Twese tuzi uburyo dushobora kwibasirwa na psyche yumwana, bityo rero yo kurera umwana, ni ngombwa kwegera inshingano zose, tekereza neza kubyo ushaka kubwira umwana wawe. Uyu munsi twahisemo kuvuga ku nteruro yangiza inzira yo kwiga.
"Ntukarye, uzashyuha"
Witondere imico mibi y'ibicuruzwa bimwe, ushishikariza umwana gusa, mubihe nkibi azagira icyifuzo cyo kwitondera ibicuruzwa byinshi byingirakamaro. Ubwitonzi budasanzwe bukwiye kwereka ababyeyi b'abakobwa b'ingimbi bahura na bashinyagurira urungano kubyerekeye isura yabo. Aho gushushanya ibibi byose uhereye kumapaki ya chip, soma urutonde rwibicuruzwa byingirakamaro kandi biryoshye hamwe numwana.
Umwana afite uburenganzira bwuzuye bwo kwitwara mubana
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"Nturirire"
Birashoboka ko interuro ikunzwe cyane ko umubyeyi akoresha buri mubyeyi. Kenshi na kenshi birashobora kumvikana kuri umuhungu, kuko ukurikije ababyeyi bamwe, "" abantu ntibarira bati: "Ariko nyuma yimyaka mike ababyeyi nkabo, ababyeyi nkabo bazahura nibibazo byugayabavumvugo, bakimenyereye ubwana bukoreshwa komeza byose muri bo. Imitekerereze ifite imipaka yo gushikama, ntukeneye kuyibona kubwimbaraga.
"Ibyo uvuga byose, - Ubusa"
Buri mwana afite ingingo ashobora kuvugaho, kandi akenshi ababyeyi ntibashyigikira inyungu zumwana wabo. Hariho amakimbirane, kubera ko umwana ahatirwa gushaka imyumvire hanze yinzu, kandi ninde uzi aho azamubona. Nubwo udashishikajwe no kugerageza kuba umwana wawe, ntukange, ahubwo, sobanura witonze ingingo, ariko, utanga umwana kuvuga.
"Ntukitware nk'umwana"
Nigute umwana ashobora kwitwara, usibye kubana? Ababyeyi benshi ntibabitekerezaho. Birumvikana ko umwana mukuru abaho, imisoro myinshi igwa ku bitugu, ariko ntabwo ari ngombwa gusaba no mubyangavu bidashoboka - kuri iki cyiciro, aba afite uburambe, yiga, yiga nk'umwana - uburenganzira bwe bwuzuye.