Guhitamo umubyimba ku mwana we, dushyira hejuru uyu muntu ko bisobanutse neza - umuvandimwe arakoresha numwana akenshi arenze ababyeyi be, bityo rero ni ngombwa kubona inzobere nziza mubucuruzi bwabo.
Gushakisha umukandida ukwiye birashobora gufata ukwezi kurenga, twahisemo kugufasha muri ubu bucuruzi bugoye, tuzavuga ingingo zingenzi ugomba kwitondera.
Nta kibi
Imitekerereze y'abana ntishobora kwibasirwa n'imyitwarire mibi, bityo umuntu ugiye kurera umwana wawe ntagomba kubona isi yo muri Gray toni. Kugira ngo ubone igitekerezo cyisi kubwubushobozi bwawe bwa Nanny, baza umukandida kuri uyu mwanya, impamvu abana bararira: Umugore mubi azasubiza abana bose bararira kandi bakora igihe cyose. Usanzwe gutekereza. Umugore udagabanya isi ku mwirabura numweru bizakwita impamvu zifatika.
Nanny agomba kugira umwanya wo gukora ibintu byinshi ako kanya
Birumvikana ko urimo gushaka umuntu uzajyanwa gusa numwana wawe, mu mirimo ye atashyizwe mu rugo, ariko urashobora kugenzura umuntu kuri benshi mubaza niba ushobora kuba umuvandimwe icyarimwe. Igisubizo cyiki kibazo kizavuga kubishoboka byumuntu, uhindukire vuba kurubanza rumwe hanyuma ugahita ufata ibyemezo bikenewe mugukorana numwana, cyane cyane niba umwana ari nto rwose.
Nanny ntagomba guhisha ikintu na kimwe
Inshingano z'abanada zirimo gukurikirana umwana, ariko bibaho ko umwana ashobora kugwa gutembera cyangwa gutatana murugo, ntakintu giteye ubwoba muribi, bibaho hamwe na buri mwana. Niba ibihe bito kandi ntibitaye kubabyeyi, ariko ibibazo byubuzima bishobora kuvuka kumwana bigomba gukemurwa kutazaba umutambika, ariko nababyeyi babo. Nanny agomba guhita atanga ikibazo adakira ibyemezo byigenga.
Kwihanganirayika
Nta gushidikanya, gukorana n'abana bisaba kurwanya imihangayiko miremire. Mbere yo gusinya amasezerano nshya, baza ibikorwa bizafata mubihe bigoye, kurugero, niba umwana yanze gufata imiti ikenewe gusa. Mugihe ukimara gusubiza, ufata byibuze agahinda kegeranye mwana, nibyiza gushakisha umukandida mushya kugirango Nanny: Reka Nanny atigeze agaragara mugukoresha urugomo, Uwiteka Ibitekerezo ko mubikorwa byayo arashobora kwitabaza uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose, nubwo byaba ari ingaruka kumubiri, ntibyemewe kumuntu ukorana nabana.