Birumvikana ko kwinjira mubukwe, ntabwo dutekereza ko umunsi umwe ashobora kubaho umwanya wo gutandukana. Impuguke zo Gutandukana Zabahanga Urubanza Iyo Uruhu rwa Sosiyete rushobore kubuzwa, ariko ntakintu gishobora gusubizwa. Niyo mpamvu twakusanyije amategeko atanu, dukurikije, urashobora kwirinda ibibazo ko igice kinini cyabagore mumaso.
Urashyingirwa, kandi ntukishingikirize
Benshi, niba atari abagore benshi, bizeye ko nyuma yo kwakira kashe yakunzwe muri pasiporo, inshingano zabo zirimo kwita ku mugabo we, utiyita. Mugihe ubyumva, ibisubizo byuko gushyingirwa bihinduka cyangwa bikaba bibi, umugore ahitamo kwakira umwanya wabo utabogamye. Wibuke ko umugabo wawe ari umufatanyabikorwa ugomba kugutera inkunga, kubaha kandi cyane, urukundo ntabwo ari ishati yo gutetse nishati yo gutwika, ariko nkibyo. Umubano wawe ukimara guhinduka ibicuruzwa, ntituzavuga kubyerekeye guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma guma.
Hitamo umugabo, wibanda kubyo babonye, kandi ntabwo ibitekerezo biva
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Umugabo ahora agushyigikira
Nkuko twabivuze, umukunzi wawe agomba kuguha inkunga, kandi ntukarakare ibiba byose. Mubisanzwe, abagabo barababara cyane batyo kugirango biyongereyeho kwiyongera cyangwa gufungura ubucuruzi bwabo, barashobora kumvikana, ariko ntibabyemera. Mbere yo gusubiza "Yego" kuri kimwe mubibazo byingenzi mubuzima, menya neza ko umuntu asangiye ibyifuzo byawe kandi afata ibintu byose mubuzima bwawe.
Ugomba kwizera imbaraga zawe
Abagore bakunze kuba bahohotewe nubusabane bwuburozi, nkuko bisanzwe, batinya impinduka nubuzima bwigenga. Ariko, kugenzura ubuzima bwe itanga amahirwe adasanzwe kandi, cyane cyane, urashobora guhitamo uwo uzahura cyangwa ugatangira ubuzima buhuriweho. Wibuke ko uri umuntu wose udakeneye umugabo kugirango umuntu abone umwanya cyangwa kwemezwa nabandi, birakenewe, ubanza, wowe.
Kora umusanzu wamafaranga mumibanire
Nibyo, bizera ko umugabo aricunga nyamukuru mumuryango, ariko ubu buryo buragushyira mumwanya wishingikirije. Byongeye kandi, ntamuntu numwe uzi uko ubuzima bwumutse, wenda umunsi umwe, itangwa ryumuryango izagwa ku bitugu, kandi ugomba kuba witeguye, bityo rero uruhare rurerure rwubwenge bwo murugo rushobora gukina urwenya nawe.