Nibyo, umugabo wese bigoye gusimbuka umugore mwiza mwiza, kandi ubu ni ukuri. Ariko niba umugabo ateganya umubano kurenza amajoro abiri, ugomba guteza imbere imico izashobora gushimisha umukunzi igihe kirekire. Tuzabwirwa, icyo abagore batera abagabo inyungu zivuye ku mutima kandi bubaha.
Witondere witonze
Ntacyo bitwaye amaguru yawe, yaba iminwa yawe cyangwa amabere ahagije, ariko ubwikunde no mumukwe ni uko umuntu wese ashima neza. Ntutekereze ko ushobora guhisha umusatsi mu kiti, azabona uko byagenda kose, niko bigenda ku ruhu n'imisumari - igorofa ikomeye ikurura ibintu nk'ibi, nka lacquer cyangwa ibisigisigi bitabona ko ari ngombwa gukaraba umunsi ubanziriza.
Soma byinshi
Ibanze, ariko Ukuri: Niba umuntu atavugana nawe, azahita abona umugore mushya ushobora kuganira ku nsanganyamatsiko ye imushimisha. Mwisi ya none biragoye kubona umwanya kubintu byingirakamaro rwose, ariko biracyakwiye kugerageza no gutanga byibuze amasaha abiri mucyumweru kugirango usome ibice byinshi. Rero, mumezi abiri uzamenya igitabo cyose, kizaba gisanzweho. Gerageza guhitamo ibitabo muburyo butandukanye kugirango usobanukirwe ako kanya. Umugabo azishimira imbarutso yawe yubumenyi bushya.
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Passivity - Umwanzi wawe
Nkuko twabivuze, uyu munsi biragoye kubona umwanya kubintu byingenzi kuri twe: imirimo myinshi yumunsi, umuryango ninshingano zakazi. Ariko, ibi ntibisobanura ko ugomba kumena ukuboko kwawe. Umuntu wese uzaba mwiza niba umugore we azatererana, kandi kubwibyo ari ngombwa kwerekana ibikorwa mubuzima. Kurugero, kugura abiyandikishije kuri siporo cyangwa kubyina kugirango ukuremo ishusho ugasanga abamenyereye bashya, kandi muburyo bwo kubona ishyaka amaso yawe azatwika. Umugore ufite intego ahora yibandwaho nabagabo.
Ntutware umugabo
Bake bakunda igihe, nyuma yumunsi utoroshye, umuntu wa hafi atangira gukuramo ibibazo cyangwa amakuru adakenewe. Birumvikana ko nta kibazo cyihariye muri couple - buriwese mubafatanyabikorwa ashobora gusaba ubufasha bundi, ugomba gusa kumva akanya. Umugabo azaba meza kuguha serivisi, ubufasha mubibazo bitoroshye, ariko gusa niba ibi bitabaye ku ruganda rukomeje. Buri gihe umugore utanyuzwe udashobora kwihanganira ubuzima bwe, ahubwo azatera ubwoba umuntu kuruta uko bitera icyifuzo kivuye ku mutima gufasha.