Ikibazo cyamafaranga vuba cyangwa nyuma kikagera kuri buriwese. Ntacyo bitwaye niba babana cyangwa bakwanye, bakora mubiro cyangwa ubwabo, shaka kimwe cyangwa nitandukaniro rinini. Ibyo ari byo byose, ibyateganijwe bivuka: Ninde uzishyura? Ninde kandi ni iki kigomba kwishyura?
Ntabwo nzabeshya niba mvuze ko imyumvire ikunzwe cyane kuriyi ngingo nuko umugabo agomba kwemeza umugore we. TV Yerekana, Filime n'ibinyamakuru bikunze gukoresha amashusho ya nimble (niyo byaba bimaze kuva kera kuva mubyangavu), bufite papiki. Kandi umurimo wacyo ni ukugabana neza, uzwi kandi urangije hamwe na we kuri byose. Mu kugaruka, aramuha ibyo akeneye kandi ashaka. Birumvikana, muburyo bwinshi uru rugero ari groteque. Ariko, abashakanye benshi babaho gutya: Umugabo afata ibiranga umucukuzi, numugore - ubuzima, abana. Ibi bihe bifite ibihembo byinshi: Uruhare rutangwa kandi rurumvikana. Niba umugabo yinjije bihagije, buri wese akwiranye nabantu bose. Ariko iyi ngingo ifite kuruhande. Amafaranga arashobora guhinduka uburyo bwo kugenzura, gukoresha no guhatirwa. Mu gutongana namakimbirane yatsinze uwishyura. Uruhande rwa kabiri rushingiye ku buryo, bityo rugomba guhitamo igitekerezo cyayo kubuntu kandi bakeneye kwemeranya nuwo biterwa n'imibereho myiza. Mubiri, niba umuntu akoresha amafaranga, noneho uwa kabiri ahatiye kwitabaza intambara: tekereza ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, abana, ubuzima, nibindi rero niba uri kumwe numufatanyabikorwa kugirango ushake uburinganire, birashoboka ko amafaranga nkaya azabikora ntibikwiranye.
Ihitamo rya kabiri ningengo yimari itandukanye. Mbega ukuntu ninjije - Nakoresheje cyane. Kuri gahunda zihuriweho ziraseswa muri kimwe cya kabiri. Impano kuri mugenzi wawe mu cyiciro kimwe, ntabwo ari ukubangamira umudendezo n'ubwigenge bw'undi. Ihitamo nibyiza hamwe no gukorera mu mucyo. Abafatanyabikorwa bombi bazi ko bakeneye kwiringira gusa. Bombi bashimangira ubusugire bwabo no gutandukana. Mugihe kimwe, amafaranga ahora yerekana imitwe irambuye mumibanire. Niba amafaranga ari imvugo ngereranyo gusa yo kuba hafi, noneho muribi bikaba birababaje. Intera nini cyane kandi imipaka yumuntu irakomeye cyane. Mu mibanire hari ubujurire bwo gushyigikirana, ibihe mugihe bakeneye ubufasha kandi bitabira undi. Niba ibi bitabaye, umubano birashoboka cyane kugenzura abafatanyabikorwa bombi bakoresheje intera. Kugirango utabyegera, zikora intera hagati yundi hifashishijwe amafaranga.
Ihitamo rya gatatu rirashobora kwitwa "Ninde ufite, ibyo nishyura." Biteganijwe ko ingengo yimari yateguwe kuri benshi. Iragufasha kuyobora mubihe bitandukanye byubuzima kandi mubyukuri ntabwo yumva kubura imari muri buri wese mubafatanyabikorwa. Mugihe kimwe, urashobora kumva inkuru zuburyo bumwe mubafatanyabikorwa batangiye kwishimira iki kibazo. Niba ushobora gufata ikindi gihe umwanya uwariwo wose, ntushobora kugerageza cyane, ndetse uruhuke. Ibi bikunze kuvugwa nabakobwa batsinze bafungura imari yabo bwite kuri mugenzi wabo, kandi nyuma yigihe gito babonye ko atashyize igiceri mu bubiko bwumuryango.
Rero, ingengo yumuryango ni uburyo bwo kwerekana umubano mubice: urwego rwo kwizerana, kuba hafi, gusobanuka imyanya, ubushobozi bwo kuvugana no kuganira no kuganira. Muyandi magambo, kukuruga kandi mu buryo bworoshye, byoroshye kuganira ku ngingo idasobanutse nkamafaranga.
Intsinzi!
Maria Dyachkova (Zebekova), Umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Umuvuzi wumuryango hamwe namahugurwa Yumuryango Yambere Yikigo cyigisha Mariya Khazin