Reka tubimenye neza. Mu buryo nk'ubwo hari imitego yawe. Nk'urugero, abakobwa benshi bakiri bato bahinduka nyirabuja bakuze abagabo bashakanye. Ku mukobwa, ubu ni inzira yo gutangaza, nkumugore ukuze ukunzwe ushobora kubara kubatari abadafite uburambe gusa, ahubwo n'abagabo. Ishingiro ryacu rya filozofiya, imiterere yimiterere yacu ikorwa nimyaka 28. Amahame shingiro, urufatiro na dogma ubwabo nisi twunguka kuri iki gihe. Rero, mugihe urubyiruko rushakisha inzira zabo, imirongo yabo irakura kumufatanyabikorwa urambye.
Ariko hano ntabwo byoroshye. Abagabo bubatse babaye umuhigo woroshye abakobwa bato. Ibyinshi muribi bikurikira ntabwo bijyana ahantu hose, nkuko aba bakobwa badakeneye abanyamahanga b'igihe kirekire. Benshi mu bahagarariye uburinganire bwiza, bemeranya nabagabo bubatse, ni abakobwa b'abasinzi ba altilote cyangwa abana bakuze mumiryango itishoboye. Umubano wa hafi ufitanye isano nububabare, igihano, kwizizirwa no kubura ubwabo. Kubwibyo, baranyuzwe rwose numubano uri kure hamwe no kudashobora gufunga mubyukuri.
Mu bantu, impamvu zabo zibivugwamo, ibibazo byo hagati, birashoboka cyane ko ibibazo bikomeye mu mibanire y'abashakanye, igihe urufatiro rwababyeyi rugabanuka, abana bakumbura, kandi abashakanye bavumbura ko bakonje Kuri.
Urubanza rubi ni umubano wumusore ufite umudamu mumyaka. Abantu Hariho amagambo menshi arwanya imiyoboro idasubirwaho yumugore. "Muri 45 Baba - Berry yongeye," ahari imvugo ikunze kugaragara. Abagore muburyo bwinshi bahuriza igitsina cyabo nurubyiruko, gushya nurubyiruko. Kubwibyo, toni yimbaraga zishora imari kugirango babungabunge "ubwoko bwibicuruzwa". Bazi ko ari urubyiruko, ubwiza nubusambanyi bikurura abagabo. Kubwibyo, umukunzi ukiri muto nuburyo bwo kwibwira ko "ndacyari kera," biracyari mu rutonde rwo hejuru.
Ku mugenzi we muto, iki kandi ni igikorwa runaka cyubugingo. Nk'itegeko, birashishikazwa cyane na babyeyi bavuga ko ubwo busabane: kwihangana, kurera, ubwenge n'ubudahemuka ku bafatanyabikorwa be mu cyiciro cye. Abagabo nk'abo bibakorera umubyeyi mwiza kuruta uko ari mu byamubayeho.
Kwiyunga hagati yabantu, bipfunyitse mu gikonoshwa, urukundo nubuzima bwihariye.
Gusoma iyi ngingo, birashoboka, urashobora gutekereza ko umubano numuntu ukomeye cyangwa umufatanyabikorwa muto cyane ni imikino ikomeye, manipulas hamwe na motif yihishe. Ariko, ibi ntabwo ari ukuri kwuzuye. Umubano nyawo nurukundo birashoboka hamwe nibikorwa byose nibitandukaniro mumyaka, cyane cyane iyo abafatanyabikorwa babishaka kandi koze kwifata, ibyo bakeneye ninshingano zabo.
Mu bihe nk'ibi, itandukaniro rifite imyaka ni ikintu kizaba ari ngombwa kugirango wige kubaho: shaka inyungu rusange, imirimo, ushishikajwe n'ubuzima bwacu kandi wubahe uburambe bw'undi.
Maria Dyachkova (Zebekova), Umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Umuvuzi wumuryango hamwe namahugurwa Yumuryango Yambere Yikigo cyigisha Mariya Khazin