Birumvikana ko umugabo mwiza yiteguye kwihanganira amakosa menshi yigice cye cya kabiri, ariko abagore bagomba gusuzuma imyitwarire yabo niba utangiye kumenya ko mugenzi wawe adakemutse kugirango ugire intambwe ikomeye mubucuti.
Ntabwo uzi guteka
Muri iki gihe, abagore ntibagomba gutunga ibihangano byo kugasagura kurwego rwabatetsi bakomeye, kandi nyamara, umugabo wese uzaba mwiza niba byibuze byibuze inshuro nyinshi mu kwezi zizandanya ibyokurya bye. Hano hari umubare munini wibisubizo bitagoye kubisubiramo, kurugero, ntugomba guteka inkoko ukoresheje imboga cyangwa gutegura umuceri hamwe nimboga yinyanja. Umugabo ntazakomeza kutita ku mugore ushobora kungura mu buriri gusa, ahubwo no mu gikoni.
Uhora winubira
Emera, wowe ubwawe ntukunda mugihe umuntu agaragara iruhande rwubuzima, kandi akibwira ko ugomba kumenya uburyo ibintu byose bikabi muri We, no mubuzima bwawe. Ibyiyumvo nk'ibyo ni ukugira umugabo, iruhande rwaho hari umugore uhora unyuzwe, witeguye nta kiruhuko kitagusukaho. Niba bigoye kuri wewe gukomeza ibitekerezo bibi nawe, shakisha ubufasha inzobere zizagufasha gusohoka muburyo bwimirire.
Ugereranya umugabo wahoze
Erega umugabo ntakintu kibi kuruta kumenyana nabandi bantu mumaso yumugore we yakundaga. Kwibutsa burundu uburyo wamaraga umwanya numufatanyabikorwa wawe wa kera, kandi nigute uzakuzanira muri ibi byubaha bizatera gutongana gukomeye hamwe numugabo, kugirango ucike. Nubwo umubano wawe washize wari mwiza rwose, ntugomba kubimenyesha mugenzi wawe nyawe, kandi rwose nta mpamvu yo kugereranya nurukundo rwawe rwa mbere.
Kugenzura buri gihe
SMS-KI buri minota icumi hamwe ninyandiko: "Mumeze mute?", Urihe? "," Uzaza ryari? " irashobora gukuramo umuntu uwo ari we wese. Niba uzi neza ibyo umugabo wawe yagiye mubucuruzi cyangwa guhura ninshuti, ntugomba gusinzira no guhamagara kandi mwiza (mubitekerezo byawe) ubutumwa. Muri ubu buryo, ntacyo uzageraho ikindi kitari reaction mbi kuva yayo hamwe nigitekerezo cyo guhunga uko bishoboka.