Kwiyongera, kubisobanura inzozi, birakenewe kuvuga ishusho igaragara, ariko nanone ibivugwamo inzozi zizima. Ibi byongeye gushimangira igitekerezo cyuko inzozi zidufasha kubona igisubizo cyimbitse kubibera no kumenya ibyababayeho no kumenya ibyabo n'ibitekerezo byabo kubibera, kandi akenshi kugirango ukore ibikorwa bikenewe.
Ariko mu nzozi zuyu munsi kubikorwa biri inyuma, kandi uzabona impamvu.
Gusinzira arota ya umukecuru wari usanzwe yabonye ibimenyetso imyaka myinshi: nijoro, kandi mu myaka ya vuba bamaze mu gicamunsi, mu poses Reports, yari nta maboko, kuva rutugu n'imbere kw'ubwoko ku. Kugarura sensitivite biza kubabaza, nkaho "bakoreye" ikirenge: birababaza, birebire kandi bikaba bitanga ubwoko butandukanye bwo gutumanaho by'agateganyo hamwe nigice cyose cyumubiri.
Uyu mugore, Ibimenyetso bisubirwamo birushaho kuba byongeye, byorose ibitotsi:
Ati: "Mfite urukundo rwiza, ishishikaye hamwe n'umutwe w'ingabo ufite amasasu menshi. Irafite imbaraga. Mugihe runaka. Turimo amaboko hamwe na we, barimo kwitegura kubaga gutanga ibice byo kurokoka. Amaboko. Turimo tuganira ku buryo tuzabaho - nyuma y'ibikomere, tujya mu Burayi, twicaye. Turimo tuvuga ko mbabajwe n'amaboko, birumvikana , ariko turi kumwe, ubu buzima ntibuhinduka. Hanyuma ubuzima bwe burahamagarira kubagwa, ntegereje ko ejo hazaza. Umuganga ubaga, avuga ko umugabo wanjye yarapfuye gitunguranye ku meza. "
Urebye ibivugwamo mbere, ubutumwa buragaragara. Rusange hamwe, Ishoborabyose - Ni we wenyine n'imyitwarire ye mu mubiri we: imbaraga, ikomeye, ikomeye. Umubiri nkuyu na we wenyine urukundo.
Igice cyibitotsi mbere yibikorwa, mugihe we na Jenerali babuze amaboko kubaka gahunda z'ejo hazaza - ibi ni uburyo bwabo bwo gutanga ubucuruzi bwabo ubuzima bukomeza ko akiri mushya!
Iherezo ritunguranye rya Jenerali ku gikorwa nuburyo ryaryo mugutanga umubiri we. Biroroshye gukunda no gufata umubiri, ufite imbaraga, ufite imbaraga, ubuzima bwiza. Umubiri nkuyu nishusho nka buri wese.
Ariko uburyo bwo kwitegura kuba umubiri uhagaritse, utakaza ubushobozi bumwe, impinduka kandi wiga kwibuka kandi ibintu byose byashize. Nigute wafata umubiri nkuwo ureba nabi ufite imyaka kandi akumva, birashoboka cyane ko bisa nabi, iminkanyari, yumye, irarwaye? Ese niteguye kubahiriza no kwakira mubuzima bwe kuburyo umubiri we uretse ibyo azi guhisha, buhoro buhoro? Abona umusatsi ubabaje no kunanka aho uruhu rwa elastic rwarakanguye mbere?
Iki nikibazo gikomeye kumuntu - kumenya ko ubuzima butagira iherezo. Ntarengwa kuvugisha ukuri muri uku gufungura umubiri wawe. Gusinzira inzozi zacu muburyo butunguranye kandi nta nteguza ishobora gusenyuka ishusho ye nkumugore ukomeye, ukomeye ufite ibyiringiro bya kure.
Kandi icyarimwe, gusinzira ntabwo ari iteganyagihe ryijimye, ritegekwa gusohora. Ahubwo byerekana ishingiro ryibyamubayeho no gutekereza kuri wewe ubwawe. Ahari noneho inzozi zitinya nigihombo kiza n'imyaka. Muri icyo gihe, ubuzima bwe buri imbere y'ubuzima bwe imbere: aho rimwe na rimwe batagangijwe imbaraga zikiri nto, gukura, ubwenge, uburambe, kumenya agaciro k'ibibaye no gushimira inzira byanyuze. Iyi ni intangiriro nziza kubikorwa byubuzima buzaza.
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin