Nibyo, icyemezo cyo kuba umubyeyi kigomba guhagarikwa no kubushake. Ni ngombwa kumva ko umwana atari umunezero utagira ingano, urwenya kandi anyuzwe, uburezi - umurimo uremereye abantu bose batabyitwaramo, ariko ntibisobanura ko umunezero w'ububyeyi ukeneye gutereranwa. Tuzavuga kubyerekeye impamvu eshatu zigenewe kugutera inkunga yo gutegura kwaguka umuryango.
Urashobora kongera kubaho mugihe cyubwana
Kugaragara mu nzu yumwana bizahindura rwose inzira yawe hamwe nisi. Urashobora rwose "byemewe" kwishora mu isi yishimishije abana batakunzwe kuva impinduka zigana mumashuri yisumbuye. Hamwe numwana, uzashobora kuvumbura impano zitakekwa mbere, witabira ibirori byo guhanga cyangwa kumarana umwanya numwana n'inshuti ze mugihe imyoma ziturutse ahantu haturutseho. Byongeye kandi, urashobora kongera gutekereza ku myifatire yawe kubabyeyi, niba warigeze kugira ibibazo mu gusobanukirwa. Ubona gute ugerageje?
Urashobora kongera kubaho mugihe cyubwana
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Wige kwishima
Ndetse na mbere yigihe umwana azagaragara mubuzima bwawe, uzasa nkaho ushobora kugabanya imisozi - ufite umwanya wo kugira aho uhari. Ariko, birakwiye gusa kwibizwa mubibazo byerekeranye numwana, mugihe utangiye kumva ko umutungo wumubiri utagira iherezo, kandi umuriro urabaho rwose. Uzamenya gukwirakwiza umutwaro, saba ubufasha aho bibaye ngombwa kandi, amaherezo, umva ibisabwa byumubiri wawe, niba utabikora mbere.
Twese turi beza
Birumvikana ko umubyeyi wese ushaka kuba mwiza byibuze kumwana we, mubyukuri, umugore agomba gutenguha, ariko muriki gihe kidashimishije hariho ubushuhe - urabona ko nta cyiza, birashoboka Shakisha. Gufata ibyo ushobora kwigurira kugirango ubeho kandi ntugire ubwoba kuko watwitse pororige, kandi umuhungu wumukobwa wumukobwa asanzwe ashoboye guhuza imigozi, kandi ibyawe ntibirahari, bivuze cyane ko ntakibazo kirenze n'ubutungane butari bwiza.