Ninde utavuga, ariko imibonano mpuzabitsina mubucuti ni ngombwa bidasanzwe. Niba muri couple yawe byose nibyiza, ariko, amababi yimbitse yifuzaga, ntamuntu numwe ushobora kwemeza ko ubumwe nkubwo buzaramba. Nigute ukora ute kuburyo hafi idatera urwango no gutenguha? Tuzabibwira.
Vuga
Abagore benshi bafite isoni zidasanzwe mugihe ugomba kuganira kubintu birambuye mubuzima bwimbitse. Byongeye kandi, ndetse no kuganira nuwo ukunda uhindukiye mubihe bibi cyane. Ariko, nk'uko vy'inyifato ni icyizere, abagabo, akenshi, rwose ntabwo yakorewe kuganira yiburungushuye iyi, ni ngombwa cyane cyane iyo uri ubuyega gihe yegeranye. Ntucecekesha ibibazo bishobora gukemurwa mugihe cyo kuganira mubugingo.
Ntutinye ubushakashatsi
Mu myaka mike yambere yumubano urashobora gutunganya rwose, ariko mugihe runaka, nuburyo ukunda buje, kubera uwo mugenzi akora kugirango ashyireho ingufu nyuma ya saa sita. Ntugashishikarize kuri kera cyangwa kuza gutesha agaciro mugihe umugabo wawe yemeye kwimuka ava ku buriri ahandi hantu - ubudasa buri gihe bigira uruhare mumarangamutima meza kuva kure.
Ntutinye kugerageza
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Nta passiviya
Byemezwa ko umugabo aba uwatangiye kwibeshya, kandi nyamara, gahunda yumugore burigihe abona inkunga yimibonano mpuzabitsina ikomeye. Umugabo ahora ari mwiza kumenya ko ashimishije umugore we, gerageza rero kwerekana ibikorwa byinshi mubuzima bwimbitse: Muri iki gihe hatangiye kugaragara ko umufatanyabikorwa ari umufatanyabikorwa kandi atangira kureba hirya no hino, bike.
Kora ikirere
Nibyo, imibonano mpuzabitsina itunguranye ahantu hatunguranye ntabwo ari ko bitazibagirana, ariko ibyinshi mubintu byimbitse bibaho kubutaka bumenyerewe. Niba ibintu atari ngombwa kubagabo, aho habaho guhura hafi, umugore akeneye guhuza ibyo ugomba gukora. Niba usobanukiwe ko udashobora kuruhuka mugihe uri wenyine, gerageza ndumire mbere: Witange nimugoroba kugirango ugere ku ngaruka - gufata buji ukunda, ijambo ukunda, vuga Ibintu byose kugirango urekure umutwe mubitekerezo bitari ngombwa kandi wibande kumugoroba wawe.