Nyuma yo gutandukana, cyane cyane kubabaza, wahoze ari abakunzi bagabanijwemo ubwoko bubiri: bamwe banga, bagerageza kumva abafatanyabikorwa ba kera, abandi bagerageza no kubaka ubuzima bushya, ariko noneho hanyuma bagasubira mu kwibuka.
Niba "ukonje" nyuma yo kuruhuka no kumva ko ntaganira, nubwo atari nkabandi, ariko ntibizatabara, tuzaha inama yo gusubiramo ishoroka igende neza.
NTA HUSH
Reka usanzwe dushyireho, uzongere nanone hamwe, ariko ntabwo ari ngombwa guhamagarira inshuti n'abavandimwe bose amakuru meza yerekeye guhuriza hamwe - uko byagenda kose, umubano usubirwamo ugomba gutsinda "igihe kinini".
Hitamo ko ukeneye
Mumaze kugerageza kubaka umubano, ariko hari ikintu kitagenze neza, nkuko abafatanyabikorwa bombi bagomba kubiryozwa, ntabwo bikwiye rero kurimbura umubano utangira kuvuka. Birashoboka ko ufite umwanya wo gutekereza ko wakoze nabi. Tumaze gufata imyanzuro, tuvugana numugabo kugirango mwifuza guhindura mubucuti kugirango ibyuma bya kabiri kitarangirwa no gutsindwa.
Tanga umubano amahirwe ya kabiri
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Humura hamwe
Niba igihe cyiza cyabaye uhereye igihe ikiruhuko cyawe, birashoboka cyane, mwembi mumaze kugira ibintu bishya byurukundo, kandi nibisanzwe rwose. Ntibikenewe gutegura umugabo amashusho yishyari cyangwa kumwemerera kugutuka mu ntege nke kuri societe yumugabo mugihe adahari - ikintu cyingenzi nuko guhuza kwa kera ntabwo bibangamira ukuri kwawe.
Ntukabe umuswa
Ubushize muri couple yawe, ntabwo rwose byari bidasize ingaruka nziza kuri mugenzi wawe: Ibihe nkibi birimo gukeka ubwoko bwose. Niba ibintu bisubirwamo, noneho birashoboka ko bitagushidikanya?
Umenyerewe ntibakumva
Gukunda abantu biragoye kumva impamvu wongeye guhuza ubuzima bwawe numuntu wakuzaniye cyane, kandi witotombeye umukobwa wumukobwa, yicaye nijoro mu gikoni cye. Witegure kwihanganira ikibanza c'umunegura kuri njye na mugenzi wanjye mushya, igihe, bishoboka cyane, inshuti n'abavandimwe bazasimbura uburakari.