Kuri mama guteka, kandi kuri papa, ubushobozi bwo gutsinda imisumari - kumenyera? Nguko uko bagabanije inshingano zo kwiga hashize imyaka 20-30 ishize. Kubwamahirwe, kubabyeyi bakigaje, uruhare rwe mugushinga imiterere yumwana umwana ntagarukira gusa kuri stereotypes yuburinganire. Noneho mama yigishwa gutwara abana ku igare, na Papa basome ijoro - ababyeyi barashobora gusimbuzana mubucuruzi ubwo aribwo bwose. Ariko, muri ibi bikoresho kurugero rwumuryango usanzwe, turasuzuma uburyo amashuri ya Data ari ingirakamaro kumuhungu muto kandi ni amasomo umuntu ashobora kwigisha umwana.
Ibimenyetso bitanga
Umururumba ni vice nyayo. Bamwe mu rubyiruko bizera ko kwishyura ifunguro rya nimugoroba, bagura indabyo zidafite indabyo nta mpamvu cyangwa itike yo mu bihugu bishyushye - cyane ku bantu bafite umubano wabo gusa. Icyifuzo cyo kwerekana ibimenyetso byo kwitabwaho cyahindutse kimwe nimyitwarire idashyira mu gaciro - Hari umukobwa muto nyuma ntagaragaza neza ibyiringiro? Papa agomba gusobanurira Umwana ibyiyumvo bye bitagomba gupimwa n'amafaranga. Ibi nibisanzwe mugihe umuntu adashobora kugushimisha no gutumanaho hafi, nubwo mu nama yambere yasaga nkumufatanyabikorwa wawe mwiza. Kuva mu bwana, tanga umuhungu wawe kuzana impano ntoya mu mukobwa ukunda mu ishuri ry'incuke n'inzangano. Uhe hamwe na boque ya mama, bashiki bacu, ba nyirakuru, bategura ibitunguranye bene wabo - noneho mubitekerezo byumwana, icyitegererezo cyimyitwarire kizashimangira nkuburenganzira bwonyine.
Gukura nyakubahwa
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Ubushobozi bwo gusobanukirwa nta jambo
Igihe cyose urifotoye, amagambo cyangwa ikindi kintu gitanga umuntu ukunda kubyo wifuza, kandi bivugwa ko akumva ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, aragushuka. Abagabo ntibakibicucu nabagore kandi bakumva neza ibitekerezo byawe - gusa ntabwo ari wowe inzozi bashaka gusohoza. Iyo abantu bakundana, baharanira kuzana umunezero kumuntu uhenze ibikorwa nibimenyetso. Witondere imitako yarebaga mu iduka, uzane bombo akunda nimugoroba, kugira ngo uzane firime ya firime y'urukundo - ibi nibigaragara kubakunda abagabo. Ni nako bigenda ku buzima: Gukaraba amasahani, gutembera hamwe n'imbwa n'igihe bimara ku mwana - ibintu byose ntabwo biri mu mutwaro iyo ushaka gufasha uwo mukunzi ukabona urumuri mu maso akabona umucyo mumaso. Sobanura umuhungu ko ibintu byose bigomba gukorwa muguhamagarira umutima. Kandi niba ntacyo bifuza, bivuze ko nta muntu uri iruhande rwe.
Kwitaho bisanzwe
Papa, witagatifu buri munsi, ahinda umushyitsi, ashyira parike ya parufe kandi yita kumisatsi ye n'imisumari - icyitegererezo cyiza kumuhungu muto. Umubyeyi agomba gusobanura uburyo inzira karemano yumubiri ikora - ibyuya, kura ibyuya, gushyira aho bihuriye n'amenyo, kugata kwa Sebum mumaso nibindi. Hanyuma ubwire umwana uko kunyitaho neza: ni kangahe ukeneye kujya kwiyuhagira, guhindura imyenda y'imbere, kogoshesha, genda ku musatsi kandi ukore magicut. Nyuma yibyo, ni ngombwa kwerekana ubwoko bwo kwisiga ari ugukoresha umuhungu nuburyo.
Witondere ejo hazaza h'umwana
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Gusaba no guharanira ibikorwa
Gushiraho ubushake bwo gutsinda mubana bato nimwe mubuhanga bwingenzi ababyeyi bashobora gutanga. Papa agomba kuvugana numuhungu we byibuze mama kandi akamushyigikira, kandi ntanengwa. Sobanura ko mu buzima yabuze cone nyinshi mubyemezo bitari byo, ariko buri wese muri bo azamuha isomo ryingenzi ukwiye kwibuka. Umuhungu agomba guharanira ibikorwa bikora - byaba byiza kubikurura mubucuruzi bwumuryango cyangwa gutwara ibiro kumunsi. Icyo gihe azareba icyo agomba guharanira, kandi papa azakubwira uko wabigeraho.
Uremera Umwanditsi? Nigute ushobora kurera abahungu bawe kandi ni uruhe ruhare Papa agira muburere bwabo?