Ntibishoboka gutanga ikizere nubusabane bukomeye nta marangamutima no kumubiri. Hatabayeho ibi, umuntu uwo ari we wese, ndetse n'imibanire ndende, uhindukirira abakundana kugira ngo ihuze, idashobora kwemererwa niba ushaka kugirana amasezerano n'umukunzi wawe.
Twahisemo kumenya intambwe bikwiye gukora couple yawe kutazigera habura isano itagaragara.
Ntuzigere ugereranya umufatanya n'abandi bagabo
Nta n'umwe mu bahagarariye hasi uzagereranywa n'abandi bagabo, cyane cyane niba kugereranya bitamushyigikiye. Wibuke ko kugereranya nundi mugabo utigeze ugira mumibanire nyayo ntazana inyungu, ariko bizakubita byimazeyo umuntu wawe. Muri iki kibazo, ntabwo ari ngombwa kuvuga kubyerekeye umubano mwiza kandi wizera.
Reka gukenera umufatanyabikorwa wimpinduka
Wibuke ko abantu beza batabaho, umugabo wawe ni mukuru, n'amahame ye hamwe niyerekwa ryiganje kwisi, kugirango uhindure isi ibyo bizaba bigoye cyane. Tekereza uko utishimiye nawe. Wabuze ubwuzu? Kuki utasangiye ubwitonzi nibyabaye kuri ibi, aho gusaba gukurikiza igitekerezo cyawe cyimibanire myiza. Erekana guhinduka, umugabo azishimira bidasanzwe.
Ntutinye gufungura umugabo
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Urukundo rwinshi
Nibyo, turimo kuvuga uburiri. Ubuzima bwimbitse nimwe mubintu byingenzi byo kubaka umubano ususurutse kandi wa hafi. Ntibishoboka kumenya umuntu, kumarana amajoro abiri hamwe na we, umuntu adafite ubuzima bwo kwishimira igice cya kabiri. Ntutinye ubushakashatsi muburiri kandi wige byinshi kugirango wizere mugenzi wawe mugihe cyihariye.
Shakisha ikintu gisanzwe
Ntakintu kihuza couple nkumwuga rusange. Niba umaze igihe kinini mubucuti kandi umva ko amababi ya Igra, shakisha amahirwe yo kurokoka uburambe bushya hamwe na mugenzi wawe, ariko burigihe uzirikane ibyifuzo byawe gusa, ahubwo uzirikana ibyifuzo byawe gusa, ahubwo uzirikana ibyifuzo byawe gusa, ahubwo uzirikane inyungu za mugenzi wawe gusa.
Fungura cyane
Umugabo wawe ntabwo ari umukunzi numuntu urinda, ariko kandi yiteguye kukumva no gukomeza mugihe ubikeneye. Kuvuga Ibibazo byubuzima utabona gusohoka, ntabwo kwigaragaza intege nke, ahubwo ni icyifuzo gisanzwe cyuzuye cyo kwakira inkunga no gusobanukirwa kubantu ba hafi. Kubwibyo, dusangira ubutwari mubyabaye mubantu, inkuru zamarangamutima, bityo ukubaka isano yamarangamutima ukeneye.