- Anna, ibiganiro byinshi byagiye bitera gutandukana kwawe na grachevsky. Kandi nyamara: Ni izihe mpamvu nyamukuru?
Ati: "Mu byukuri, hari ibiganiro byinshi, n'amavuta yo mu muriro yasutse itangazamakuru. Baganiriye byinshi kubyerekeye "ubuhemu" - bivugwa ko nahindutse, arahindukira, ntabwo ari we nyirabayazana. Impamvu mubisanzwe ni nyinshi, ariko ibibazo byingenzi kandi biteye ubwoba bidahuye nabyo gusa, ariko indi miryango myinshi ni iyo urukuta rwo kutumvikana no guhungabanya umutima. Ni ngombwa gushobora kuvuga mubijyanye na rimwe, ntabwo aribyo. Bitabaye ibyo, iyi mbura ya shelegi igwa kumutwe, kandi mu buryo butunguranye iragaragara ko hari byinshi bivuga. Hariho kutizerana ndetse no kurakara. Mugihe cyibi bihe, amakuru y'ibinyoma afatwa nkukuri.
- Ibihuha bivugwa ko byatangiye umusore ukiri muto, kandi wari uwambere watanze umugabo wanjye dilute ...
- Ibi ntabwo arukuri. Mubyukuri, gutandukana kwari umwanzuro. Ibihuha byinshi ari ngombwa: Kandi Boria yagendeye mu mugore munini, wakundaga abakobwa bato. Kandi ishyirwaho ryanjye namwe mubahagarariye abo mudahuje igitsina byagaragaye ko ari ubuhemu, nubwo nakusanyije ku bakozi. Bavuze ko mfite undi musore. Kubwamahirwe, ibyo byose byagize ingaruka mubuzima bwacu buhuriweho. Kandi, natunguwe, cyane cyane kuri borola. We - umugabo arakaye, agaragaza ubucuruzi ntabwo ari umwaka wambere, ariko arabyitwayemo bidasanzwe kandi atiteguye. Niba no mu myaka myinshi y'ubuzima, ubudayurwa bwateye imbere na we, ntabwo afite. Mugihe ntarakara gusa mubuzima bwumuryango - Sinigeze mbibwira umuntu. Ariko ubu ndashobora kumbwira ku buryo ku mugaragaro ko nohereje amabaruwa kandi tangaza abadamu bamwe bakiri bato, bavuze ko babonetse bafite i Boreya. Rimwe na rimwe berekanye amafoto. Kandi nashoboye kubona imbaraga zo kunanira ibi. Ndibuka ubutumwa bwaje: "Tugomba guhura." Nahuye - umukobwa yarambwiye, areba mu maso, ibisobanuro byose bibera aho bibaye aho Borya ari igihe nari ntwite. Nagerageje guhuma amaso mbona ko abantu "beza" buzuye. Kandi kuri njye byari ibikubiswe boria byakiriye ibihuha bimwe muri aderesi yanjye. Natekerezaga ko umugabo wanjye yaba mbere unyirinda kandi ntiyizera ibihuha kandi byindi. Byose byabaye irindi matafari yo gutandukana, kandi twemeye iki cyemezo.
- Guhitamo Gutandukana bigoye?
- rwose biragoye. Muri icyo gihe, nabonye impande zitandukanye: abantu benshi barampindukiye. Kandi uruziga rwanjye rw'itumanaho rwiganjemo inshuti, kuko abakunzi banjye bose babaho, cyane cyane i Kharkov na St. Petersburg. Umwana w'imyaka y'imyaka igifungo yagumye mu biganza bye: Ntukeneye umuntu, nta murimo, nta mutekano, kandi ubutaka busohoka munsi y'ibirenge - noneho byari bigoye cyane. Imiterere y "uwahoze ari umugore wa Borris Grachevsky" yakoze bike, usibye ibisigisigi no kuzuka mumaso yabandi. Kandi, byumvikane, umuhengeri witangazamakuru ryumuhondo, ibisobanuro, ushira ibyahise. Ndaturika hagati yabavoka, nshakisha akazi, hiyongereyeho ibitero byumugabo impande zose nigitutu cya Bori. Wari urupfu ruke, nubwo nari mfite imyaka 28 gusa. Ariko bwari ibintu nkibyo narumye ubuzima. Mbabajwe nuko nkunda umugabo cyane kuburyo yiyisize. Ndetse na mama baravuze bati: "Uri umuntu uhanga, ugomba kwiteza imbere, kandi umugabo wawe azabishima cyane! Niki uhinda umushyitsi, ute ku mwana? " Nanjye narabitwaye! Uyu mutungo wimiterere yanjye ni ugushonga mumuntu ukunda, wibagiwe ko hariho ubundi buzima, butubahirije umubano. Kandi iri ni ikosa rikomeye, kandi sinzongera kumwemera.
