Isosiyete yamaze kunga kumenyera ko ibihano byumubiri bifatwa nkihohoterwa kandi bigomba gucirwaho iteka. Ariko, nk'abaganga bo muri pysiters bavuga ngo, Ihohoterwa ntirigarukira gusa kubakubita urushyi na bagenzi bonyine. Afite ubundi buryo, butagaragara.
Rero, abahanga bavuga ko gutaka kw'ababyeyi kuzana umwana byibuze kuruta gukubita papa. Ubwoko bw'igihano bwombi butagira imitekerereze y'abana.
Mu ngaruka mbi z'ihohoterwa - gutinda ku iterambere ryo mu mutwe no ku mubiri. Umwana yakunze guhura nibihano ahungabana na Mechanism yo gushiraho imigereka. Ntashobora no kwizerana n'ababyeyi be 100%.
Umwana, akandamizwa no kubyakiriye abantu bakuru, ntabwo atangira kwiga neza nyuma yo gusiganwa byatewe na "kabiri". Ibinyuranye, ubushobozi bwe bwo kumenya kwangirika mugihe gito, kubera ibyo abona kongerwa kugirango abone isuzumabubi.
Nkuko bigaragara, ihohoterwa rigaragara ntiriganisha ku "gukosora" umwana, no gutwara umuryango mu ruziga rukabije. Abana batangira gutinya ababyeyi babo no kubabeshya kugirango birinde ibihano.
Kubwibyo, abantu bakuru bagomba gukora kugirango bayobore amarangamutima yabo, kandi ibibazo byumwana mumyitwarire yabo nibikorwa birashobora gukemurwa utuje, nibiba ngombwa, bahindukirira abigisha, abaganga n'abaganga.