Birumvikana ko ubunyangamugayo bukenewe mubucuti, bitabaye ibyo bigoye gushiraho amarangamutima hagati yabafatanyabikorwa. Ariko, abagore bakunze kuza kure cyane, bagerageza kumenya umuntu wimyigange ye kuri we, kandi abaza ibibazo bishobora gutera isoni umufatanyabikorwa, kandi akaba asanga bigoye gusubiza. Twakusanyije ibibazo bizwi cyane abagabo badashobora kwihangana.
#umuntu. "Ndi mwiza?"
Ikibazo gitera abagabo gutungurwa. Tekereza ko uruhutse hamwe, fata umwanya wenyine, kandi hano mu buryo butunguranye: "Uratekereza ko ari mwiza?" Birumvikana ko umugabo uri mumubano usanzwe uzatanga igisubizo cyemeza, ariko mugihe kimwe kizaba kidasanzwe, gutekereza kubyo intego zawe. Niba ukeneye kubona inkunga mugihe wumva ufite umutekano muke, nibyiza kubibaza.
# 2. "Urateganya kunhindura?"
Ni ikihe gisubizo kibara kugirango ubone umugore? "Nibyo, ariko ntukemure igihe" cyangwa "wenda"? Niba kuri iki cyiciro cyumubano udafite ibibazo, ariko wumva ko ubukana bwishyaka rigwa, nta mpamvu yo gushyuha kubyiyumvo muri ubu buryo. Ntakindi usibye isura idakwiye kandi nkurekure, nkuko utabona igisubizo cyumvikana, cyumvikana neza.
Ntugakore ibibazo byinyongera wenyine.
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# 3. "Uranyurwa n'imibonano mpuzabitsina yacu?"
Abagore ntibari munsi yabagabo, birashimishije kumenya uburyo abafatanyabikorwa beza mubijyanye no guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina. Kandi ibyiyumvo byo mu ishyari ntibiha ikiruhuko: "Ese umuntu yandusha?" Ariko hano birakwiye gutekereza: Niba umaze igihe kinini hamwe kandi kuri wewe, nta bafatanyabikorwa nta ndogobe afite no kurambirwa mubucuti, kuko rwose kubyerekeye igitsina ntakibazo. None se kuki uba kurema wenyine?
#gukora "Hari umuntu wigeze andusha?"
Nibyiza, umugabo azibona ubwanjye, kuki ukeneye aya makuru nibidakwiranye, kandi mubi, uzabona igisubizo cyukuri udashobora kunezeza. Buri wese muri mwe afite amateka, kandi ntabwo ari uko mugenzi wawe mbere na mugenzi wawe atarabona ibintu bimwe neza, kandi wenda no kumurika kuruta kubana nawe. Uzi neza ko ushaka kubimenya, kandi ukishuka kuri ibi? Turashidikanya.