Buri wese muri twe ategereje kuri ubu buzima, buri wese afite ibyifuzo byabo: Umuntu afite ubuzima buhagije, mugihe abandi badashobora kubaho badafite ibitekerezo byabaturage, bamwe baharanira kubaka umubano ninzozi z'umugabo, abandi ntibashobora gutegereza Gutandukana. Muri kimwe muri ibyo bihe, ni ngombwa gushyira imbaraga kandi, cyane cyane, kwizera intsinzi. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ubwoba bwimbere akenshi bugabanya, buduhatira kureka ibyo duharanira. Twahisemo kumenyana nubwoba duhura nabyo kenshi.
Ubwoba mbere yo gutsinda
Mubisanzwe bihagije, abantu bakunze gutera ubwoba amahirwe yo gutsindwa kenshi, kandi gutsinda bashobora kubigeraho amaherezo. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze yo mu mutwe batange icyiciro cyabantu batihamerera gutsinda, muburyo bwose bubuza inzozi zabo. Nkuko abantu nkabo babaho bakurikiza ihame rya "ibyiza byose bifuza kwishyura", birumvikana ko abantu batsinze bibabaza benshi mugihe ugeze ku ntego zawe, ntukeneye gutungurwa no kugaragara kw'abantu batazaba Hahirwa nawe, ariko ibi ni bimwe - kimwe mubice byo gutsinda. Kurekura uko ibintu bimeze, ntukibande ku bibi, ahubwo wibanze ku ntego nyamukuru.
Kora nkuko utekereza neza, ariko ntabwo ari bibi kubandi
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Abasigaye batekereza iki?
Gukomeza ingingo yo kutanyuzwe no gutsinda kwawe, reka tuvuge impamvu dushingiye ku gitekerezo cy'undi. Birumvikana ko rwose, umuntu wese yemera ko ari ngombwa kuri we igitekerezo cyabandi, ariko mubyukuri, ubwoba bwabo butwemerera, kandi ni ubuhe buryo bwo gufata icyemezo cyangwa abo bakorana / abo dufatanije? Bazancira urubanza? Abantu badashobora guhangana nigitutu cyabandi mubihe nkibi bahitamo guhagarara gusa, bajugunya isohozwa ryinzozi hagati. Ni ngombwa hano kumva ko kutanyurwa bizahora, ntabwo ari ahantu hose, byaba ari bikwiye ko byanze ibyifuzo byacu bwite bidafite impungenge?
Ubwoba bwo gusubiramo amakosa yashize
Imitekerereze yacu igerageza muburyo bubi, niba usabye inshuti iyo ari yo yose yinzozi nini, arashobora kubyita, ariko icyarimwe akibuka uko inzitizi zingana azahurira munzira. Niyo mpamvu inzozi ze zigihari mumutwe we gusa, kandi ntabwo mubyukuri. Biragoye kuri twe guhangana na gutenguha, ntoya rero duhura nukuri kutababaye, niko byashimishije ubwonko bwacu. Mubisanzwe, hamwe nubu buryo ntibishoboka kubona icyo nshaka. Niba bidashingiye ku rwego rwubwonko bwawe nuko ukeneye kwimuka kuntego, birashoboka gukora ikibazo cyumuganga wo kugabanya imitekerereze kugirango ugabanye urwego rwo guhangayika no kubona ubushobozi bwo gukora.
Ubwoba bugaragara kumurongo rusange
Kuva mu bwana, twigishijwe mbere ya bose gutekereza kubandi, kandi noneho kuri wewe: ntushobora kunanirwa, ushaka ikintu wenyine, burigihe ukeneye kugabana, reka ugume mumutuku. Birumvikana ko bidashoboka kwibanda ku mutima kandi ibyifuzo byawe, rimwe na rimwe ureba hirya no hino, ariko nanone wibagirwe ubwabo muribyo. Niba wumva ufite icyaha kubyo ukora, ni ikimenyetso cyizerwa ko ugomba gukora muri iki gihe. Ntibishoboka kuba mu gutsindira niba uhora wishyira ahabanza.