"Umukobwa yambwiye kureba mu maso, ibisobanuro byose bibaye aho byaberaga, aho yari atwite."
Lilia Charlovskaya
- Uravuga iki?
- Hariho ibyiza byinshi: kubera ko ntaringira ibyo inama yacu byabaye. Nishimiye ko dufite vasilisa atangaje nkaya, kandi byaje kumwishimira cyane kumushimira. Boris numuntu ushimishije, yanyigishije byinshi. Nize byinshi kuri sinema - Gukorera muri "Uralash", aho nakoraga imyaka 4, nari nzi isi ya Cranksshes, nari ku bantu bakorera muri uru rwego rwa 40, kandi ni a icyubahiro gikomeye kuri njye. Kandi "igisenge", aho nakoraga kandi ni ukuboko kw'iburyo kwarije Boris, mpindura uruhara runini mu buzima bwanjye. Ntabwo ari ishusho gusa, ahubwo ni umurimo uhindura ubuzima. Aho niho nari hafi yo kumenyana na Boreya, kandi umubano wakazi wahindutse kugiti cyawe.
- Umukobwa wawe Vasilisa ameze nkandi?
Ati: "Ndashobora kuvuga ko asa naho papa, nubwo hari ikintu nanyanga: Ibyo ari byo byose, iyo duhuriye hamwe, birashobora kugaragara ko ari umukobwa wanjye. Muri njye kuva Vasilisa ashishikajwe no kubyina, kuva Papa - ubushobozi bwo kumva umuziki na societe - akunda kuvugana nabantu. Ndetse nayihaye itsinda ryincuke ryincuke. Ndabona uburyo bishimishije kuvugana nabana n'isi idukikije. Byishimira no guterana neza n'umuvuduko mwiza: Birasa nkaho atari afite imyaka ibiri, ariko uko ari bane.
Birumvikana ko gen yafashe iyabo, kandi ni umwana uremye cyane: asanzwe avuga kandi asoma ibisigo. By the way, icyarimwe mumwaka nigice, nabyo, byatangajwe neza ibisigo byincuke muri pepiniyeri. Vasilisa, imirongo yishimye, akurura. We ubwe yambaye, araza hamwe na kashe zose kandi ayishyira ku mutwe, nko icyarimwe yakoraga chanel. Kandi iyo mbajije Vasi: "Kandi uri nde?" Arasubiza ati: "Chanel, Chanel". Muri yo, guhanga ntabwo bihari gusa, ahubwo ni gukundwa. Mugihe kizaza, ntekereza ko babyina, umuziki. By the way, Vasya asanzwe akunda gucuranga piyano ndetse na we asaba "gucuranga piyano."
- wemerera boris grachevsky kureba umwana?
- Ndi muburyo bwose "kuri" iyi itumanaho. Nubwo imibanire yaba yarateje imbere gute, mbona ko vasilisa ari umwana ukeneye imbaraga zumugabo. Ntabwo ari umukobwa uhagije mama na ba nyogokuru. Ashishikajwe n'isi yose, kandi ni ngombwa ko umugabo atangirira ku burere aho, bityo ndabashyigikira cyane. Kubwamahirwe, ntabwo ari kenshi babona, kuko Boris afite umwanya munini wo kuvugana numukobwa we, nkaho nshaka. Twese turahuze, kandi ibi birumvikana, ariko nizera ko azaza umwanya wubusa. Vasilisa papa akunda, burigihe ategereje. Turashaka gusohora na Vaya kubaho kenshi!
