Abakobwa benshi, bitegura ubukwe, kwerekana igikundiro gishobora kuba cyiza. N'ubundi kandi, mu migani yose, igikomangoma n'umuganwakazi bashyingiranwa kandi bishimye babana kugeza igihe cy'iminsi yabo irangiye. Ariko ubuzima nyabwo nundi. Ntushobora kuvuga ko utegereje ibinyuranye byuzuye nibyo witeze, ahubwo, uzakenera umugabo uzahira kugirango uhuze, utumvikana kumuryango ukiri muto.
Niba ari umufatanyabikorwa wambere ubana hamwe, mugihe cyambere ushobora gutangaza kugutangaza, hamwe nibintu bimwe utavuga rumwe. Niba amafaranga yambere ari muri wewe, noneho uzakenera gukwirakwiza ingengo yimari. Byongeye kandi, umuntu azagaragara munzu yawe afite igitekerezo cye, kandi agomba no gusuzumwa. Ibi byose ntabwo byoroshye, ariko kurwego rwicyitwa "guhanagura", nyuma yigihe gito uzamenyerana, kandi ibibazo byinshi uzahita ushira wenyine.
Icy'ingenzi ni ugukomeza ishyingiranwa mu myaka ya mbere, kuko iki aricyo gihe gikomeye mugihe ibishuko ari byiza kureka byose, gusa. Inzitizi zimwe na zimwe zizavuka, ariko zirashobora kuneshwa nimbaraga zifatika. Tuzavuga kubyerekeye amakosa akunze kwirindwa niba uzi amabanga mato.
Niba impaka nini irimo kunywa, umukobwa wumukobwa rwose ntabwo ari ahantu kumeza yumuryango
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Ntibikenewe gutongana numugabo kubera imari
Urubyiruko rwitonda ntiziganira kubibazo mbere yo gushyingirwa. N'ubusa. Uruhande rwimari kubana nimwe mubintu byingenzi, kuko ugomba kubaka ubuzima buhuriweho. Ugomba kubaza hakiri kare ibihe bitekerezo umugabo wawejo hazaza afite kubyerekeye amafaranga. Nyuma ya byose, niba ukoreshwa mugukoresha amafaranga atangaje kuri wewe, uzakenera gushyikirana no gukwirakwiza imari.
Ntubwire uwo mwashakanye
Nibyo, ntabwo ari ngombwa kuvuga rwose amabanga yawe yose - birashobora guhita arimbura umuryango, ariko gusa niba ibanga ryawe ari ikintu kitari mu ruhererekane rwo gusohoka. Mu bindi bihe, mugihe ugiye gufata icyemezo cyingenzi: Kugura ibikoresho, igenamigambi ryibiruhuko, cyane cyane igenamigambi ry'umwana, - kubijyanye no kuburira umugabo wawe, kuko ubu uri umuryango wawe. Niba warakoze imyitwarire idahwitse, kuberako ufite isoni, ariko ntakintu cyihariye "umugizi wa nabi" muri cyo, muriki gihe nacyo gikwiye kandi uwo bashakanye. Nyuma ya byose, amaherezo aracyazi byose.
Komera inshuti zawe mugukemura ibibazo byumuryango
Urashobora kugira umukobwa wumukobwa wa hafi, inama waho warateze amatwi, ariko ubu ufite umuntu wa hafi uri hejuru yubucuti bwawe. Niba impaka nini irimo kunywa, umukobwa wumukobwa rwose ntabwo ari ahantu inyuma yimeza yumuryango. Ubwa mbere, ntabwo izi amarangamutima yose yumubano wawe, kandi inama ze ntizishobora kuba intego. Icya kabiri, hari abagore nkabo bagerageza gusenya ubuzima bwabandi, bazana ibibazo na rugan mumuryango winshuti. Ntabwo dusaba gushyira mu mibanire ya gicuti, ni ngombwa cyane, tutitaye ku mwanya w'umuryango wawe, dusangire gusa imigenzo y'ubuzima kugira ngo ihuza uko ari mike, ariko ntibahuye na gato.
Niba uyu ari umufatanyabikorwa wambere ubana, mugihe cyambere ushobora gutangaza
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Ikosora Umuntu
Kubera ko ubu uri umuryango umwe, noneho hakenewe ko hagomba kuba ikibazo rusange. Mubisanzwe, buri wese muri mwe afite inyungu zabo bwite kandi akunda, igice cyawe kigomba kubabubaha. Niba ugerageza gukosora umuntu, noneho ukemure umubano wawe ku batoteza, kandi ntihari kure gutandukana. Gerageza gushaka ubwumvikane, reka tuvuge ko uwo mwashakanye akunda umupira, kandi ntushobora kubyihanganira umupira, kandi ntushobora kubyihanganira umupira, ukaba udashobora kubyihanganira, kuzimira muri boutique yibigo byubucuruzi. Ntugomba kumushinja mubintu bibi, gerageza kujyana nawe, unyizere, azashima iki kimenyetso kandi ubutaha azajya guhaha nawe.
Kugirango ukomeze umubano mwiza nabakunzi, ntukeneye kurahira
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Umva inama za bene wanyu
Ndetse na mbere yo kungurana impeta, abavandimwe kumpande zombi bazashishikazwa na gahunda zawe kandi bagerageza kwihindura. Birashoboka ko uzanyumva ibibazo nka: "Uzabyara ryari?", "He ujya mu biruhuko?", "Iyo tugura inzu?" Kandi mubisanzwe ntabwo ari inama gusa, ahubwo ni ugutanga Imana mubitekerezo byumuntu. Kugira ngo uzigame umubano mwiza nabakunzi, ntukeneye kurahira, umbwire witonze ko wumvise ibitekerezo byabo, ariko uzakora uko umeza numugabo wanjye. Ibyiza byose byari imitekerereze ya bene wabo, ugomba kubaho ubuzima mubihe byawe.