Birashoboka ko nta mugabo wibura inshuro nyinshi mu cyumweru atarifuzaga icyifuzo cyo gukusanya abantu bose badashimishije kandi bohereza kuwundi mubumbe, udatangaje, uhabwa urwego rwumutwaro wa buri munsi kuri psyche. Ibibazo bitangira iyo bigoye kugenzura amarangamutima yawe, kandi utandukana byose. Nigute ushobora gutsinda kurakara? Tuzagerageza gufasha.
Ntibishoboka kubona contacly nabantu bose
Umuntu nkawe, kandi umuntu ntagukunda kandi akaba. Ariko, ibi ntibisobanura ko ikintu kibi kuri wewe hamwe nabamurwanya, mubyukuri, biragoye cyane kubona umuntu wabishaka, bivuze ko ari ngombwa kumva icyo unyurwa numuntu ntibishimishije, ntabwo igisubizo cyiza, cyane niba tuvuga kumufatanyabikorwa wubucuruzi.
Turagerageza kumva undi muntu
Kumenya ko twese dutandukanye, gerageza kumva impamvu umuntu akora cyane, kandi atari ukundi. Ahari intego zibikorwa bye ntabwo aribyo nkuko washoboye kunywa, kandi ntamuntu ugiye kumusimbuza. Kenshi cyane, ntabwo tugerageza no kumva umuntu, kwishingikiriza kumyitwarire yabo gusa kuri we, dutegereje hakiri kare amayeri.
Ntureke ngo utakaze kugenzura amarangamutima
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Kugenzura amarangamutima
Gukiza kwiba bishobora gutakaza imbaraga zawe zose, kandi biganisha ku ngaruka zidashimishije cyane niba amakimbirane abera hagati yawe na mugenzi wawe. Buri gihe ukomeze kuba umunyamwuga muri bagenzi bawe, nubwo warengewe n'amarangamutima mabi. Ntushobora kwemeranya nigitekerezo cye, ariko ushireho amakimbirane - hejuru yubunyamwuga.
Ntugafate ikintu cyose cyavuzwe.
Rimwe na rimwe, n'ijambo rimwe rishobora kutuzana ubwaryo, ariko byose kuko benshi muri twe batunzwe cyane n'ibitekerezo by'abandi. Birumvikana ko ari ngombwa kuri parry mugihe kunegura aderesi yawe bitavuga, ariko, gufata inzitizi nkinzitizi ntabwo bikwiye neza, bitabaye ibyo washizeho gusa amarangamutima vuba.