Birumvikana ko ari ngombwa gukora mukubaka umubano uhuza. Ariko, no muriki gihe, ibibazo nibibazo birashoboka, kugeza aho runaka nibisanzwe: Ukimara guhuza umufatanyabikorwa, birakwiye ko utekereza igihe ushobora guhora muri ubu buryo ushobora gutura muri ubu buryo. . Tuzatanga ibimenyetso bine byerekana ko umubano wavuzwe.
Utangira gutakaza umudendezo
Birumvikana, nta kuroga ntibishoboka kwihanganira igihe kirekire, ariko icyemezo cyafashwe kigomba kugutera mwembi. Niba uri mubihe biteza imbere umufatanyabikorwa, mugihe ubangamiye inyungu zawe cyangwa kunyuranya n'amahame yawe, ibi ntibikiri kumvikana, ahubwo ni kuganduka kuruhande rwawe. Mugihe uhuye nuko ihuriro ritangira gucika riva imbere, ureka kwishimira ubu bumwe, birashoboka ko utagenda gusa kandi icyuho muriki gihe kizaba igisubizo cyiza.
Akenshi inama yo kwifatanya psychologue izana amahoro kumubano
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Ureka kugira umunezero mugihe mubucuti
Usibye imirimo ihoraho n'iterambere ry'umubano, ubumwe bw'urukundo bisobanura gushingira ku nyungu z'umuntu ku giti cye igice cye cya kabiri, umunezero w'icyo wegereje. Gutongana n'inzika bizatwara umubano uwo ari wo wose, ariko ntibagomba kuba "karande" kandi barangiza. Voltage ihoraho muri sosiyete yumufatanyabikorwa nigice cyiburyo cyo gukora icyuho cya hafi.
Uragoye kuguma hafi
Ku nshuti n'abavandimwe, uri couple yuzuye, ariko murugo uragerageza gutatanya mubyumba bitandukanye, kuko wasize wenyine, ntabwo byarabyimba. Mugihe c'imibanire yawe, ibihe byinshi bidashimishije bishobora kubaho, byateje urujijo ndetse rudakundana. Tekereza niba udashobora guhindura ibintu, wenda ukomeze umubano utagisobanuka?
Umubano ntugomba kuba
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Ntabwo ufite imbaraga zo gukomeza iyi mibanire.
Abashakanye benshi ntibiheba, kandi niba ikibazo cyimibanire yangiza idashobora gukemurwa wenyine, jya kubahanga mubuhanzi bifasha gukosora amakosa no gufasha mukunda gutsinda ikibazo. Kenshi na kenshi, inama za psychologue zizana amahoro mumibanire yabashakanye, ariko bibaho ko bidasanzwe bishoboka gufasha umubano, cyane cyane niba umuntu yatanzwe nabafatanyabikorwa bababaye muri babiri. Wibuke uko wabyumva mbere yuko winjira muriyi sano? Niba ibintu byahindutse bibi, ukeneye ubumwe nkubwo?