Watekereje ku mpamvu abantu bamwe babona ko imikino ya Iherezo, ibintu byose bitangwa byoroshye, abandi biyita abatsinzwe badakamurika ikintu cyiza mubuzima? Banegura ubwabo, bahura numva ko badakwiriye, kuko bamwe "atariyo": ibicucu, bitaringaniye, bitazwi, nta byukuri, ariko mubyukuri nta mico nkiyi itazashiraho an Umuntu udasimba, ubucuruzi bwose mubitekerezo.
Mu rugero rumwe cyangwa undi, gutinya ibintu bishya, gushidikanya mu mbaraga zabo byabayeho buri wese muri twe, ndetse n'abantu basa nkaho bigira icyo binjizwa. Byose. Niba kandi udashoboye kurengera igitekerezo cyawe, subiza inshuti, fata umushinga winzozi cyangwa uvuge ibyiyumvo byawe ikintu cyimpuhwe nimpamvu yo kuvugurura imyifatire mubuzima. Biragaragara ko kugirango twizere umuntu, ntabwo ari ngombwa guhindura aho atuye, kugirango uyame amafaranga menshi, kurongora neza cyangwa kongera igituza. Icyo ukeneye nuguhindura ibitekerezo byawe wenyine.
Wibuke film "ubwiza kumutwe wose" hamwe na Amy Shumer muruhare nyamukuru? Intwari yageze ku mwuga no gutsinda ku giti cye, kwizera ko mu buryo butangaje bwabaye ubwiza butangaje. Atangira kwitwara uko bikwiye. Kandi nubwo ikikije ikikikimara kubona imbere yabo, ntiyashoboraga kubarwa n'icyizere cye. Nyuma y'igihe, batangiye kubyumva neza nkuko yirinze. Kandi kuri herne, amy kumpera ya firime yabaye ihishurwa mubyukuri yageze kubyo yifuzwa nta mpinduka zubumaji hatagira ihinduka ryibitangaje, numva gusa gukurura kandi bikaba byiza.
Kwiyizera ntibiterwa n'imico yawe, ariko uko ubisuzuma
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Twe ubwacu dukora urwego. Kuki twigeze duhitamo ko ibicucu, mubi, tutigeze tubyina? Imizi ikura he umutekano muke? Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bavuga ko ibibazo byose biva mu bwana. Niba ababyeyi bakunze kuvuga ko Masha duturanye akora ikintu cyiza, kandi bari ku myaka itanu baratsimbaraye ku batanu ba mbere, kandi bagiye bavuka. " . Umwana azumva ko ari mubintu bibi kurusha abandi, kandi atinya gukora ikintu, uhangayikishijwe no gutsindwa.
Ndacyarota inzozi mbi kuburyo ntarenga ikizamini cyo kwiga. Kw'ishure, amakuru avuga ko akora ibirometero bitatu uyu munsi, byanteye ubwoba. Nahimbye urwitwazo rwinshi, kugirango tutajya mu isomo, kuko nari nzi neza: umusaraba ntabwo ngiye. Ni ikihe kibi? Kuki nagumye njya kure igice cye - sinshobora kubyumva. N'ubundi kandi, byari umwana usanzwe, uzima. Ntabwo nibuka igihe gutsindwa kwambere kwabanje, kandi natangiye kwiyumvisha ko ndi umukobwa ufite ubumuga, ariko narabyebye cyane. Nanone, fizruk yasutse amavuta mu muriro, ahora akubita intege nke zanjye kandi akinisha. Ariko mu cyiciro cya cumi na mbere, ikibazo cyabyutse ku nkombe: Nagiye mu mudari wa zahabu, kandi umuco wangiritse gusa wankuyeho. Hanyuma byaje kumenya ko ikibazo kidakwiye amagi adoda. Njye na nshuti yanjye twatangiye kwiruka mu gitondo. Nyuma yukwezi kumwe, nagurutse kuri kilometero uko ari eshatu nkinyoni. Ubwoba, indashyikirwa zayo zari fizruk hamwe no guhagarara, ntikintoteza. Ndibuka isura ye yatangaye, iyo ishushanyije, ariko yishimye naje kwiruka kurangiza. Muri ako kanya, iyo wikubise, usa nkirugomo basa nkaho bafunguye valve runaka, kandi urengewe n'imbaraga z'ibyishimo. "Ndabishoboye!" Muri iki kigo, namaze kwitabira amarushanwa, kurengera icyubahiro cya kaminuza kavukire, hanyuma siporo yahoraga ari mu buzima bwanjye.
