Fungura radio ufite umuraba uwo ari we wese. TV hamwe na firime iyo ari yo yose izwi cyane kubyerekeye urukundo. Umunota kumyandiko ya kabiri itaziguye cyangwa intwari zizerekana neza byerekana neza ko bashaka uwo bashakanye. Indirimbo z'indirimbo zizavuga iti: "Ndi ntamuntu, weru wuzuye, ariko hamwe nawe ndi umuntu. Utari kumwe, isi yanjye ntabwo yumvikana. " Muri uyu mwuka, hits yuzuye, hamwe na banmirers yabo.
Muri icyo gihe, igitekerezo nigitekerezo cyuko umunezero ukeneye guhura nuwo mwashakanye. Nkaho mbere, hari igice cyumuntu, kandi umaze kubona igice cya kabiri, gihinduka ishingiro ryuzuye.
Kandi nyamara, no kwihangana no kwihangana, umugabo numugore barashaka umuntu uzaba igice cyingenzi, roho kavukire yumva ifite igice-igice-igice-igice,
Urukundo, ni ukuvuga, arangwa no gushimwa hamwe no kuramya mugenzi wabo, murakaza neza cyane. Internet yuzuyemo ingingo uburyo bwo gusubiza ishyaka mubucuti, uburyo bwo kongera gukunda umugabo we. Abantu, kimwe na hypnose, wirengagize ko umubano ari inzira ikuze ifite ibyiciro byayo, karemano. Kandi akenshi ukunda, fusion fusion nintangiriro yuburyo bunini.
Umubano wuzuye w'amaraso uzasenya igitekerezo cyuko turimo igiceri cyose cya byose. Mubyukuri, abafatanyabikorwa babiri wuzuye bitabira umubano. Mu magambo, ni byiza, ariko mubuzima bwabashakanye bashaka gusubira mubyiciro byambere byigitabo cyabo. Rimwe na rimwe kugerageza ni byiza kimwe kandi bidasanzwe, nka mugitondo - ifunguro rya mu gitondo - ifunguro rya nimugoroba hamwe na cake hamwe na cream. Nangahe? Umunsi, babiri? Noneho uzamuke. None se kuki mubucuti bugomba gutsimbarara ko umuntu azakunda rwose kandi yemera, yuzuzanya kandi atsindira undi, atagize amahirwe yo kwagura mugenzi we?
Uru ni urugero rugufi hamwe ninama ziherutse. Ikibaho cyahindutse, muri ibihe byo gushikama byo gutongana kwe byabangamiyena ubutane. Kandi ibyo basabye ni. Umugabo aherutse kugira amafaranga yinjiza adahungabana, kandi umugore we yagombaga kugira ubuzima bwumuryango hamwe numwana wabo muto bakeneye. Aha hashingiweho, gusiganwa ku mazi bavutse, aho umugore atazukiye mu magambo, ahaka umugabo we mu gihe cy'ubukungu yari umuryango wose kubera we. Umugabo ntiyihanganirwa kumva Rugan muri aderesi ye. Buri kimwe muri byo n'uburakari no gutukana bigaragara ku gutandukana nkibisubizo byonyine bishoboka kuri iki cyiciro mubuzima bwabo. Ku ngoma, batangiye kuvuga amasezerano y'umuryango wabo.
Byaragaragaye ko na mbere yubukwe, muburyo bworoshye bwa passion na pores zishyushye byurukundo, kandi umugore yaba ari intandaro kandi ashyigikira kandi akifatika no kunegura mu kiganiro cyoroshye. Byasaga naho bikwiye. Gerageza kuvuguruza ubu buryo!
