Ntabwo ibanga kubona abagore benshi baryama bakareba uko umukobwa agaragaye, hanyuma bazakora ibishoboka byose ngo bakureho niba atari umwamikazi, noneho mubihe bikabije umudamu nyawe. Abagabo muri urwo rwego kandi ntibatinda kandi, niba umukobwa muto agaragara mu muryango wabo, ni ayayo muburyo budasanzwe - hamwe no gutukwa. Ni ngombwa gutsimbataza imyumvire itangaje mumwana, izatangiza imenyekanisha ryigitsina mugihe kizaza.
Niba washyizeho intego yo guha umukobwa ibyiza byose, uburenganzira nubukenewe, imwe mu ngingo zingenzi zizaba iterambere ry'amategeko agenga uburiganya muri sosiyete. Kugirango ukore ibi, gerageza kuba (cyangwa guhinduka) numuntu nkuyu, kuko abana, cyane cyane bakiri bato, bakira ishusho yabantu bakuru, bakigana muri byose. Erekana ko abantu bakeneye kubaha, kuba byiza kandi bakira mu buryo buciriritse. Sobanura ko mugihe cyo gusura ibyabaye, bigomba kuba byiza no kureba bikwiye.
Abagore benshi bararyama bakareba uko umukobwa we agaragaye
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Umuntu wingenzi cyane mubuzima bwumukobwa ni mama, bityo abagore bafite umukobwa bakundana, ni ngombwa gukurikiza, ni uruhe rugero aha umukobwa. Shishikariza icyifuzo cye cyo guteka ikintu cyangwa kwitabira ibindi bibazo byo murugo. Ntukarakare, niba atari byose bigenda neza. Bwa mbere kandi umuntu mukuru ntabwo buri gihe akora. Erekana ko ari ngombwa kuri wewe ubufasha, kwitiranya kugira uruhare mugutegura ifunguro rya nimugoroba kumuryango wose. Mumaze kwemerwa, umukobwa azatangira kwerekana umwete kandi azabona intsinzi aho atari urugo rworoshye.
Witondere imikino, gerageza kubigiramo uruhare kandi utaziguye. Niba ukina abakobwa ba nyoko, utagaragaza neza icyitegererezo cyuburyo ukeneye gufata umuryango wawe. Ibisabwa bimwe nabyo byerekanwa kuri papa, kuko uburyo ari uwa mama, ahantu hanini bigira ingaruka ku guhitamo ikiza kizaza.
Erekana uburyo bwo gufata umuryango wawe
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Wige umukobwa kwerekana impuhwe, ubushobozi bwo kwiyubaha no gufasha hafi mugihe bibaye ngombwa. Kandi na none - urugero rwumuntu ni itegeko. Urema, shaka itungo, reka umukobwa we agerageza kwitabira amatungo.
Ni ngombwa kandi kubona impano zihishe z'umwana hakiri kare bishoboka. Reba umukobwa - birashoboka ko hari ibintu byerekana ishyaka ryihariye. Igomba kwitondera ko ibyo kurya no kugirira akamaro ku muvuduko mwinshi, gerageza rero gutwikira ibintu byinshi byinyungu kugirango bitabura umwe.
Ni ngombwa kubona impano zihishe z'umwana hakiri kare bishoboka.
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Ariko, wibuke ko umudamu nyawe ashobora gukura gusa mukirere cyurukundo no kubahana. Nkumubyeyi kumukobwa, urugero rwumugore ashobora guhinduka, na papa - ubwoko bwabantu, uwo azahurira mugihe kizaza. Tangira nawe wenyine - kandi umukobwa wawe azahinduka umudamu.