Buri wese muri twe mubice bitandukanye byubuzima bwagombaga kuvuga incamake. Mubisanzwe, amahitamo yambere yasize byinshi kugirango yifuzwe: Inzobere ya Novice iracyazi ibisabwa ni urufunguzo. Bamwe mu bahanga mu by'imitekerereze ya psymologue basubukuye kuba abakozi b'amasosiyete manini kandi bavugana n'abakoresha rimwe na rimwe bahura n'ikibazo cyo gushaka abakozi. Nkigisubizo, byagaragaye urutonde rwibisabwa kugirango ubone ibitekerezo cyane cyane, ariko akamaro kabisaba akenshi ntisaba.
Guhinduka Gutekereza
Mu isi ya none, impinduka zibaho buri munota, niyo mpamvu ubushobozi bwo guhindura amayeri, uburyo bwo gukora bwakozwe ubu burashimwa bidasanzwe. Uhereye ku kuntu byihuse ushobora kumenyera impinduka, gutsinda kw'impamvu rusange biterwa, ntucikwe naki gihe ugizwe na incamake nziza.
Kuganira
Kugirango ufate neza inama yubucuruzi, ni ngombwa kuzirikana ingingo zikurikira: Nigute Kuvuga ko ushobora gukora, uzi gufata intonasiyo hamwe nijambo ryiza, ntamuntu wahagaritse ikipe yubucuruzi. Nukujyana kuganira, isosiyete irashaka kumenya neza ko uzakomeza urwego rwashyizweho na sosiyete. Niba utaragira wizeye mubushobozi bwawe, "uhagarike" ubu buhanga kandi ushize ushize amanga muri reume: amahirwe yawe azazamuka inshuro nyinshi.
Gerageza gutekereza ku busa
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Urimo kwerekeza kubakiriya
Niba umwuga wawe uteganya gukorana nabantu, ugomba kuba umuhanga mu bya psychologue byibuze ntukavunike amasezerano. "Umukiriya ahora ari ukuri" - ntushobora gutongana nibi, ubushobozi bwo kubona inzira yo gusigazwa itumanaho, koresha amakimbirane mumuzi kandi ufashe umuntu gukemura ikibazo yabwiye ikibazo - icyo uri cyo Ukeneye kumenya neza kugirango ubaze ikiganiro icyo ari cyo cyose gishimangira ubuhanga bwawe.
Urashobora gufata ibyemezo byigenga.
Bumwe mubuhanga bwingenzi. Isi isaba kwihangana ndetse ikaburanisha kurwego runaka. Ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka kubaza umutware, kandi ibintu bisaba icyemezo cyihuse. Niba ushobora kubona imbaraga zo gufata inshingano kubikorwa byawe bwite, usanzwe ufite ingingo nyinshi imbere yabanywanyi bawe mugihe ufata akazi.
Guhanga
Ubuhanga buhabwa agaciro ahantu harema gusa. Gukorera mu isosiyete ikomeye, ntakintu kikubuza kubona uburyo budasanzwe kugirango dukemure ikibazo kidashobora gufata icyemezo mbere yuko ukwitangira. Menya neza ko ubuyobozi bushimira cyane ubushobozi bwawe bwo gutekereza kudasanzwe. Guhugura guhanga, gerageza gukemura ibibazo byimbere mugihe ukundi, ntukajye ku "muhanda mwiza".