Ati: "Nibyo, ibi nibibazo byigihe gito, tuzabyifatamo," Wihumuriza, "Wihumuriza," Wihumuriza, "Wihumurije, aho gukemura umusore aho gukemura. Ibuka ijambo "kuzigama kurohama - umurimo wo kwimurika"? Mubihe biboneka mu mibanire yawe, ni ngombwa gusesengura inzira yose hamwe n'umutwe ukonje kandi usobanukirwe ko uhitamo - hindura umubano cyangwa urangize. Wibuke kuri axiom nyinshi zubufatanye abantu babiri bakuze mumarangamutima.
"Afite akazi kenshi - azandika igihe ashoboye"
Kata mugihe cyakazi cyamajana yinyandiko nubutumwa bwijwi ntabwo ari ibintu bitewe nakazi. Ariko kumara iminota 1, ubaza umukunzi wawe "umeze ute?", No kuza nimugoroba guhura na we byibuze umwe cyangwa abiri arashobora ndetse numuntu uhuze cyane nuwo muhuze. Amagambo yose yerekeye akazi arasobanura gusa ubugwari kugirango yemere ko utagishimishije. Bitabaye ibyo, yakwemeza kubana nawe igihe kugeza umushinga uriho urangije, cyangwa byibuze uhurira gusa muri resitora. Ninde ushaka, azahora abona umwanya wumukunzi.
"Njye mbona bisa ko atanyitayeho"
Niba umugabo wawe adashobora kuvugana nawe, ugereranije no gukina prefix cyangwa kwandika hamwe ninshuti mumisobe rusange, noneho arambiwe nawe. Gerageza kubwira uwo ukunda kubyo ubona ko imyitwarire ye idasuzugura. Ikibazo gishobora kuva mu muryango, aho mu bagize umuryango rutemerwa ku meza basangiye kandi baganira kuri byose ku isi - ahubwo, abantu bose bicaye mu byumba byabo. Muri babiri aho abantu bashishikajwe cyane, barashobora kugenda muri parike cyangwa ngo bagende muri resitora kandi ntibafate terefone mumaboko na gato - muri iki gihe cyose bavuga. Niba imyitwarire yumusore ntacyo ihindura, ntabwo rero yitaye kumarangamutima yawe.
Abafatanyabikorwa bagomba gufashanya kandi bashyigikira, atari ukubaho ubwabo.
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"Nibyo, nzana aya mapaki, sinzasenyuka"
Biragoye kwiyumvisha umugabo wazamuye uzemera ko umukunzi we ajyana numufuka uremereye mububiko bw'ibiribwa cyangwa ntazamufasha gukuraho ikoti. Ibintu bito nkibi hamwe bigize ishusho yukuntu umusore ari uwe - nkumukobwa ukundwa cyangwa ifarashi yo gusenyuka. Niba umuryango wawe wamye ufasha Mama, nka we, ibimenyetso nkibi bizabonwa nawe uko bikwiye, kandi ntabwo ari imyitwarire ikabije. Ntutinye gusaba ubufasha bwanyu kandi ukagira intege nke, bitabaye ibyo kuki winjije umubano numuntu ubuzima bwawe burimo byoroshye?
"Ngwino, ndacyari kumwe n'abahungu"
Niba urwaye cyangwa ubabaye, kandi umusore wawe aho kugufasha guhangana neza, uhora wirinda amarangamutima mabi kandi ashaka kukubona gusa ibipupe byo kumwenyura gusa, tekereza umuhigo. Hatariho ubufasha, ntabwo umubano umwe w'abantu bakuru udashoboka. Mubuzima bwawe buzaza hazabaho ibihe byinshi bigoye mugihe ukeneye inkunga kumukunzi wawe: arashobora kugufasha gukemura ikibazo niba "guhuza" bivuye kumutima nkuyu mutima nkumva nabi?
Tubwire mubitekerezo, wabonye uburambe nko mu ngero ziri hejuru? Ni ikihe cyemezo wafashe - gukora ibibazo cyangwa igice?