wewe, kwitegereza ibimenyetso bye no kubyitwaramo.
Agerageza kwigana intonation yawe
Iyo umugabo akundana, yihatira gushonga mubintu byo kuramya. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze basobanura iyi myitwarire yo guhuza n'imihindagurikire y'ikigereranyo: umuntu ukoporora ibinyamikorere, uburyo bwo kuvuga, amazina. Mu yandi magambo, "arrer". Niba ubona imyitwarire nkiyi umugabo utamenyereye, menya, ni ukuri kuri wewe, urashobora gukora neza niba impuhwe ari ubwumvikane.
Imyitwarire ye ihinduka imbere yawe
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Imyitwarire ye ihinduka imbere yawe
Umugabo, akurikije inkuru zinshuti - isoni nyazo, hamwe nuburyo bwawe butangiye kugira uruhare rugaragara mubiganiro, byinshi byo gusetsa no guseka, biheherutse. Rero, umugabo aragerageza kwikuramo ibitekerezo kuri we kugirango yerekane inyuma yabari aho, agomba gushimangira ibitekerezo kuri we hamwe nuburyo bwose bushoboka. Bibaho ko umugabo mubinyuranye asozwa mugihe ugaragaye imbere, ivuga kubyerekeye ubwoba bwe ntibikunezeza, bityo biragerageza kudatesha agaciro inyuma.
Inshuti ze zirakubaha
Nk'itegeko, umugabo wubaka gahunda kuri konte yawe, buri gihe akaganira kandidatisi yawe hamwe ninshuti zawe, ushaka inkunga. Niba muje kumwe bagenzi be, baba babikuye ikaze kubona kandi kujya mu urwenya ku bucuti ufitaniye bishoboka n'incuti yawe, kuba neza ko iki kibazo yamaze impaka mu isosiyete yabo umugabo, birashoboka cyane twari yemeje , ukundi muntu ntaba gufata muhura.
Inshuti ze zirakubaha
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Yiteguye guhinduka kugusanirira
Umuntu ukuze, cyane cyane niba aba wenyine igihe kirekire, biragoye kumvikana hamwe nibintu bihinduka mubyukuri mubuzima bwe kubandi bantu. Niba ubonye ko umuntu atangira kubaza ibibazo ku nyungu zawe, ingeso, hanyuma urimo gutangazwa no kubona ko asa urukurikirane kimwe cyangwa ashishikajwe yoga, nubwo yakoresheje ngo warabonye kuko kwisamaza nk'ivyo, hari ikintu atari ikintu: Biragaragara ko udatitayeho. Kubera ko uwo mugabo akwimenyera buhoro buhoro, arashaka impamvu yo kugufunga akaguha kugerageza kubaka umubano, ariko niba bigoye kubihitamo hamwe nimpuhwe zawe ari ubwubatsi, kuki utatera intambwe yambere ?