Nzi neza ko ubwiza buva imbere. Kubwibyo, ugomba kwita ku isi yawe y'imbere. Mbere ya byose, bireba ibitekerezo byacu. Ubwenge bwacu bukora rwose ubuzima bwacu. Ubwiza nyabwo ntaho buhuriye no kunyerera, imyanya kumirire, kogosha amaguru, umusatsi ushushanya nibindi bikoresho tutwara bidashoboka.
Ubwiza nicyo utekereza kuri wewe, ku isi izengurutse umuryango wawe. Hariho imvugo yibicuruzwa: "Turi ibyo turya", havuga ko ibiryo byacu bigize umubiri. Ibitekerezo byacu ni ibiryo byimitekerereze yacu, baraburirwa kandi bakadushiraho nkuko babona abandi. Niba umuntu yiganjemo "ibitekerezo biryoshye", yikunda, isi, ikora mubyo akunda, murakoze kubyo afite, noneho abantu babona ko asa nkusa. Iraka umunezero wimbere no kugirira neza. Ariko niba umukobwa yahoraga yishora mu kwiteza kunegura, ikintu kidanyurwa numuntu ubabaje cyangwa ikibi, umuntu ufite ishyari, nayo iragaragara, kandi ikanarukana ku rwego rwibanze. Ibitekerezo bibi byose bigomba gutsemba. Hanyuma ubwiza bwawe ntibuza hanze, ahubwo buzava imbere.
Ndashobora kuvuga ibi nkuwatsinze Miss Uburusiya umwaka ushize. Nari nkikijwe n'abakobwa beza batangaje, ariko mu myitozo nabonye uko bavuga ubwabo, ko bafite ibigo byinshi, batazi kwitwara, etc. Icyizere cyanjye nuko numva Nibyiza ko nishimira inzira, byamfashije gutsinda, ntabwo ndi mwiza kurusha abandi cyangwa mfite ukuguru kurambuye. Nyuma yanjye, nakunze kwandikwa cyane mububiko no kubaza icyo gukora kugirango ntsinde mumarushanwa: Icyo imyambarire igomba kuba, uburyo bwo guhitamo kwiyegereza, nibyiza kwerekana ku marushanwa yo guhanga. Buri gihe nsubiza ibi bibazo ntabwo ibara ryimyambaro cyangwa koga ihitamo byose: abantu babona ubugingo bwawe iyo uzanye neza nurukundo, ibintu byose biri murugendo.