Inzobere mu rwego rw'uburenganzira bwa Minisiteri y'ubuzima ku buzima bw'imyororokere Yowe Hoglikhin yagize ubwoba: "Uyu munsi, imyaka yo guswera mu mibonano mpuzabitsina ni imyaka 16-17. Ku musore - ufite imyaka 16-17, kandi kuri benshi mbere. " Muri icyo gihe, igihe cyo gusama umwana, 77.4% by'abagore basanzwe bafite patologiya zishobora kugira ingaruka ku buzima bw'urugo rw'ejo hazaza. Nahisemo kumenya imyaka ibereye mu ntangiriro yubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Gukura sisitemu yimibonano mpuzabitsina
Abahinde b'Abanyarwandakazi b'Abarusiya bavuga ko uburyo bwo gutanga imyorobwa bw'umugore bwuzuye imyaka 22. Ni muri iki gihe ko igomba gushyiraho imihango isanzwe, ikabwirwa n'ubuzima bw'imyororokere isanzwe. Basabye imyaka yo kwinjira mubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina siyansi yo murugo ntabwo itanga.
Ariko ubushakashatsi bwamahanga bujuje ibisabwa, bitinde bitebuke umuntu atangira ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ubushakashatsi rero bwa kaminuza ya Texas, bwasohotse mu mwaka wa 2012, ahamagara imibare: Amahirwe y'imibonano mpuzabitsina - Imyaka 14 na muto, igihe gito, imyaka 15-19 nayirenga. Muri uru rubanza, ubushakashatsi bwarimo icyitegererezo cyabantu 1659 ubuzima bwabo bwakurikiranwe kuva kumyaka 16 kugeza kuri 29. Abafite imibonano mpuzabitsina bari hakiri kare kandi ku gihe, umuntu ku giti cye yashyizeho iterambere kuruta abafite uburambe bwabo bwaguye mu kigero cyaje.
Pawulo yeze abakobwa barangirira imyaka 22
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Uburezi mubibazo byimibonano mpuzabitsina
Igisubizo cyo gutwita udashaka kubagore benshi bahinduka gukuramo inda. Mu Burusiya, impuzandengo yo guhagarika inda iragenda yiyongera buhoro buhoro - iyi ni inkuru nziza. Muri icyo gihe, gukuramo inda 7-8% biracyagwa mu cyiciro cy'ingimbi (imyaka 15-19), nk'uko ababireba ba demokarasi Denitov na Sakevich bagaragaza mu gitabo cyabo. Umuryango wisi wizera ko muburusiya urwego rwuburezi mubibazo byimibonano mpuzabitsina ari munsi yikigereranyo. Nkako, igihe muri Amerika mu mashuri abanza, amasomo y'imibonano mpuzabitsina arakorwa, dufite ingingo yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina yihishe abana. Nkigisubizo, tubona ingimbi zifite isoni zo gushiraho ibibazo byababyeyi nabaganga kandi zishakisha amakuru kuri enterineti cyangwa kurihereze mugihe cyibiganiro. Niba utaravugana numwangavu kubijyanye no kuboneza urubyaro, biga physiologiya yawe kandi bigomba kwegera abishaka guhitamo umufatanyabikorwa, igihe kirageze cyo kubikora.
Amahitamo ashinzwe
Gusoza urwego rwa hormone, ruherekejwe no guhura nigitsina, mubyukuri bikubita umutwe. Niba mu muco w'abakurambere wiganje mu gihugu cyacu, abakobwa b'ingimbi baracyakomeza ibyifuzo byabo, noneho abahungu, kubinyuranye nibyo byose bikomeye. Kuza imbere yinshuti hamwe nubutsinzi bwabo muburiri numubare wabafatanyabikorwa basimbuye bibaye umurimo washyizweho wurungi rwingimbi imyaka 15-19. Nyuma yiki gihe, ubusanzwe umuntu aje kumenya ko isiganwa muriki kibazo ridakwiye. Vugana n'umwana kubyerekeye impamvu ari ngombwa kudatanga mu cyifuzo ako kanya, ariko uburyo bwo guhitamo guhitamo umufatanyabikorwa mu mibonano mpuzabitsina ya mbere. Bikwiye kuba umuntu ufite ingimbi ni mu mibanire kandi nizeye, ntabwo ari urungano rwa charismatique, rwibanze cyane. Bitabaye ibyo, imibonano mpuzabitsina ya mbere izakurikiza igice kimwe no kwihuta no gutenguha ubwayo, bizagomba kurandurwa mubiro bya psychologue.
Umugabo ntibishoboka gukomeza imibonano mpuzabitsina, ikintu cyingenzi - umuvandimwe wa douche
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Ubushobozi bwo kwerekana imipaka
Ikintu cya mbere ugomba kwiga ni ubushobozi bwo kuvuga "oya". Nubwo umufatanyabikorwa akuze kandi arunama ", aracyafite uburenganzira bwuzuye bwo kwanga ibyifuzo bye. Igihe icyo ari cyo cyose cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, umuntu arashobora kuvuga "guhagarara" no kurangiza byose niba indwara yo mu mutwe cyangwa kumererwa kumubiri. Ntakintu kibi nko gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina binyuze mububabare - bizagabanya libido igihe kirekire kandi bigatera imitekerereze yimibonano mpuzabitsina. Sobanurira ingimbi ko umuntu umwe adashobora kubikwa iruhande rwabo, bitabaye ibyo buri mukinnyi wa fimic wa Erotic yaba ari umuryango w'intangarugero. Buri gihe imbere imbere ni yoroheje y'abantu, ntabwo ari intsinzi yabo mu buriri. Umwangavu akimara kugera kuri ibi bimera yigenga, birashobora guhindura umubano numufatanyabikorwa kurwego rushya.