№1. Gerageza kwizerana.
Umwangavu ni umuntu uza gukura. Niba wizeye inshuti ze, niba wizeye umwana wawe, noneho bigomba kurekurwa kwizihiza umwaka mushya hamwe ninshuti. Niba wizeye umwangavu, noneho bimaze kwitegura kwizihiza iminsi mikuru muri sosiyete yawe. Umwana agomba kugira umwanya wacyo. Muri iki gihe, nta usibye, abana bagerageza ubuzima bushimishije kumenyo kandi bashaka kumva bakuru. Birumvikana ko bazagerageza ikintu - ntukashishikarize, ariko inkuru nziza ni uko ibintu byiza biterwa nisosiyete nuburezi: niba ibi atari isosiyete mbi, noneho byose bizatwara nta ngaruka mbi. Umwangavu agomba kumva icyo abizera, kandi urwego rwo kumwizera ruzageragezwa mu ijoro rishya: niba arekuwe, bivuze ko yizeye.
Imitunganyirize y'Ishyaka ry'ibirori - Reba kandi ubwigenge
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№2. Ubucuti ku nyero mbere.
Niba umwana asabwa kwizihiza umwaka mushya muri kumwe ninshuti nta bantu bakuru, bivuze ko basanzwe bafite ibiruhuko byabo. Birashoboka cyane ko batekereje byose mbere - amezi make mbere yumwaka mushya. Muri iki gihe, ingimbi zishora inyungu nyinshi - ibi, bidashobora gusangirwa nababyeyi babo. Mu ishyaka, barashobora kuganira ku rukundo rwabo: imyaka 12-14 - Iki nicyo gihe cyurukundo rwambere, rukurikije ibice byamarangamutima, ntibishobora kugereranywa numva ukuze. Bana, nk'ubutegetsi, ntugasangire ibyababayeho n'ababyeyi babo, gusa hamwe nibintu bya hafi - hamwe n'inshuti zabo. Ubucuti mu ingimbi Ibidukikije ni kimwe mu bitekerezo by'ingenzi, kubera ko urwego rwo kwizerana hagati y'inshuti kuri iyi myaka ari ntarengwa. Inshuti ni abantu ba hafi. Ntukabuze umwana w'umwana! Niba ashaka kurara hamwe nabanye hamwe nabo abo adafite amabanga, akeneye kurekura. Kuri we, uyu ni umunsi mukuru mwiza. Niba warabujije umwaka mushya hamwe ninshuti, bava murugo, wagabanije igice cyubucuti. Umubano ukomeye nubucuti hagati yingimbi, byakwira mubuzima bwe bwose. Ntugashyire ingufu zo gusenya iyo mibanire.
Mubyangavu, inshuti ziba abantu ba hafi cyane.
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Umubare 3. Gerageza gukura.
Abana bo mubyangavu bumva bakuru. Niba bashaka kwizihiza umwaka mushya, udafite abantu bakuru, noneho barabikore. Ariko shiraho ibisabwa: nibapfuke ameza, witegure, ukureho inzu mbere na nyuma yishyaka. Niba bahanganye nabantu bose, kandi ibiruhuko birashobora, kuri bo bizaba indi ntera ukuze. Kugirango utegure ibirori byumwaka mushya nta bantu bakuru, ugomba kwerekana inshingano nubwigenge. Niba kandi bose babitsinze, bazishimira ubwabo kandi bakumva bafite ubushobozi bushya: basanzwe bakora ikintu ubwabo, bafite agaciro - bakuze rwose. Ishyaka ryumwaka mushya nikizamini cyiza kubabyeyi, naho kubana. Kubabyeyi - Aya nindi matafari mu burezi bwumwana, kubangavu - kugenzura ubucuti ninshuti imbaraga. Kwemerera umwangavu gutegura ibirori byumwaka mushya, uzumva uburyo umwana wawe ari umuntu mukuru, urwego rwe.