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Kutihangana muri bo, abantu mubisanzwe barebera cyane kubera kunanirwa kwabo kandi ntibabona ibyagezweho. Kandi biragaragara ko ibintu byose atari bibi cyane. Kugirango ufashe, ugomba gutangira kwandika ibitekerezo byawe. Uratekereza ko ari ibicucu, ariko wabimenya ute? Ahari yabwiwe na marya ivanovna mumasomo yimibare? Ariko ntabwo aribyose kuba sofya kovalevski, birashoboka cyane ko ubwenge bwawe bugaragara mubindi bindi, nimpaka mu byukuri ugira ubwenge cyane? Ni ibihe bintu bivuye mubuzima bwawe bishobora kubyemeza? Nibyiza gufata urupapuro no kubigabana mubice bitatu, mu nkingi imwe ushobora kwishimira, kurundi - gutsinda kwawe no mu turere ushobora kwerekana ibyawe ubuhanga.
Dukunze kwigarukira, ntanubwo duhitamo gutangira urubanza rushya, umushinga uhangayikishijwe nuko adafite ubushobozi. Ariko iyo umutoza uzwi cyane w'Abanyamerika mu rwego rwo kwiteza imbere Anthony Robbins yasabye ibanga ry'intsinzi ye, yavuze ko ubucuruzi ubwo aribwo bwose butangirana icyizere ijana ku ijana ko azagera ku bisubizo bifatika. Kandi gusa noneho uheshe umuhanga ubumenyi nubushobozi bikenewe kugirango tumenye. Benshi muritwe tugera neza muburyo bunyuranye, kandi rimwe na rimwe, biracyasura buri gihe amasomo atandukanye yo guhugura, ntitugihitamo kubaza abayobozi kubyerekeye kwimurwa muburyohe bwakazi kenshi kandi bishyuwe cyane.
Nibyiza kugenzura "ibiganiro byimbere", Gukurikirana ibitekerezo bibi
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Ni he? Hariho imyitozo myinshi izafasha kumva iyi myumvire yubumaji. Ibuka akanya yo gutsinda kwawe cyane, gusubika mu mutwe, umva uko ubwibone, Euphoria, yishimira ". Wabonye noneho, biragaragara nonaha! Urashobora kwitoza gutekereza. Hariho inzira nyinshi. Icara mu giturukiya, humura, ugorora umugongo. Tekereza ko winjira mu kibero cy'icyizere, cyuzuza akazu k'umubiri wawe n'imbaraga n'imbaraga bisabwa gukora. Bamwe bakoraga ubuvuzi bwubuhanzi - tekereza ukuntu ikizere cyawe gishobora kugaragara. Ibi ntacyo bibaho: ikintu gifatika, igihingwa, inyamaswa, ikiremwa gitangaje, superhero. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko, kumureba, wumva ko ubwoba no gushidikanya. Nibyiza kugenzura "ibiganiro byimbere", Gukurikirana ibitekerezo bibi. Baza ikibazo: Ni ibihe bimenyetso nshobora kugirana ubushishozi kuri iri shingiro? Kandi ndaringira: Kwibuka ibintu bimwe bibi, uzahita ubona ko hagati, uzumva ko nta mpamvu yo gutabaza cyane. Ikintu nyamukuru nukwundike ibitekerezo byawe. Abantu bigirira bizere ntibibanda ku mibura yabo no kunanirwa kwabo. Ntabwo aribeshya umuntu ntacyo akora. Inararibonye mbi irashobora guhinduka intangiriro yo guhindura icyitegererezo cyimyitwarire, hindura moteri. Muri rusange, mu bihe bigoye, ibaze ikibazo: "Nari kwiringira iki mu mwanya wanjye?"
Fata pate kuva mukigege!
Twasomye umutekano muri iki gihe: Ijambo rikaze, isura yiruka, isa n'ibitugu, nkaho munsi yuburemere bwibibazo bya buri munsi nibibazo. Gerageza kumenya imvugo yumubiri: kugorora umugongo, ugororeka ibitugu, genda ku ntambwe, uzamure umutwe uva hasi. Guhura nabantu kumwenyura bya gicuti no gufata ukuboko gukomeye - uzumva ukuntu imyifatire kuri wewe izahinduka. Hanyuma ubwenge bwahinduwe kubwishusho nshya.
Abantu bafite agaciro buke, nk'ubutegetsi, imbere ntibakunda kandi ntibyiyubashye. "Nzakora", "ndasohoka," "Yego, ntagomba no kuvuka mu mutwe wawe. Niba kandi baraje, bakayirukana. Uri umuntu, udasanzwe ukora kamere kandi ukwiye ibyiza. Reka ntubone ubwawe ubwato, indege yumuntu kugiti cyawe cyangwa kumara weekend muri hoteri nziza cyane ya Paris, yibanda kubyo ushobora kugura: Reba umugi ukunda, urye ikintu gito, Ariko birashimishije - nyamuneka burimunsi.
