Imibonano mpuzabitsina ihuje nimwe mu ngingo zingenzi zo gukomeza ubumwe bukomeye. Ariko akenshi bibaho ko umwe mubafatanyabikorwa ashaka kwitondera hafi ya kimwe cya kabiri, mugihe umufatanyabikorwa wa kabiri ari hafi cyane inshuro ebyiri mucyumweru. Niki gukora niba udatekereza kumena umubano? Tuzabibwira.
Umufatanyabikorwa ntabwo ari ngombwa
Ikintu cya mbere gikwiye gusobanukirwa muribi bihe nuko umufatanyabikorwa yanze kuba hafi igihe cyose ubishaka, ntibisobanura ko yakundanye cyangwa adashaka. Nkingingo, ikibazo kiri muri physiologiya cyangwa ibibazo byumugani byumuntu runaka. Tekereza ku kuba umufatanyabikorwa agomba kuba atoroshye, kuko yumva ko urenzeho byinshi, kandi ntashobora kubitanga. Witondere umuntu uri iruhande rwawe.
Erekana byinshi
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Erekana byinshi
Nkingingo, umugabo agaragaza ibikorwa byinshi byimibonano mpuzabitsina muri couple. Niba umugore wawe adashobora gushyigikira ibitekerezo byimibonano mpuzabitsina mugihe ubishaka, ntukarakare, ahubwo, tuzite ku gusobanukirwa no kwerekana bike birenze ibyo dusanzwe. Ku mugore, nta shyaka ryinshi ryo kwigaragaza no kwitabwaho numukunzi, bivuze ko uruhare rwawe mubibazo rwayo ruzafasha umugore guhangana nawe.
Hindura mubindi bice byubuzima bwawe
Urututu ruhoraho kurutonde rwimibonano mpuzabitsina rukora rushobora guhagarika irari ryimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ukeneye? Twebye rwose oya. Akenshi umufatanyabikorwa muto akeneye igihe cyo gufata uko wifuza. Mumuhe amahirwe nk'aho, kandi ntukamuhe kwibarira, bigatuma ari ngombwa kuri wewe: guhura n'inshuti, jya kuri siporo, ugashaka akazi gashimishije.
Nta kunegura
Niba ushaka imibonano mpuzabitsina burundu mubucuti bwawe, unenga umufasha kubwimpamvu iyo ari yo yose. Sobanurira mugenzi wawe ko bikugoye kwihanganira voltage ifitanye isano no kubura igitsina, kugirango ushobore kwihuta. Kumenyekana ubunyangamugayo bizagufasha mwembi kubona ubwumvikane nta cyaha.