Mubyukuri, byagaragaye ko aya masezerano yahawe mugenzi wabo ntabwo abishaka. Ikigaragara ni uko uyu mugabo yakuze mumuryango, aho ubwonko n'imirwano yababyeyi babo ari ikuzimu ye ya buri munsi. Umugore akura mu muryango, aho se yambutse umushahara wambutse, asize nyina agadeni. Kuva muri iyi miryango, baha abantu bose mumitima kuburyo mubuzima bwanjye butazigera. Niba kandi aribyo, noneho iyi niyo mperuka! Hanyuma bahura narwo kandi kuri stade yicyifuzo gishyushye cyo gutsinda abandi basezeranye cyane.
Amaze gushinga umuryango we, aho umubano n'inzira zawe ni byiza cyane kuruta korridor ifunganye iteganijwe ku mbogamizi, bari biteze ko rimwe na rimwe "uri igice cyanjye cya kabiri, noneho rwose ntuzongere kumpa." Ariko kubisaba umufatanyabikorwa - ni nko gutaka nyuma ya gari ya moshi isohoka. Byongeye kandi, iyo abafatanyabikorwa bahinduwe kugirango badanze, bashyirwa mubucuti nabo, bafite ububabare bwabo, ndetse no gukura kwabo. Bafitanye isano no kugoreka, mukorerwa mugenzi wabo. Kandi iyo amaherezo, bibaho muri buri murongo, bavumbuye kudahuza iyi myumvire igoretse hamwe numuntu nyawe, akanya nkuyu ni ikizamini cyo gukura mubucuti. Niba abafatanyabikorwa bazashobora kubahana no gushyigikira ko buri wese muri bo akemura inshingano zabo bwite, cyangwa ngo acike ihuza mugushakisha urundi rukundiro.
Ku ngoma, umugabo yasakuje ati: "Hamagara uwo ukunda ni ikintu cya nyuma. Sinshaka no kukubona. " Aramusubiza ati: "Gukorera babiri, kugira umuhinzi mu nzu - icyo ni cyo kintu cya nyuma. Ndasetse nawe. "
Mu mishyikirano, twasanze umugabo yagerageje kuvuga ati: "Ntukambabarire, ntumpatira kunyura mu myumvire yanjye no gutinya, nk'uko byari bimeze mu bwana bwanjye." Yagerageje gusubiza ati: "Uranyitayeho, nkaho ushobora byose, nkaho utaretse, nka so-alcool." Iyo tugejejweho inshuro nyinshi muri ibyo biganiro, abashakanye bicara ingaruka kuba basabana kubyo badashobora kwihe. Ntazi kwihanganira ibyiyumvo byo gusuzugurwa, kirenze imyaka mubugingo bwe kuruta ubukwe bwabo. Yasanze kandi umujinya mwinshi n'uburakari ku mugenzi we ufite intege nke ni indwara z'umukobwa muto wavumbuye mu buryo butunguranye ko papa adatangaye kandi afite umuvuduko w'indwara. Kandi ntibishoboka mubukwe ubu kugirango tugere kuri mugenzi we kugirango dukeshe wenyine.
Umwe wese muri bo yasize gusenyuka, akora ibitekerezo ku murimo we bwite. Umwe wese muri bo agomba gufata inshingano kubera imyumvire yabo ubwabo, drami yabo no kuboha ibizaba, kunyura mu isomo rikomeye no guhura na mugenzi wabo ntabwo ari umutangabuhamya wabo n'umufatanyabikorwa mu buzima Inzira. Umugore akeneye kunyura munzira yo kubona umufasha wabo wenyine, kandi ntabwo ari kumufasha wenyine, kandi umugabo ninzira yo kwikingira kandi akabona ko asebanya munzu yababyeyi be. Cyangwa kumera, ariko birazwi cyane, kunyerera kandi ushake ikintu cyateye imbere muburyo bwabafatanyabikorwa bashya mubuzima.
Kandi uhitamo iki? Shakisha uwo mwashakanye? Kora uhereye kumukunzi wawe psychotherapiste wisi yose wumva ububabare bwawe no kogosha ibizaba bigoye? Cyangwa uhuze buriwese kuba umufasha utanga kandi wuzuye kuri mugenzi wawe?