Vuba aha, igitabo gifite Ibyanditswe Byera muburyo bwa soviets byingirakamaro bakubise amaboko. Nta na kimwe, sinigeze mbangamira idini. Ariko umunyabwenge watekerezaga muri iki gitabo yaje kugira ngo nshobore kwandika iyi ngingo. Hano hari ikiruhuko gito: "Kuki ari ngombwa ikize mu nyandiko mu nzu kandi aho uri hose? Kuberako buri somo ku isi hamwe nimyumvire yose yimpano ihamagarira umuntu cyangwa ibindi bitekerezo, ibyiyumvo n'ibyifuzo, kimwe cyangwa ibindi bikorwa, ibikorwa bifite ibyo bitekerezo. Niyo mpamvu ari ngombwa kuzenguruka kugira ngo abantu bose bakubone. " Byoroshye cyane kandi neza!
Ndagusaba kubona Ikizamini gito , subiza uvugishije ukuri:
- Wumva iki ufite ijambo "ihumure"?
- Wumva iki, kuvuga iyo nteruro "ihumure mu nzu yanjye"?
- Watekereje ko dushobora kuvugwa kubyerekeye urugo rwawe?
- Uratekereza murugo abandi bantu ni beza cyane, imikorere, ukize kandi byoroshye?
- Ni ibihe bitekerezo byawe bivuka mugihe ureba urugo rwawe?
- Ese inshuti zawe zizashima gufata ubutumire bwo kugusura? Cyangwa ubundi utange ibigo bya leta cyangwa urugo rwabo?
- Ukunda umukunzi wawe, Umugoroba wawe murugo? Wihuta murugo?
Uru rutonde rushobora gukomeza. Ariko, gusubiza ibi bibazo, biragaragara ko ari we inzu yawe kuri wewe, uburyo budasanzwe kandi ubuhanga bukoreshwa umwanya mubuzima no kwidagadura.
Niba amagambo "Murugo" arijambo ridasobanutse kuri wewe, kandi ubuyobozi bw'itegeko mu nzu ni inshingano gusa; Niba ubayeho hamwe nibitekerezo bihoraho ugomba gutondekanya, kuvugurura, gutura, ariko "amaboko yawe ntugere," noneho igihe kirageze cyo kubikora! Nturote, ariko ube munzu nziza kandi nziza, burimunsi uba mu kirere kidasanzwe hamwe numuryango wawe, abafatanyabikorwa, inshuti nawe. Baho munzu yinzozi zawe! Birazwi ko itorero ryacu ariho turi. Ni igihome cyacu, isoko y'ubushyuhe n'imbaraga. Benshi muri mwe bazavuga ngo "ikintu nyamukuru gifite isuku kandi kigutegeka," kandi nzabyemera! Ariko nibindi byose biri munzu, bigira ingaruka mubuzima bwacu. Uko utwara neza ibitekerezo kubyerekeye ihumure hamwe nubudasanzwe, biragoye cyane kuba nyirayo, niko bigoye gukoresha impano yo guhumurizwa, imikorere, ibyiza, byuzuye, umucyo. Ntabwo urugo rwawe rurashimishije mubuzima, kandi inzozi zawe zose zerekeye ubugwari bwuzuye zigumaho.
Niba aribyo, noneho ndashaka kugutera imbaraga zo kuvugurura imyifatire yo gutunganya amazu yawe. Tangira witonze kandi buhoro buhoro urema umwanya ukeneye kuri wewe. Umva ubutumwa bwawe bwimbere, ni abafasha b'ubwenge. Witondere ibyo ukunda, ingeso, kubigutera imbaraga kandi ni isoko yimbaraga no guhanga. Kubwibyo, hari uburyo bwinshi bwo gushushanya nubuhanga bwo gushushanya. Hamwe nimyenda, amabara, amatara, imiterere nibikoresho, urashobora guhindura imbere yawe umwanya mushya, kora uburyo kandi ushimangire kugiti cyawe. Guta ibintu byose bitari ngombwa. Kureka gusa ibi biragushimishije ninyungu.
Nzakubwira ikibazo mubuzima bwanjye. Igihe kimwe nabaga mu nzu igihe cyose nashakaga gushimisha urukuta, kandi "amaboko ntiyagezeho." Nyuma yigihe gito, nahisemo guhindura aho atuye, ariko nta mahitamo akwiye. Hariho umunsi wukuboza, nagiye mu bubiko maze ngugura ikintu kinini gifite irangi ryera, umuzingo, tassels, bitwa inshuti ngo bafashe. Twari mpurijwe "ndababariza" njye cyane inkuta z'urukuta, naranduye, byoroshye guhumeka. Nyuma yukwezi kumwe, nakoze icyifuzo kijyanye ninzu nshya yahuye n'icyifuzo cyanjye, kandi aho ntashoboraga kwanga. Hariho ibibazo mubikorwa byanjye mugihe, nyuma yo gusanwa, abakiriya babaye kuzuza umuryango. Umuntu yateguwe kumurimo mushya kandi mwiza.
Emera gutura imbere imbere yawe, kunoza ibidukikije utuyemo, umva umunezero n'ibinezeza biturutse kuba murugo!
Iminsi mikuru myiza yawe n'umwaka mushya muhire!
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