Abantu bahitamo nkana ubuzima badafite abana bagengwa cyane na societe. Ibyo ari byo byose imyumvire, rimwe na rimwe, baza ibibazo nka: "Nibyo, igihe byari bimaze!", "Ntibyarambiwe gukora ubu buzima?" n'ibindi Ntabwo abayoboke bose bakuze barashobora gusobanura aho bahagaze rimwe na rimwe batwara abantu nkabo bihebye. Niba hari umuntu utagira umwana mubidukikije, ntabwo ari ngombwa kumugaragaza, kuki adashaka kubaho akurikije ibitekerezo byawe, kandi niba kunegura kugufata kugiti cyawe, tuzakubwira uko wasubiza ibibazo bidafite amakenga atari ku gipimo cy'abaziranye bafite amatsiko.
"Ntabwo wigeze uhura n'umugabo wawe."
Imwe mu nteruro izwi cyane kumuntu ugerageza "guhumuriza". Benshi, ibi ni ukuri cyane kubagore, biragoye kumva abandi bagore badakurikiza abana, muri bo barimo gutongana ku kunyura mu mugore nka "utari" ". Ako kanya, twabonye ko kwibasira nkibi bikabije - ntabwo igisubizo cyiza. Wibuke ko abagabo basuzumwa mbere yumuntu bazoroherwa, kandi basanzwe bagerageza gutekereza kuri nyina w'abana babo b'umugore wabo. Naho inama kuruhande, ntuzigere usobanura - gusa uzi uko bizagenda neza kuri wewe.
Gusa ufata icyemezo - ukeneye abana cyangwa ntabwo
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"Biteye isoni kubaho mu byishimo byawe!"
Ariko nanone ntibubujijwe ahantu hose. Ntabwo wirukana uburenganzira n'ubwisanzure, ntuzane umuntu uwo ari we wese, none kuki guhitamo umuntu afite uburenganzira bwo guciraho iteka? Mu buryo buke, ariko udafite ikinyabupfura, asobanurira umuntu ko utagiye kumva ibitutsi kuri aderesi yawe. Mu kurangiza, uri mukuru.
"Imana yatanze bunny - itanga ibyatsi"
Imvugo igabanijwe na memes. Na none, gusa urumva ufite ubushobozi bwimari kandi wamarangamutima, niba udashoboye guha umuntu, usibye wowe wenyine, ntukeneye gufata inshingano nkizo. Byongeye kandi, kwanga gutangira abana birashobora kuba bidafitanye isano rwose nubukungu bwihungabana, kuko ibyare bituma bahitamo babishaka kandi ibibazo byumubiri akenshi ntibikina inshingano na gato mugihe ufashe umwanzuro.
"Uzakora iki mu bwato nta kiruhuko mfite?"
Umwana ntabwo ari garanti yubusaza bushimishije. Ni kangahe mugihe abana banze ababyeyi iyo babaye umutwaro kuri bo cyangwa imiryango yabo. Niba ubaho nubwo mu mujyi munini, ufite amahirwe yose kugirango udakeneye ubusaza - Serivisi ishinzwe imibereho myiza ikora neza. Urashobora gutangira umwana gusa niba ushaka guha urukundo wundi muntu, ariko ntutegereze kwakira inyungu z'ejo hazaza.