Akenshi, inama zikorwa nyobowe: bamara umwanya murugo. Kandi umwana yorohewe kuguma mu kirere gisanzwe. Nubwo kugiti cyanjye bimpa bimwe mubibazo byimbere, ariko kubwawe nari niteguye kujya kuri ibyo birego, iyaba ari mwiza.
- Wafashije uwahoze ari uwo bashakanye n'amazu? Bishyura ubukana?
- Hariho amategeko amwe umutungo wabonye mu bashakanye agabanyijemo kimwe cya kabiri. Kandi iyo hari umwana muto, uwo mwashakanye ategekwa kumuha aho atuye. Kandi kubera ko dufite umukobwa muto cyane, yavuye iwe, n'inzu ye, umukobwa we abona imiturire, aho abana na nyina - ivuga amategeko. Nuburyo bwose byabaye, ntabwo hatabayeho ibibazo kandi inguni, ariko twese twahisemo kubifashijwemo na Kati Gordon. Alimony yahoraga yishyurwa nta gutinda. Papa yitwara neza!
Nk'uko Anna abivuga, Vasilisa ntoya isa nkaho isa cyane na boris grachevsky.
Sergey Ivanov
- Ufite ubuzima buhagije?
- Kuri njye mbona ko nta gitekerezo gishobora kubaho. Burigihe kubura. Turi abakobwa! Ntabwo ntuye kuri alimony wahoze ari umugabo. Niba amafaranga agumye, noneho yimuriwe muri vasilisa. Nishakiye amafaranga no guha umuryango wacu.
- Anna, ubu uri imiterere yumukobwa wubusa. Niki kuri wewe?
- Imiterere yumukobwa wubusa ntabwo akoreshwa kuri njye, kuko ndi umukobwa uhuze, kandi ntamwanya mfite wo gutegura ubuzima bwihariye: Mpese nkora akazi n'umwana wanjye. Turashobora kuvuga ko mfite status: "ahuze", kuko kuri njye ubu ni ngombwa kuruta umuryango, umwuga no kwiteza imbere - ibyo nkora. Kandi umubano nabantu bahuje igitsina uratera imbere gusa imiterere yakazi, ibyo nishimiye. Nyuma yubuzima bwumuryango, ndashaka kwimenyekana no kugera ku ntsinzi, kandi kugiti cye kuva inyuma.
- Ni izihe gahunda zawe z'ejo hazaza?
- Yego, mfite gahunda ya Napoleonovsky! Ndagerageza kutaruhuka. Iyo ibisohoka bigaragara, ubwoba bwanjye buratangira. Kuri njye mbona ushobora gukora ibintu byinshi, shaka amafaranga. Ndashaka kwiteza imbere. Sinkunda iminsi yubusa. Birumvikana ko iki gihe nshobora kumarana numwana, ariko kubera ko ndi umubyeyi ukora, noneho ntekereza ejo hazaza. Ndashaka kugera kuri byinshi, kandi nsaba imbaraga nyinshi. Niba ntazashyiramo inkoni mu ruziga, kandi bazashyigikira mu mico, noneho nzahindura imisozi. Imbaraga zanjye zirahagije kuburyo nshobora no gutanga umujyi. Ndashaka gukora byinshi kandi byinshi. Nharanira kuri televiziyo kugirango tujye muburyo bukomeye bwakazi. Ndashaka gusubira mu kuyobora ibikorwa no kujya gukorera muri theatre. Nubwo numva ko kubwibyo ukeneye gukura bike, ariko nditeguye, hanyuma ibintu byose bizaba byiza.
Kandi cyane cyane, umwaka mushya, kandi ndashaka kumwizihiza mumuryango, kora ibiruhuko bikomeye kuri vasilis, kugirango azamwibuke ubuzima ...