Ndetse n'akazi keza cyane karashobora kwibeshya cyangwa gutangira kutaza kunyurwa cyane, uburambe umwanya uwo arirose, guhera mu kurakara bito, niba utabitera ubwoba afite ubwoba, niba utabikora shaka gukosora uko ibintu bimeze ku gihe.
Twahisemo guteranya ibitekerezo byinshi benshi muri twe tubabazwa buri munsi, kimwe no kuvuga uburyo bwo kohereza imitekerereze kuruhande rwiza.
"Uyu munsi urangiye!"
Umenyereye? Twizeye ko yego. Ahari igisubizo cyiki kibazo ntabwo kizaba umwimerere cyane, ariko ugomba guhindura imyifatire yawe kubibaho. Ni ngombwa kumva ko ibiro bitunganye, abo dukorana ndetse n'ikirere bitabaho, kimwe mu bintu gihora "kikiza." Ibuka ingingo zose nziza zerekeye akazi kawe, nk'urugero, umushahara uhamye, ibiro byiza byishyuwe mu kiruhuko cy'uburwayi n'ibiruhuko. Gerageza kutareka ibibi mubitekerezo byawe, tuba duhangayikishijwe cyane nubuzima bwawe, none kuki bitera imiraba mishya ya negativite?
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"Kuki akazi kenshi? Ntabwo nahanganye! "
Kandi ikirego gikunze kwirega ku murage utuyemo. Wibuke ko udategetswe gukemura ibibazo byose byisosiyete wenyine: Niba akazi ari byinshi kandi ukabura uhanganye nubunini, saba ubufasha. Gukora gusa nkikipe ihuriweho birashobora kugera kubisubizo nyabyo.
Niba ntakibazo cyo gusangira inshingano, utabishaka, kwiyegurira buri icumi mbere yumunsi wakazi wa gahunda yumunsi wakazi, gukwirakwiza imirimo ukurikije urwego rwingenzi kandi ukomeze kubishyira imbere.
"Nibyo, niba numva ..."
Yikoresheje ubwe, udafite ubuhanga bwawe buhebuje, ishami ntirishobora guhangana na gahunda, wowe ubwawe wirukane mu mihangayiko, aho bizagorana cyane. Kora muri leta nkiyi, nkuko ubyumva, biragoye cyane. Nibyo, gutunganirwa no kwihesha agaciro bigomba kuba bihari kurwego runaka, ariko ntugomba gukomeza ubwibone bwawe kandi utangaze abo mukorana kubijyanye n'akamaro kawe: Urashobora gushira ahantu muburyo butari bwo uzakuzanira imibabaro yinyongera .
"Nkumbuye ubumenyi"
Ntibishoboka kumenya byose, kandi iyi ni ukuri. Kuba uzabona rimwe na rimwe kubura amakuru - ibintu bisanzwe byakemuwe namahugurwa agezweho cyangwa amahugurwa. Ariko, gukandamiza buri gihe kubitekerezo ko uri mubintu bibi kuruta "dasha kuva mu ishami rishinzwe guturanye", biguhitamo rwose kuva mu gitaramo, kandi uzabikeneye na gato.