Hashize iminsi ishyushye, byinshi kurugero rwa interineti, amashusho, kwamamaza kubyerekeye ibihe byigihe. Mu mpeshyi ni ngombwa kuba slim, mwiza, gukomera. Igishimishije, abahanga mu byimurwa rimwe na rimwe mu mpeshyi kuri aba bakiriya b'insanganyamatsiko barushijeho kuba byinshi. Ariko bagiye kuramba. Ahari gusa mugihe siporo, ibiryo nubundi buryo butabafasha gukomeza intego.
Abagore bafite ibiro byinshi mubikorwa byanjye ntabwo byari kenshi. Ahubwo, basubiye mu kabari ziva mu mirire cyangwa muri siporo. Ariko ibibazo bike mubikorwa byanjye biracyafite kwerekana neza ko ibiro byinshi bitari ikibazo cyimirire, ni bangahe ibimenyetso byihariye, biremwa numubiri wacu kubutumwa bwingenzi.
Rero, urubanza ni uwambere. Umubyibuho ukabije nkinshuti magara. Umugore mwiza yabwiye ko nta kurya kandi siporo yihebye kumufasha kugabanya ibiro. Umubyibuho ukamubujije ntamubuza kubaho imibereho ikora, ndetse no gutegura ubuzima bwite. Yavumbuye ko akunda icyiciro runaka cyabagabo bahitamo Pysnes. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, yavuze ko mu gihe cy'urubyiruko hari bike. Amaze kubanyuze mu bubiko bwayo mafoto, yibutse ko mu gihe cyoroshye kandi cyumvikanye cyari mu rukundo cyane, ndetse no mu gihe. Nkuko babivuze, kubishusho bito ukeneye simulator numukozi. Ariko yashyizwe mumafoto yapfuye hatariho igitabo, ariko kandi uburemere bwari buto. Turebe amateka yumuryango, twaje ku mwanzuro ko muri izo manza z'amayobera z'uburemere buto nta rukundo mu rugo ni se. Muri iyo myaka, yakoreraga, ku buryo nta munsi wasangaga mu rugo, kandi buri wese yasuye umukobwa we yari umunsi mukuru. Ibiro byakuze igihe cyose urubyiruko rwamusize cyangwa papa asigaye. Muyandi magambo, twazanye formula ifite ibiro byinshi ninshuti itazagenda.
Urundi rubanza. Umugore wuzuye ukuze. Imibereho myinshi yabanaga cyane, ntabwo ari umutwaro cyane. Yashakanye, yibaruka abana, aragenda ndetse akora imikino. Ntiyamubangamiye. Bukwi na bukwi, nyuma yimyaka 30 baguma mumubiri uhendutse, yafashe ikibazo cyo guta ibiro. Ni kangahe uburyo bwo guhinduka, uburyo bwumugaragaro ntabwo bukora, imirire ntabwo itanga ibisubizo byihuse cyangwa nyuma yimirire itanga, kubinyuranye, inyungu zuburemere. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, urugamba rwe nuburemere rwagize impamvu zitandukanye. Yavuze ko igihe nyina yamwambikiye, hanyuma agenda iminsi myinshi kubyara - umwana yari mukuru kandi aratsimbarara. Nabwirijwe gukora igice cya Kayisariya, inzira ndende yo gukira, maze umugani wagaragaye mu muryango ko "ibinure" byica nyina. Nyuma yimyaka mike, umukecuru-umusaza wimbitse wuyu mugore yatangiye kwinubira kwikinisha, ndetse anashyira ku mutima ko abasaza n'abarwayi, barambiwe kubaho. Umukobwa we atangira gutakambiye ibiro, kugira ngo atangere kubabaza nyina kandi atabatera ubwoba ubuzima bwe n'ubuzima. Ingaruka ziki kuvumburwa cyari gitangaje! Umugore watunguwe, kuvumbura isano hagati yicyifuzo cye gitunguranye cyo guta ibiro byihuse hamwe na nyina washaje hamwe na nyina, bihujwe cyane kandi bikaba bihujwe cyane, bitera inkunga. Ahari uburemere buzashira, nubwo, byumubiri bishobora gufashwa binyuze mu biribwa no gukora imyitozo ngororamubiri.
Urundi rubanza. Umukobwa, by the way, na we arubatse. Yateguwe ubuzima bwe bwite, yaranyuzwe na we. Ariko uburemere burenze bwatanze umutwaro kumutima, imyitozo ngororamubiri yagombaga kuba nziza, witonde. Ntabwo nashoboye kugabanya ibiro vuba. Ariko ibiranga cyane muri uru rubanza byari birengagije rwose umukiriya ubwacyo cyibiranga isura. Yari arume, umusozi hafi ya bagenzi be cyangwa inshuti zabakobwa. Yikinisha witwa "Pyshechka", "Byuzuye Bwuzuye." Ariko si byo. Uzengurutse uburyo bwo kubaho kandi ntugerageze gukora ikintu cyose gifite uburemere. Yakundanye kandi yoroshya. Wari umuyobozi mukuru wo gukorana numugore. Mu rubanza rwayo, uburemere ni uburinzi kuri tank, ikinyabupfura, ibisebe muri aderesi yacyo. Byaragaragaye ko imvugo ye ariyitonda cyane kandi yoroshye, biragoye kubona byibura bimwe bikomeye, byombi byakemuwe, bombi babwirwa nabandi kandi bitishura. Umuti wacyo wari umuhamagaro wibintu n'amazina ye. Amaze guhamagara "ubwiza bwuzuye" umubyibuho ukabije. Kuva uyu munsi, batangiye kwifata. Yagombaga kunyura mu kumva ko aziranye, yirukana mu mubiri we, yagombaga kwiga kugaragariza abandi ibyiyumvo nyine, ndetse no gusuzugura, gusaba abandi. Buhoro buhoro ureka kuba byoroshye no gutwikira mu itumanaho, yarushijeho gusaba kuri we, umubiri we, yaretse kwicuza atangira kumutoza.
Kuri buri wese uyu mugore yari afite urufunguzo rwihariye rwo gusobanukirwa imirimo yuburemere bwayo burenze. Biragoye kubyumva ku byifuzo bifatika. Niba kandi kuri bamwe muri mwe badakora, ibyifuzo rusange ntibikora, bivuze ko aricyo gihe cyo kwibaza ibibazo bitagaragara. N'amahirwe kubibazo nkibi ni byinshi. Rimwe na rimwe kuri ibi ugomba kureba umubiri wawe nkuwinshuti yitoroshye kandi witonze ufata ibyo dukeneye kandi, atiriwe agira ubundi buryo bwo kubihaza, atangira guhindura uburemere kugirango adufashe gutanga ibi bikenewe gutanga.
Kandi ushobora guhora ufasha umubiri ufite imbaraga zumubiri kandi zifite imirire yuzuye. Ariko ibi bigomba kuba imibereho, kandi ntabwo ari ibihe kimwe mwizina ryumwumvikane.
Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin