Umubano ntabwo byoroshye - ntubizi. Ariko, aho wonyine duhurira nibibazo byubuzima kandi tugerageza kubikemura, abandi barema ibibazo kandi baza kwivuguruza bidashimishije. Nibutse interuro zitandukanye zabakobwa batigera babafasha gushiraho uburinganire mumibanire yumufatanyabikorwa.
"Buri gihe uhora ubizi ku kazi, kandi nta mwanya uhari!"
Abakobwa bashaka ibintu bibiri icyarimwe - kugirango umugabo abereke amafaranga menshi kandi yicara ku birenge nk'imbwa ye. Gusa ubuzima bwumuntu ukuze ntabwo ari umugani namba, aho amafaranga agwa kumutwe uva mwijuru. Niba umukunzi wawe afite ubucuruzi cyangwa bukora kugirango buhanishyuze bihagije mubuzima bukwiye, agomba kwibizwa kumurimo hafi umunsi wose. Umugore w'umunyabwenge arabyumva, kubera ko igihe cyose cyakazi kirahuze ubucuruzi, kandi ntabwo kohereza inkingi ijana mu ntumwa mugenzi we. Wubahe umwanya wundi - nimugoroba uzagira amahirwe yo kuganira kumunsi washize wo kurya.
Witonderene, ntabwo abanzi
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"Niba ugiye ku nshuti kuri ubu, nzagenda, ariko nzamuka!"
Iteraniro rihoraho hamwe ninshuti zifite ubunywa - ntabwo aribyo rwose utegereje kumufatanyabikorwa ushaka gukoresha ubuzima bwawe. Nubwo bimeze bityo, akenshi, ikibazo ntabwo ari muri byose: abakobwa ntibareka umukunzi bakundwa kubagenzi batatewe n'inzoga, ariko kubera paranotia yabo. Noneho birasa nkaho biri kumwe nabantu mu buryo butunguranye inshuti zimenyerewe zitarabatse zizagaragara, uwo azaba ahindura rwose. Bazazana hamwe nibo nshuti zishyiraho umusore kandi kumwumvisha gusubira mu mibereho ya bachelor. Wibuke: Umukunzi wawe numuntu ukuze ukuze, ntabwo ari impfizi y'intama, uwo ushobora kuyobora, kandi atari umwana ushobora kwemeza ikintu. Ntugereranye imyitwarire yinshuti nabaziranye k'umugabo wawe mu myitwarire ye, kuko ari umuntu wihariye muri bo hamwe nabyo hamwe n'imiterere y'imyitwarire.
"Cyangwa urahinduka, cyangwa mbona umugabo mwiza!"
Nyuma yinteruro nkiyi, umubano ugomba kuza kurangira. Hamwe na Blackmail, ntuzigera utuma umuntu ashaka guhinduka, ariko gusa ayikuramo wenyine. Kwinjira umuntu mubucuti nkumuntu winyangamugayo, ugomba gufata ibyiza nibibi byumukunzi. Kubwasezerana, urashobora kubigaragaza guhindura ingeso zurugo, ariko rwose uzananirwa gukosora amahame yimyitwarire yumuntu mukuru. Mubihe nkibi, nibyiza gutatana no kubona couple ikwiye kuruta kurwanira intego itabaho kandi utuma tutishimye.
"Ariko uwambere yari afite akazi cyane mu buriri ..."
Kugereranya umufatanyabikorwa wacyo nuwambere, urakabaza gusa kuri we no gukora igitekerezo cyibyari bitarava mumibanire yashize. Igihe cyose ushaka kuvuga kubyo ukunda mubuzima bwa hafi numuntu kuva kera, kuruma ururimi mugihe cyamabwiriza yumuntu runaka. Vuga neza: "Urabizi, nari kuba mwiza niba wemeye kugerageza ikintu gishya, kurugero, ..." Iri jambo risobanura icyifuzo cyo guhitamo umuntu, kandi ntabwo ari igitutsi cyambere mubuhanga bwe. Nkubundi buryo, urashobora kugura igikinisho cyimibonano mpuzabitsina kugirango utezimbere kubyutsa no kubereka umufatanyabikorwa, cyangwa kumubona firime kubantu bakuru mugihe wifuza gusubiramo.
Ubwenge bwawe bufasha gukomeza icyifuzo cyo kujya mumakimbirane
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"Mubuzima bwawe ntabwo ndi uw'umwanya wa mbere - sinkunda"
Ntuzigera uza mbere mubuzima bwumufatanyabikorwa - gutungurwa? Ubwa mbere kuri we, agomba kuba, noneho rero mugaciro, ahantu hagati yumuryango, kwishyiriraho kandi ugabanywa. Niba umugabo akwizeza ko uri igisobanuro cyubuzima bwe, noneho akaba atarageraho ikintu gikomeye muri cyo (kandi ntibishoboka kubikora). Shimira abagabo biyemeje kandi bagashaka intego zabo, kandi ntabwo bahumye abantu bakurya bazaririmbira serenade munsi yidirishya kandi ntakindi. Nibyiza gukora ibikorwa kuruta gutatana namagambo, hakurikiraho ikintu icyo aricyo cyose. Mubuzima bwanjye bwite, ugomba kandi kuba imbere ya mbere - gukunda no kwishima kugirango uhure numuntu wiyubashye.