Iyegera hafi ya Nzeri, ababyeyi benshi babura gutuza imbere. Nubwo umwana atakiri umunyeshuri wa mbere, ababyeyi ntibabyitayeho, no ku mugoroba wo ku ya 1 Nzeri, hamwe n'abana, batangira rwose imyitozo. Nigute ushobora gutuma ishuri ryateganije kumarangamutima meza? Reka tugerageze kubimenya.
Rimwe na rimwe, ababyeyi ubwabo batinya amashuri. Mubisanzwe iyi nkubwoba irakura kuva mu bwana, kubera uburambe bubi. Ababyeyi bakunze kwemera ko atari bonyine, mugihe no gukura bagiye kuri koridor yishuri, kandi niba bahurira munzira yumuyobozi, kimwe numutima uragenda. Mu gihugu cyacu, ishuri rifatwa nkikintu gifite ubwenge bwinshi, icyiciro gikenewe cyiterambere, aho ejo hazaza bizaterwa nuburyo umuntu wumuntu atangira, asobanura rwose ubwoba bwiki kigo. Ariko, ntugomba gusangira uku gutinya umwana, ni ngombwa kwifasha wenyine. Hano haribintu byinshi birimo, gukuraho bizoroha kubaho iki gihe kitoroshye muburebure bwimyaka 11.
Gusa umva: ntabwo abantu bose bahabwa kwiga "Cyiza"
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Icya mbere: "Umwana agomba kwiga" Cyiza "
Kandi byari bimeze bite mu ishuri ryawe? Bose bari beza? Birashoboka cyane, abantu benshi. Kandi ntiyigeze iterwa no kwifuza kw'ababyeyi. Gusa umva: ntabwo abantu bose bahabwa kwiga "Cyiza." Ingingo ntabwo ari kuba umuntu arusha ubwenge, ahubwo, ntabwo abantu bose bashaka. Nubwo waba ugerageza kumvisha umwana, niba adashimishijwe, ntuzashobora kumutumaho kuba umunyeshuri mwiza. Ushobora kuba utarabonye ko mumashuri yacu ahubwo ni ikirere gikandamiza. Abana bajyayo nkabatonda, kandi ntibabizi. Amashuri yacu aragerageza guhuza ubumenyi runaka, ariko icyarimwe ntabwo azirikana kuri ubwo bumenyi. Gerageza kudashyira igitutu ku mwana, kandi uzareba uko umubano wawe uzagaruka.
Icya kabiri: "Umwana agomba gukora amasomo wenyine"
Biragoye. Mu cyiciro cya mbere, ntugomba kubaza amasomo, ariko urabaza. Hafi aho hose. Witegure nimugoroba inyuma inyuma yinyandiko nikaye. Hano icy'ingenzi ni ukugaragaza kwihangana no gutandukana, kuko umwana atazahita agaragara. Ibigaragara kuri wewe ntibisobanutse neza kandi bizaba mu gashya k'umwana wawe. Ntaragera mumyaka yo kugereranya nawe muri logique no gutekereza. Akenshi ababyeyi bakomeje gukora amasomo hamwe numwana no mumashuri yisumbuye.
Mubyiciro byambere ntibigomba kubaza amasomo
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Icya gatatu: "Umwana agomba kumva akamaro ko kwiga"
Mu ishuri rito, ntugomba kuzamura ibiganiro kubyerekeye gukenera uburere bwiza kugirango ukomeze kurushaho gukura. Umwana ntabwo asobanukiwe ko mubuzima bukuze kandi iyo aje, aba hano none. Wibande rero kubyo ushobora kubona (cyangwa ubundi - ukuyemo) mugihe cya vuba. Kurugero, isuzuma ryiza ryo kugenzura muguhana isaha yo kugendana ninshuti.
Icya kane: "Isuzuma ryerekana urwego rwubumenyi"
Abana benshi, ikibabaje, shakisha kuba mwiza kurenza abantu bose kandi bakundwa "mwiza" muri diary, gusa ko ababyeyi bishimira inyungu zabo bwite. Twese twumva ko "bidashimishije" ari isuzuma gusa, ariko biragoye kugumya mumaboko yawe kubona umwarimu utukura. Ibi biganisha ku kuba umwana ajya mu Bujyanama ari igihano, kandi rimwe na rimwe yinjiza indwara zifite ubwoba. Tekereza ko abarimu nabo ari abantu, kandi barashobora kwibeshya kandi bagasaba byinshi. Gerageza rero guhimbaza umwana no kuri trifles.
Umwana arashobora kuba afite inyungu zitandukanye.
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Icya gatanu: "Iyo ntashobora, ibi bizatuma umwana wanjye"
Nta mpamvu yo gushishikariza kunanirwa kwawe no kunanirwa gahunda. Umwana ashobora kuba afite inyungu zitandukanye. Twemera - umwana ntazasimbuka hejuru yumutwe. Yahitamo gukemura ibibazo bye kuruta kumara umwanya kubyo wabuze umutwe icyarimwe. Nkuko udashaka gukora ibyo ababyeyi bahatiwe.
Ikintu nyamukuru ni umubano wawe wizewe numwana nubuzima bwe bwo mumutwe. Ituze izaba umwana wawe, biroroshye kuri wewe na we bizanyura muriyi nzira ndende