Kwigomwa bimaze igihe kinini byaretse kuba umuco mwiza. Mu isi ya none, ubushobozi bwo kurengera inyungu zabo mu kurengera inyungu zabo no gufasha abantu kwigenga kubibazo. Mugihe uhagaritse gutoranya ibintu byawe bwite, ubuzima ako kanya biroroshye: ufite imbaraga nigihe cyo gushyira mubikorwa gahunda zacu. Asobanura impamvu yo kuba umugambi woroshye kandi woroshye ubungubu.
Ntugatakambire imbaraga
Umuntu wenyine ugomba gusubika gahunda zawe numwana wawe mumyaka itatu yambere nyuma yo kuvuka mugihe akeneye rwose igitugu cyababyeyi. Kubwumugabo we, abakobwa bakundana, abo mukorana nibindi bitambo byumunsi n'intego ntibishoboka - abantu kwihagije ntibabisaba. Umva ko burimunsi ufite amasaha 24 gusa kugirango wegere intego zawe - birakwiye kumara umwanya mubiganiro bidafite akamaro kubyerekeye inshuti cyangwa mugenzi wumugabo ubabaza? Nibyo, ni ngombwa kubantu iyo bakumva, ariko nibyiza kubaha inama nyazo, uburyo bwo gukora mubihe, kandi ntibibe ikositimu.
Akenshi kuguma wenyine wenyine
Mu muco wacu, byemewe ko, tumaze kwikuramo umubano, abantu bahinduka umwe. Hagati aho, ubumwe bukabije na mugenzi wawe ntibungukirwa - nyuma yawe, ikibatsi cya mbere cyatakaye hagati yawe. Fata umwanya wo kuba wenyine hamwe nawe nibitekerezo byawe: Jya kumyitozo muri siporo, wige muri parike, ujye mu biruhuko nta kiruhuko. Gutandukana nibidukikije bisanzwe kandi usuye wenyine, urashobora kureba hafi no kumva niba urishimye rwose, ukaba uri kumwe nabo.
Fata umwanya hamwe n'inyungu
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Wige kuvuga "Oya"
Ntugomba gufasha ababyeyi mu busitani, mwicare hamwe numwana wa mukuru wawe kandi ugendere ku guhaha hamwe ninshuti ye niba utabishaka. Birumvikana ko ubanza kunanirwa kwawe kuzafatwa nkimvururu: Byari byoroshye kwicara ku ijosi no kugukoresha nk'abakozi ku buntu hamwe na mugenzi wawe ushimishije wo kugenda. Abantu bagomba kumenyera gutwara inshingano kubyo bafashe, kandi ntibabihindure kubandi: ababyeyi ntibagomba gutera imboga nyinshi nkabo ubwabo ntibashobora gukura no kurya, kandi mushiki mwiza yakoraga akazi ko guha akazi nanny. Kwitwara neza muburyo bwo kwicira urubanza, andika ibibazo byawe byose mucyumweru, hanyuma ushima umwanya umara wenyine, kandi amafaranga menshi - yemerewe.
Ntutinye gutandukana nabantu
Ubucuti nurukundo mbere yuko isanduku ntibizagushimisha niba igihe cyabo kizakemwa no kwihangana kwawe. Buri gihe ubwire abantu uvugishije ukuri, icyo utekereza kuri bo - ntugerageze kuba umuntu wisi ugakora inshuti na buri konti. Ibi nibisanzwe mugihe inyungu zawe hamwe nabakunzi batandukanijwe nawe, nta gutongana kandi usuzugure, reka guhagarika umwanya wo kutazana umunezero winama. Menya uko ubyumva numuntu, gusa: niba nyuma yinama wumva kuzamuka no kuzura, nintege nke nintege nke, bisobanura kumutandukanya.