"Reka genda wibagirwe ... icyicaro gitoroshye," umutima ukonje "karirimba. Ntabwo ariho bavuga ko umunwa wumwana ari ukuri, ukuri ni: Ntibishoboka ko ukira icyaha, nubwo waba wateraga abantu babiri ba hafi - ababyeyi. Irerekana guhindura isura kubintu no gukuraho amaganya.
"Data ntiyitabira ubuzima bwanjye"
Mu Burusiya, kuva miriyoni miliyoni 17, nko muri miliyoni 5 ziza kuri ba nyina umwe - ntabwo uri wenyine wagumye udafite papa. Kumwana uwo ari we wese, ube Imana cyangwa imyaka cumi n'irindwi, kubura igitugu cya se hafi kizaba ihahamuka rikomeye ryo mumitekerereze. Twumva uburyo byari bigoye kuri wewe nuburyo byangiriye akamaro na nyoko wakuzaniye umwe. Ariko gusa kurakara numuntu wanze ku bushake kubona umwana we no kugira uruhare mu burere bwe, birumvikana. Ukoresha imbaraga zawe ku burakari ujyanye numuntu uwimuwe mubushobozi bwo gukunda no gufata ibyemezo byabo. Aho kurakara, tekereza ku buryo utazajya mu nzira imwe unyerera kandi ube umubyeyi mwiza ku Trad yawe.
Ndashimira Mama kubwuburebure bwawe
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"Kandi buri gihe nagiye nshaka umuhungu wanjye"
Umutungo w'abakurambere wa sosiyete wacu utegeka umugabo gukora ibintu bitatu mubuzima, mwese mumvise ibihe ibihumbi. Ariko niba umuntu yavutse ari umukobwa - iyi ntabwo arimpamvu yo kureka uburere bwe. Kugira ngo umuntu mukuru uhagije, Pawulo umwana ntagomba kugira akamaro gakomeye - abana bose bakeneye gukunda kimwe. Niba papa yigeze kuvuga ko yarose umuhungu we, kwiyongera kuri iyi nteruro yatumvikana, byari bikwiye kumukuraho ibyingenzi bya biology. Ni spermatozoa, cyangwa serronosomwemu yashyizwemo, igena hasi yumwana uzaza. Ibisabwa rero "birabakorera" byari bikwiye kwandikirwa wenyine, ntabwo ari nyina n'umwana.
"Gukubita urushyi mu burezi ntabwo ari bibi."
Ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, abashobora gukubita umwana utagira kirengera, ababyeyi babo nta shiti. Intego yuburyo muriki kibazo ntabwo isobanura - nta burere, usibye kwanga no kutizerana numwana, ibi ntibigerwaho. Niba wagukubise mubana, twizera ko utavugana numubare wawe - muriki gihe ushobora kubabarira ububi bwumuntu kandi wibagirwe izina rye ubuziraherezo. Birababaje ko wagombaga kurokoka uburambe nkabatengushye. Niba kandi utabonye ikintu cyose gisubirwamo mu ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, hamagara psychotherapiste kugirango ifashe.
Ihohoterwa rikorereza ryakozwe ntiri byemewe
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"Gukaraba vuba kwisiga no kuryama"
Kurwanya cyane kubabyeyi bijyanye nubwangavu nacyo ni imyitozo kenshi mugihugu cyacu. Ariko no gutinya ababyeyi kubuzima nubuzima bwumwana ntibishobora kuba urwitwazo imyifatire ifatika kuri we. Gusa binyuze mu kwizerana, umubano hagati yabagize umuryango, aho umwana atazatinya kuvuga kuri gahunda zabo nimugoroba nigihe agarutse murugo. Niba ababyeyi bawe bibemeye kukuyobora no kurenga imipaka yawe, ntugasubiremo amakosa yabo - ube umwana wawe inshuti magara, inama azumva itubaha, ariko ntiyumva ko yiyubashye, ariko ntabwo azagira ubwoba.
Musangire natwe, kuki ukomeje kubabaza n'ababyeyi bawe? Twizeye ko ushobora kubona inkunga mubitekerezo byabandi basomyi bagonganya nibihe nkibi.