Wigeze ugira iki kibazo? Tekereza: Umugoroba wurubura, uri mukigo cyiza cyinshuti magara zicara muri cafe ntoya kumeza menshi, kumeza yimbaho yimanikiro yimanikiro yimanitse, mu mfuruka. Ibinyomo byanjye bishyushye, umukozi azana icyayi / alled vino / ikirahure cya vino, abantu bose bashishikarizwa inyuma yintebe (intebe) nibiganiro bivuye ku mutima bitangira. Kandi hano muriki kirere cyiza, utangira kuvuga inkuru ikora ku mutima yo gukundana numuganwa utangaje, ugiye guhindura ubuzima bwawe bwose. Inkuru imura abantu bose bo mwijuru rishyushye ryinyanja y'Ubuhinde, ibintu byose, bihindura buri jambo, usanzwe wegera akanya gato, kandi muriki gihe cyose "Oh, Masha, Yego ufite blouse nka Nanny umukobwa wanjye. " Byose byigeze kumuhindukirira. Mu isegonda ya mbere, ntushobora kumva ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, hanyuma ibitekerezo bihanagura: "Kumurika! Yarasaze rwose? Kuki yabikoze? Nanga! ", Umwuka wakozwe ku mutima, ubumaji na Euphoria barazimiye.
Ni abantu bangahe mubuzima bari ibibazo nkibi bidasanzwe, bidafite agaciro bidushyira mubihe byapfuye byakuwe mu kuri kwuringaniza bwumwuka? Nigute ushobora gusubiza ibibazo nkibi? Nigute ushobora gusubiza kugirango utumva usuzuguwe no kurakara?
Mu myaka itari mike, hamwe na bagenzi be bakoraga "Ches" mumijyi nibihe byatuwe mu gihugu kinini, bigana abahagarariye ubucuruzi, amahugurwa, inama. Kandi hari ukuntu, bicaye muri resitora muri Magadan, kwica igihe mbere yo kugenda, twatangiye kwibuka abantu beza kandi babi, twibutse abantu, ibibazo twakundaga, kimwe nabyo, kimwe na Nigute "twiyongereye", dusubiza ibi bibazo.
Noneho, nyuma yigihe gito, ukoresheje ubushobozi bwisesengura buriho, inyungu za buri wese ni abashyikirana, twanzuye ko, mubyukuri, ibibazo byose bishobora kugabanywamo ibyiciro byinshi:
- Iya mbere, ngomba kuvuga, ibintu byiza cyane, ariko icyiciro gito - ibibazo byagenwe kugirango wige cyangwa usobanure ikintu. Mbega ukuntu ibyo bibazo byiza! Urumva ko wateze amatwi ukamenya ko ubwira ikintu gishimishije. Mugihe kimwe, niba uzi igisubizo, uzasubiza umunezero mwinshi. Niba kandi utabizi? Icyo gukora muri uru rubanza? Kutavuga amagambo "Sinzi", "ntabwo asoma", "ntabwo ari ingingo yanjye," atari utsindishiriza icyuho mu bumenyi, ahubwo ni uguteza imbere nyuma gato: "Nzobabona," "Nibyiza cyane ikibazo nzagisha inama kandi nsubize. " Hariho ubundi buryo - twizeye, kwizera ibyo uvuga, vuga "inyuma", "umugani."
- Icyiciro cya kabiri cyihariye cyibibazo - ibibazo bisabwa gukurura gusa. Gusa umukobwa wumukobwa, aho nabwiye haruguru, yasabye ikibazo cyanjye kubyo. Niki cyakora kubantu nkabo? Njye nk'urugero, Copetty yagoramye kandi irasubiza iti: "Nibyo, mfite blouse nziza?!" Ahita akomeza inkuru ye. Urashobora, birumvikana ko guhobera umukobwa wumukobwa ukavuga uti: "Ukuntu ndagukunda!" Cyangwa nk'urugero, kuvuga ngo: "O, Nanny wawe afite iki!", Ariko muriki gihe, amaherezo, kwitabwaho birashobora kujya mu nshuti cyangwa "kugenda" kuyindi ngingo. Ibi bibazo nkibi bisabwa "gukora" kuboneka kwabo. Kurugero, umukunzi wawe gutsindishiriza ahari mbere yo kwicara iruhande rw'umutwe, abaza igisubizo cyashobokaga kwigira kumvugo yawe yanyuma. Nigute ushobora kwanga igisubizo? Birumvikana ko ugomba kwinjira mubihe byumuntu "mwiza", usingiza ikibazo no gusubiramo neza.
Icyiciro cya gatatu cyibibazo nicyo giteye ubwoba cyane iyo umuntu adashimishije rwose ibyo uvuga, kandi arashaka kugusuzugura, yerekana akamaro kayo, ubukuru. Urugero rwa kera rwibibazo: Umwana wumukinnyi uzwi cyane, Umuyobozi aje muri gahunda ya TV, kandi avuga ati: "Ariko papa yamaze kubona" Oscar ", kandi urangije amashuri kuri babiri - iki nicyo gihamya ki Kamere ari ku bana baruhuka? ". Cyangwa urundi rugero. Inama yubucuruzi igomba gutangira. Umufatanyabikorwa araza kandi aho kuba indamutso agira ati: "Nibyo, kandi ni nde wakugiriye inama yo guhana igicapozo nk'iki? Ukora ute hano? " Niki Nakora hamwe naba bantu? Nakshamit mu gusubiza? Kwaguka hanyuma ugende? Ntusubize? Ariko niba udasubije, noneho umwuka uzangirika, hanyuma mu mutwe wanjye hazabaho igihe kirekire cyo kubaho ibintu bitandukanye, nkuko wabisubiza, ariko icyakorwa. Ntekereza ko hari igisubizo kinini. Uwa mbere kandi nk'urugero, kuri njye, yoroshye kuvuga ati: "Yego, ndabyemeranya nawe rwose, agasuzuguro karangiye", mubona bigoye kuri njye, icyo gukora? "," Ntabwo ndetse menya icyo yagusubiza. " Urashobora kuvugana na hafi kandi ufite ibihana kugira ngo uvuge: "Ndumva, barababaje, bakora nibura." Hariho ubundi buryo - guhindura ibintu byose murwenya, ariko hano usanzwe ukeneye kugira sisitemu ihamye cyane.
Nkuko imyitozo irerekana, ubutegetsi bwibanze nubushobozi bwo kumva no kumva mugenzi wawe, kandi, byukuri, ubushake.
Elena Kushko, abahawe impamyabumenyi "ubuhanga bwubuhanzi bwo kuvuga" Ikigo cya Teatical. B. Schukana, Amahugurwa yo guhanga "Ubwenge"