Nigute abahugura bakora? Ku kipe yashyizwe ahagaragara, bahera inyamaswa hafi yisukari. Buri munsi dukora ikintu tukagera kubisubizo. Igorofa yakuweho? Yatanze raporo? Yashyizweho umukono muri siporo ajyayo? Shimira kubwibi kandi bihembo, kandi ako kanya! Ubwonko bwacu butunganijwe neza ko niba ibihembo bitaje, ntabwo abihuza nibisubizo byatsinze. Ni ukuvuga, urashobora kumva ubwenge ko kugura imyenda ihenze kandi urugendo rusigaye kumupaka kabaye kuko wakoze cyane kandi ukaba uhamye kurwego rwamarangamutima n'amarangamutima. Ntabwo rero nta myumvire yo gutsinda, kandi ntizikura twizeye. Nubwo byarengana isaha, harasanzwe hari icyuho kiri hagati yagezweho ibisubizo nigihembo cyakiriwe. Nibyiza rero kumenyana mbere niki "gifasha" uzahemba wenyine. Ahari bizaba umuhamagaro kumuntu wawe ukunda, isaha yigihe cyeguriwe ubwanjye, ikawa hamwe na shokora - ndetse ishimwe gusa kuri aderesi yawe.
Shimira kuri buri wese, niyo ntoya, ibyagezweho nigihembo, kandi ako kanya!
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Ibyumba bito
Imwe mu nshuti yanjye yari afite ubwoba bwo guhura numukobwa. Byongeye kandi, ni Witty kandi byoroshye gukinisha imiyoboro rusange, ariko ukimara kugera kumateraniro mubuzima busanzwe, gusa impano yo kuvuga yatsinzwe. Inshuro ebyiri umusore yahungiye kumatariki yagenwe. Noneho, mugihe cyibikoresho bya Zasille, ntabwo byoroshye kuri twe gukingura umuntu utamenyereye, ariko ntuzubaka ubuzima bwite muri terefone. Tangira buhoro buhoro. Kumwenyura kumubitsi muri supermarket, guhana interuro hamwe numuseri ukora muri cafe, muganire ikintu numuturanyi kurubuga. Urashobora kubanza kumva utamerewe neza, ariko uko imyitozo, bizagenda.
Muri rusange, ntakintu kikomeza kwigirira icyizere, nkuburyo bwo hanze yakarere keza. Kurugero, ngiye vuba atari azi uko wa SAPATE. Hariho ubushakashatsi bugera ku bwana, ariko kuva icyo gihe hashize imyaka myinshi ... Natwizeye inshuti zanjye zashyizeho amafoto ya papa na Video kumurongo. Ariko we ubwe ntarahira - Natinyaga ko nasa nabi kandi ndasekeje. Noneho imbeho ishize, ujyana umwana muto wumugabo wanjye, twagiye hamwe. Byaragaragaye ko nabaye impfabusa, nabuze umunezero uko bishimishije - kunyerera ku rubura. Umubiri runaka ntibushobora kwibukwa nubuhanga bwakiriwe, kandi nazungurutse neza, ntanubwo twaguye. Ndatekereza, niba nkomeje gusimbuka na parasute, ntabwo nzatera ubwoba muri ubu buzima.
Gerageza ibishya no kwagura urwego rwawe. Hobby ishimishije, aho ubona umunezero n'ibyishimo bizongera kandi wizere muri wewe, kandi bizafasha guhinduka. Nibyiza kubanza kubika ikarita, gutunganya intsinzi yawe nibyagezweho. Hanyuma ntibizaba birenze urugero. Buri munsi mushya utangirana no kwemezwa, kukwemerera guhuza inzira nziza. Hitamo ibibazo uko bahageze kandi ntugerageze guhanura ibizaza (cyane cyane mumabara yijimye).
Emera byose byoroshye, ibuka ko ntamuntu utunganye, kandi umuntu watsinze ikintu kimwe arashobora kuba umurima mubindi murima. Ntakintu giteye ubwoba muribi - ntumenye ikintu kandi ntubigere. Mu rubyiruko, ntitwari tuzi kugenda no kuvuga - twize; Nibisanzwe gukora amakosa - iyo tubimenye, turaruhuka, tukarushaho kwihanganira ubwacu hamwe nabandi kandi kubwibyo tubona imbaraga nyinshi. Ntukibande ku burambe bubi. Ikosa - inzira yo kwerekana uburyo bwo gukora ibyiza!
Intambwe ku-ntambwe Inyigisho:
Icyumweru cya mbere. Nibyiza cyane kubika ikarita. Buri munsi, andika byibuze ibintu bitatu ushima. Birashobora kuba ibintu bito byumunsi. Buhoro buhoro, uzabona ko mubyukuri ufite impamvu nyinshi zibyishimo. Mbere, kubwimpamvu runaka utabonye.
Icyumweru cya kabiri. Andika ibihe wumvaga utazi neza mubushobozi bwawe kandi ushidikanya. Uratekereza iki, niyihe mpamvu zitera gushidikanya? Icyumweru kirangiye uzumva icyo ubwoba bwawe nyamukuru. Tekereza uburyo ushobora guhangana nabo, byahinduwe.
Icyumweru cya gatatu. Andika ibyo wakoze kugirango utsinde impurulam yawe n'ubwoba. Wumva umeze ute? Nubwo intambwe zawe zaba zito, biracyatsinde. Buhoro buhoro twe twegereye intego yawe. Kandi ntutinye gukora amakosa.